Are you still sleepless on Friday night? A complete guide to picking up girls in the best nightclubs

Picking up girls in nightclubs

I believe that many brothers like to go to nightclubs to pick up girls. There are many girls in nightclubs and the quality is good. Moreover, although there are some girls from good families who go to nightclubs in the middle of the night, most of them go with the mentality of chasing men, so the success rate of picking up girls in nightclubs is higher. Are you still having trouble sleeping alone on Friday night? Let’s take a look at the most powerful guide to picking up girls in nightclubs in history.

Part One: Preparation

Indeed, the biggest natural enemy of ordinary men is nightclubs. Many people say that it is very difficult to pick up girls in nightclubs, and all the pick-up techniques cannot be used. But it also has things that ordinary dating can't match: quick approach, direct physical contact, and groups of beautiful women that you simply don't encounter during the day.

Who to go with?

Simple, go with your best buddies. However, if your goal is to pick up a beautiful woman, then I don’t recommend going with too many men. I'll elaborate on this later.

If your friends don’t like going to nightclubs and feel like it’s not a place they’re used to, then you can try challenging yourself. Some people in the college go to nightclubs alone. Personally, I never do this and only go with friends. I wouldn't recommend going there alone, especially if you have no experience with it.

Dressing up to pick up girls in nightclubs

Your nightclub attire is always very important. Some of my friends who go out to nightclubs with me often dress sloppily. You are here to pick up girls, not to move bricks! You must have unique and outstanding clothing, otherwise you will definitely be eliminated at first sight. I will wear a nice shirt, pants and shoes. These outfits can make you stand out and make you stand out from others.

At the same time, you must dress yourself appropriately. Shave and comb your hair before going out.

In addition, you'd better make sure your phone has enough power to collect the number, or use text messages to hook up with WeChat after collecting the number.

Drinking to pick up girls in nightclubs?

This is just a small problem. A lot of people in the academy say you shouldn't drink too much when you go to a nightclub, as it will hinder your ability to pick up girls. I don't agree with this view. I think drinking is an important part of the clubbing experience.

You should drink some wine to cheer yourself up. The more you drink, the more confident you will be. Therefore, I think you should drink until you feel happy, but never get drunk!

Dancing to pick up girls in nightclubs

This is the most important part of the nightclub. However, is this why people go to nightclubs? If you can't dance, your chances of picking up beautiful women will definitely be greatly reduced, but this is just a small obstacle.

There is a way to become the king of the dance floor, and that way is practice. This sounds difficult, but if you want to grab a high-scoring girl in a nightclub, you have to do it.

This is what I did...

First, I watched some simple introductory videos on the Internet to understand other people's dance steps, and then practiced in front of the mirror in my room.

I also learned online that taking Salsa dance classes can improve your dancing skills. So I signed up and it gave me a lot of fun and gave me the confidence to dance.

Just like that, I started to feel invincible. I went to the nightclub and danced like crazy. I felt like I was definitely going to get a girl.

However, a friend told me that I danced like a gay...so I looked in the mirror and observed my dance moves. I couldn't believe how I looked. My body movements were very wild and indulgent, but the biggest problem was that my hips were twisted like Tsai Kang-yong.

I seem to have gone from one extreme to the other. I used to be too inferior and stiff in my movements, but now I have become overconfident and unrestrained in my movements. So I started exercising some self-control, trying not to rock my hips too much, and working harder on my legs.

It makes me look so much prettier on the dance floor. Even though I'm not the best dancer in the world, my dancing skills continue to improve and there seems to be no end in sight. In fact, every time I dance, I improve. That's why I say practice is the best way to improve.

I also think it would be helpful to add more variety to your dance moves. In the nightclub, every guy dances in the same way, and it doesn't change all night long. And I love changing my dance steps to the song.

So, in short, practice, practice, practice, that's the only way you're going to improve.

In addition, please be careful not to be too wild and indulgent. Pay attention to the rhythm of your steps and reduce upper body twisting. So as not to look gay.

Also, add a little more variety to your dance.