I don't know if she likes me. But I like her. What should I do?

One: Look at the color and want to feel it.

In the process of contact with girls, you should know her real intentions according to the content of the girl's conversation at that time and the way she talks to you.

F is a celebrity, lives cautiously and never accepts invitations from boys casually. Colleague Xiong decided to knock her heart with full enthusiasm and true feelings. When I invited F to the movies for the first time, F looked sorry and said to him, "No, I have to go home 10 every night." But the bear didn't flinch and finally succeeded in inviting his beloved girl. The secret is that bears are observant.

In fact, when you get along with a girl, if she is always absent-minded, perfunctory, or talks to you with a dull and boring expression, especially when it comes to love-related topics, she always turns away quickly, which shows that she is indifferent to your feelings, so you should go away. On the contrary, if she often talks to you with attachment and excitement, it means that she has a good impression on you and is very happy with you. I hope to get along with you and develop our friendship.

In the above example, the bear thought that if F really refused him, he would coldly say, "I have something to do, so I won't go!" " But F's eyes are not indifferent, and there seems to be an expectation. F has no obvious refusal, which means that her refusal contains some hint. F said 10 wants to go home, which means she can still accept his invitation as long as the bear sends her home before 10. It's that simple.

Two: observe the words and observe the colors.

It is often said that "love is like a battlefield", and boys should understand the truth that "all is fair in war". For girls' language, we should use a little reverse thinking method in time to make a satire. In this way, you can successfully "capture" the girl's heart in love.

Some girls often call or write to their boyfriends and say, "I'm too busy recently, and I really can't see you." "I want to travel alone and relax, so I can't see you recently." If you believe it, you are a fool. If she is really so busy, how can she have time to call or write to complain to you?

In fact, girls always like their boyfriends to pay attention to and care about her in love. So many girls tell their boyfriends that she is busy when they are bored, and tell you that she can't see you because she has too many dates when she has no other appointments. Her real intention is to attract your attention in this way. If you really believe her and think it is considerate of her, say to her, "Since you are so busy, let's talk about it later." This can only cause girls' disappointment. In this case, if you say so, you will definitely win the girl's heart.

"Really so busy? Can't you spare some time to see me? " "Although you are so busy, you must come to the appointment tomorrow, even if it is half an hour." Remember: in this case, the real intention of the girl is: "Although I am very busy, if you ask me out, I can still make time for the appointment." A girl thinks that if you love her deeply, you won't care how busy she is and ask her out on a date.

Three: listening to taste

In love, boys should grasp the implication of a girl according to her tone of voice.

When Ping came home from work, she saw Hao, the right person to walk in front of her. She got off the bus and asked excitedly, "Why didn't you ride a bike?" "I want to go by myself!" Hao was very excited and answered with a smile.

"You are really unpredictable." Ping glanced at it and said. Hao sensitively realized something: "We are pushing the car slowly. Isn't this a wonderful picture?" Here, Ping said, "It's really unpredictable." In fact, this means that she has already felt the charm of Hao. Because men's unfathomable is also a kind of charm. When Ping knows something about Hao, but she doesn't know much about it, she will feel the attraction of Hao to her. It was two times that Hao walked in the street, and with a soft and trembling voice, he tasted the lingering sound of "You are really unpredictable" and responded.

In the world of love, there are various ways to guess a girl's heart. The key is that you should observe more, be careful, accumulate experience and master certain skills, and then you will feel the infinite pleasure of "but I feel the harmonious heartbeat of the sacred unicorn" with the girl.

From a small perspective: can she always pay attention to you, and does her mood change with your mood?

If she cares about you,

Talk to you or find something to talk about.

If she is shy, she may blush when talking to you.

If she likes you, she will also take the initiative to chat with you.

The key is to see if you are attractive.

If you think you can impress her,

that's no problem

You should observe her actions, words and deeds.

Very small things can be reflected.

I wish you success!

From a psychological point of view, I know a lot about girls' psychology. Most girls don't take the initiative to pursue the boys they like, unless they really like them too much or are the kind of girls who are very brave and brave. So, if you like a girl very much and think she is a little interested in you, take the initiative and don't have a tug-of-war with her, which will make you feel bad. Maybe the person you like will also suffer.

Any girl's psychology is very complicated when she is chased. She may be happy, but she is a little scared. She has ambivalence towards the boy who intruded into her quiet life. She didn't mean to. Don't think she is testing you. She's actually fighting herself. She is afraid of being hurt.

Don't be afraid that your initiative will bring her disgust. If you don't take the initiative, she won't take the initiative, and it will fade slowly. If your initial confession is rejected by her, it is normal. Don't be discouraged. Who knows what this girl is thinking?

Maybe if you confess twice, she will be moved by you. Kind girls are easily moved.

If you encounter setbacks, leave immediately, never reply to this girl again, protect yourself tightly and lick the wound silently. When you are in pain, as everyone knows, that girl may regret it in her heart. Maybe she will secretly cry and regret rejecting you, and it will be sad to see your indifferent eyes again, but she won't tell you and won't let you come back to chase her. Your excessive self-esteem may hurt a girl's sensitive heart.

She will think that you don't really like him, otherwise how could you just give her up?

Some people say that it is really difficult for boys to chase girls. But my feeling is that this phenomenon is inseparable from the social role orientation of men and women. From a physiological and social point of view, women are always passive. If, on the other hand, men are ashamed and women are brave, the world will be in a mess! Women's shyness is always beautiful ~ ~ ~ I always hear that a brave man overcame many difficulties and finally won the heart of a beautiful woman. There are few examples to the contrary.

Some boys are afraid that others will say that they are persistent and will bring them a bad reputation. However, I think that boys pursue the girl they like and continue to be kind to this girl after some setbacks, which shows that people really like it and are sincere. If they don't succeed, they will not regret it. It's nothing. Who makes people like it? I hate people blindly following me, and I hate boys who have no opinions and care too much about what others think of them. They deserve not to find a girlfriend.

If you are a man, be brave. Girls are emotional and easily immersed in love. Although you work hard, once your heart touches her, you will get more and more love. Such examples can be seen everywhere. Girls are gentle and considerate to their boyfriends. What is the sweetness that the initial efforts have brought? And most good girls are devoted and single-minded.

Therefore, it is suggested that some boys be brave and pursue the girls they like, instead of being so timid. One is that people think you are unmanly, and the other is that you feel uncomfortable. But, most importantly, you get nothing in the end. Happiness is always earned by yourself. Don't expect others to give it to you!

The most painful thing is not lovelorn and unrequited love, but that people who really love each other can't be together ~!

The furthest distance in the world is not the distance, but the difficulty of communication between hearts ~!

The most precious thing in the world is not what you can't get or have lost, but the present "happiness" ~!

Meeting the right person at the right time is a lifelong happiness.

It is heartbreaking to meet the wrong person at the right time.

It is absurd to meet the wrong person at the wrong time.

Meeting the right person at the wrong time is a sigh.

Your favorite often won't choose you;

What loves you most is often not what you love most;

And the longest is neither your favorite nor your favorite.

Just the one who showed up at the right time.

Love is pain, love is happiness, love is happiness, love is sadness, love is greatness, love is selfishness and love is helplessness. ......

Every girl is an angel. When she meets someone she loves, she will cry. Angels shed tears and fell to earth, so every boy should cherish his girl, because she once gave up the whole heaven for you.

With your son's sixth sense.

If you like her, treat her wholeheartedly. If she treats you as an ordinary friend, give it up.

If you don't like her, don't react to her attitude, or she will feel cheated.

When you are in love, you are drunk, and you have no regrets when you love deeply.

It is wrong to miss you and forget you. I'd rather feel sorry for my back.

Don't blame the sky, don't blame others. Life is just a dream.

I'm used to seeing flowers bloom and thank, but I'm afraid that the cause will die out.

Pretend to be sick, see her reaction, and see how much she cares about you.

How many people give advice? It's amazing. It seems that everyone has a love experience.

I think when you approach her, she looks a little shy, which shows that he is interested in you. When you talk to her, she blushes a little, which means that he has you in his heart. She ran away shyly when you confessed to her. It means she loves you. If you don't have the above points, she is not interested in you.

If you encounter specific things in your life, such as money, interests, honor, etc. If he really loves you, he will abandon everything and be with you regardless. If not, he has scruples or reservations, you should consider pulling.

If she likes you, she will care about everything about you and even be interested in all the topics about you. Maybe there is a way to treat you differently from others, but you need to discover it slowly. If you like that girl, what you have to do now is not to repeatedly guess whether she likes you or not, but to seize every opportunity and know how to impress her. Even if she lingers on the edge of liking or not liking you, she will become fond of you. Come on! !

When you are near her, she looks a little shy, which shows that he is interested in you. When you talk to her, she blushes a little, which means that he has you in his heart. She ran away shyly when you confessed to her. It means she loves you. If you don't have the above points, she is not interested in you.

If she likes you, she will care about everything about you and even be interested in all the topics about you. Maybe there is a way to treat you differently from others, but you need to discover it slowly. If you like that girl, what you have to do now is not to repeatedly guess whether she likes you or not, but to seize every opportunity and know how to impress her. Even if she lingers on the edge of liking or not liking you, she will become fond of you.

You said she looked like your former classmate!

She will think it is true that no woman wants to be a substitute for a man.

Pin, it's simple. You like her very much. Let her continue your relationship.

If you really like this girl now, you can take it out.

Be sincere, or you will really lose it, and you will regret it then.

Or you should think about it from another angle. Who do you really like, the old one?

Is she still her?

Vasai! Did you listen to fm 10 1.8+0.8 yesterday or the day before yesterday?

As follows:

Happiness used to be so close to me, and I just, passed it by.

My letter

I put the letter here. Like a little girl who has read many fairy tales, I put the letters to you one by one at the back of a thick computer dictionary. I know you are used to coming here to look up information. I hope that one day, when you pick up the dictionary, you can see these letters I wrote to you. Since I met you, I wrote one and put it here. I hope you can understand my heart when you read these letters. I met you at the beginning of my freshman year. You rushed to the library and knocked off my whole book. You help me pick up my book awkwardly, while apologizing anxiously. I watched you quietly put the book in my hand and then smiled at me. At that moment, all the sunshine was in my eyes. I don't know how to find your name and department. I can't tell the name of the boy who just touched my book and smiled all over the sun. Therefore, I can only choose to follow you into the reading room of the library. There you pick up a thick computer dictionary. I think you may be a computer major. But if I ask you now, what's your name? Will it be considered as a girl who is not reserved? Do you believe in love at first sight? I didn't believe it before, but now I believe it. The first day I met you, I knew that love at first sight really existed in the world.

I

I'm here to sort out the letters I met when I was looking up the computer dictionary.

I've always wondered who the girl who wrote this letter is. She carefully recorded her feelings for the boy by writing letters, and then quietly buried it here. A whole stack, thick.

If no one had been to those bookshelves for years, maybe I wouldn't have found those letters. I wouldn't have found these letters if I didn't need to look up these old computer terms. Perhaps, this is fate.

I didn't finish reading this letter at once because I needed a long rest.

I just experienced a car accident during my trip. I was lucky to survive, but my physical strength was not as good as before. On that day, I was going to visit Jiuzhaigou, but my bus fell off a cliff, killing 5 people and injuring more than 20 people. Wrist fracture was hit on the head and lost a cast for two months.

One of the five people killed was a girl from our school. That day, I saw her mother run all the way to the operating room, and the heartbreaking cry echoed in the corridor of the hospital, which was particularly bleak. Her mother never let the doctor take the body to the morgue, and the cart was deadlocked beside me. * * On the wall, watching the cloth covering the girl's face slide down, the young face appeared in front of me.

If there is no blood in her face, she should be a delicate girl, and her eyes must be gentle and watery when she smiles. Soft hair is long and hangs quietly. However, she fell asleep forever and could never wake up.

I feel a little sorry, so I have to hold her crazy mother with healthy hands and let the doctor take the girl to the morgue. However, I don't know why a good woman is so strong. Soon, I was pushed away by her, and she cried and chased the cart away.

Ling Qiqi came to see me when I was in hospital. She is my only female friend, beautiful and sharp, and her grades are as good as mine. Only she deserves to be my friend. Because we are the same kind of people, always standing at the highest point, our eyes are disdainful.

Qiqi looked at me lightly and said, do you know? Unfortunately, the dead girl is only a freshman. Qi Qi's sadness and joy don't usually show on her face, so she is very cold.

I also think that girl is really a pity, but she is just a stranger to me, and that feeling will soon pass and disappear.

The girl who used to be in my school died like this, but I'm still alive. When I was discharged from the hospital and returned to school, I suddenly found that the letter at the back of the dictionary was all the voice of a girl.

My letter

You look very energetic in a blue shirt today. In fact, I have fantasized about being able to talk to you on my own initiative countless times. However, I have no courage. I can only secretly look at your beautiful eyes and lonely smile. I don't know why you always look through those thick computer dictionaries. You must be a boy who loves learning. However, in this way, I can hide the letter behind the books you often read. I really hope that one day you can find them, and then you can understand that someone likes you so much. Since I met you, I remember you said something to me. It was September of February1year, and I remember it very clearly. You said to me when you passed me, classmate, you dropped something. It is such a sentence that makes me so satisfied. However, I really hope that one day, you can come and call my name and ask me if you can know me. When you handed me something, you gave me that sunny smile again. I just looked at you and didn't speak. I don't think you know me, who I am, and forget that one day soon after school started, you knocked off a girl's book here and broke her heart at the same time. Do you often get such eyes, so you just smile indifferently, put my things on the table, and then turn around and leave. My heart plummeted like a plane crash, and the cold in the fire made me shiver. The bright autumn sunshine warms my desk. But looking at your back, my tears hit the wooden table in the library, which I can never do.

I

Continue to read this silly girl's letter in your spare time. I think I should help her find a boy she likes. I'm going to give the letter to the boy she likes, and then tell him how fragile a heart you have lost. But there are so many boys in our department. Who does she like? When I was sitting in the library, I began to pay attention to those people who walked to the computer dictionary shelves. Some people went, but none of them always smelled of sunshine when they smiled, as she described. They are just trying to cope with the exam, and they are pulling a sad face near the exam. After class, Ling Qiqi told me that the professor asked me to go to his office. Ling Qiqi said, Cheng Mo, don't be convinced by the professor's words. Get ready to go to graduate school. Are you going to America or not? When you speak, your voice is so high that people can't ignore it. I walked to the professor's office with a smile. The professor shook his gray hair and asked me, "Cheng Mo, are you really going to give up graduate school?" ? The professor is from the north. He speaks with a curly tongue and a funny voice. I said yes, I gave up, that is, I gave up. The rest I blurted out almost without thinking: it took me two years to take the GT exam and nearly half a year to apply. Now that I survived the car accident, Harvard's OFFER may be coming soon. Do you only want me to be a graduate student in this school? The professor looked at me and sighed deeply. My eyes peeked out of the window. The sun shone brightly on the professor's desk, and I remembered the scene mentioned in the girl's letter. She looked at the back of the person she liked, and tears fell in the sun. My heart hurts a little. Don't, that boy really don't understand, the girl's heart? When I came out of the office, I saw Ling Qiqi waiting for me. She looked at me and smiled proudly, and I smiled back. We are the same people. I once thought about my future love, and the girls around me should be as proud and excellent as Ling Qiqi and be comfortable in their careers. However, is a sharp woman like Qiqi willing to be by my side instead of showing her peacock-like light? A strange idea suddenly occurred to me. If the girl I love is a letter writer, will I be happier?

My letter

I finished reading a letter from a strange woman in the library. You sat on top of me and lay there as if you had fallen asleep. It's already October. Will you catch a cold lying like this? I really want to dress you and tell you to take care of yourself. But I still don't know you. I don't know your name. I only know that you are in the computer department. I can't secretly call you "dear" like the woman in the book, because we didn't have any intersection from the beginning, either physically or verbally. Just, at the beginning of my freshman life, you knocked over my book; On September 2 1, you picked up what I lost. Other than that, there is nothing. However, if one day you receive my letter, will you laugh at it? Who is such a stupid girl? Or you can just throw the letter aside and say who it is or who it is, which has nothing to do with you. Now, I really want to wake you up. The taste of a cold is really unpleasant. I can't smell anything. I wake up every morning with a dry and bitter throat. I feel like I have a crush on you. You may not know this feeling, or there are too many girls secretly looking at you. Too much, you accept that kind of gaze. You still don't understand a girl's heart. I really want to go and wake you up. I made countless decisions in my mind, pretending to bump into you inadvertently and then waking you up. When I finally made up my mind to stand up, you woke up, grabbed your hair and continued reading the dictionary. Maybe I wasted another chance to get to know you. However, I told myself that it doesn't matter, as long as you are good, the whole world is sunny, just like the sunshine now.

I

I even wonder if the boy in her letter is me. But I don't think it's possible. I wear near-500-degree myopia glasses, and I have no sunshine when I smile. I'm not as enthusiastic as she said in her letter. I hate hot food. I'm flying and I never look at anything else when I walk. My grades are among the best. Generally speaking, it is not a problem to get an OFFER from Harvard. Someone once said, why can't Cheng Mo find a girlfriend? That's because all the girls in the school stood on tiptoe and couldn't touch his sleeve except Ling Qiqi. I laughed off such comments, but there is no denying that my pride is deeply rooted and cannot be changed. I should not be able to give her the feeling of warmth and sunshine. Today, I am sitting in the position mentioned in that girl's letter. I think if she comes, I must tell her that I have her letter. But I didn't wait for that girl. I am waiting for Ling Qiqi. She sits opposite me, Cheng Mo. Have dinner with me. Qiqi has a beautiful smile on her face, but her tone does not allow others to refuse. She always does. When I left my seat, I looked at this sunny place with great nostalgia. Maybe after a while, the girl who wrote the letter will come. Look at the way I haven't moved for a long time. Qiqi was a little angry and pulled me out. Walking out of the library, she faced the sun and left her shadow to me. She said, Cheng Mo, if we get the acceptance letter from Harvard together, can you, can you meet my boyfriend? I looked at her in surprise. Ling Qiqi turned to look into my eyes and said to me slowly, Cheng Mo, I like you.

My letter

I finally know a lot of things. Like your name, your age, everything you have. /kloc-In the sunshine in October/February, I suddenly felt so cold. I can't accept that you will leave soon. Why did God play such a joke on me, so that I met you when I first went to college? You still go to the library every day, few people accompany you, and occasionally boys and girls ask you questions. I look at you from a distance, and I wonder, if I don't get to know you now, will I miss this opportunity forever? But even if I walk in front of you, will you look at me? I think I've lost a lot of weight at once, and all the good days I thought of have disappeared. What kind of life do I want? If possible, I just want to sit on your mountain bike. Like those soap operas, my long hair brushed your face, and when I turned around, it was your smiling face. My classmates looked at my sudden tears and asked in surprise, are you sick? I shook my head and nodded. I pointed to my chest and told her that it hurt, like wearing a big hole, and it hurt terribly.

I

When I was in the library, I received an OFFER from Harvard, which Qiqi helped me get. She shook the same gift in her hand with a triumphant smile on her beautiful face. She came up to me and said, Cheng Mo, say you love me. This is the case with July 7th. Unlike that silly girl who writes letters, Qiqi is confident and says that love is so direct. Kiki, look at me, Cheng Mo. What's the matter with you? I've always thought you've been different since the car accident. You are always in a daze. I smiled and answered nothing. Lower your head and open the last letter. This is the last letter. I wonder if she has met a boy she likes, and then they are very happy together. But all of a sudden, I felt a little lost. I will never see such a letter again. Is this letter the beginning or the end of a relationship? I don't know. But what is this loss? Is it for the letter that will never be found, or the girl that may never be found? I don't know, not at all.

My letter

Cheng Mo, 0 1 class in Computer Department, is a senior, giving up graduate school, and Harvard is the ultimate goal.

Cheng Mo, the legendary boy loved by Ling Qiqi, the first beauty in computer science department.

Cheng Mo, everyone says that all the girls in school can't reach his sleeve on tiptoe.

Cheng Mo, my eyes are full of sunshine, a boy who is used to reading computer dictionaries in the library.

Cheng Mo, the boy I love. On the school BBS, there is a post from Cheng. He wants to go to Jiuzhaigou on New Year's Day, and he is looking for a fellow traveler.

Cheng Mo said that he likes snow, and Jiuzhaigou is full of snow. That kind of white and flawless place is not in the world, it is given by heaven.

Cheng Mo said that in the future, his love should be in a large piece of snow, and he will meet his beloved in the place where snowflakes are flying.

I really want to see snowflakes floating on him and reflected in his sunshine pupils. I decided to go to Jiuzhaigou with him. In the snowy Jiuzhaigou, I will walk up to him and say to him, "Cheng Mo, I'm Yan Xiaodi. Cheng Mo, do you know that I like you? "

I

I froze. July 7th kept shouting, Cheng Mo Cheng Mo, what's the matter with you? I suddenly stood up like a madman, ran to the reference room and found the newspaper on the day of my accident. The headline reads, "The tourist bus fell into a deep valley, killing five people and injuring twenty others. One of the deceased was a student of Chengdu X University. " My fingers kept shaking when I rubbed the word "Yan". There seems to be a girl's gentle voice in my ear: Cheng Mo, I'm Yan Xiaodi. Cheng Mo, do you know that I like you? I remember when her body passed me, her mother and the doctor argued. Is it God's arrangement to let her pass me at the last minute? However, I pushed her away. Even if she died, I didn't give her a chance. My eyes suddenly shed liquid that has not flowed out for a long time, and my voice choked louder and louder. Finally, the warning reference room was filled with my crying voice. My heart aches badly. I am my heartache. Can Xiao Di feel it? In the exhibition, I finally came to Xiao Di's grave. The first time I saw her clearly, there was a gentle smile under her soft hair. However, we missed it after all. If you miss it, there will never be someone at the right time and place to save it. I finally understand that in the end, in this story, I, just, passed by happiness.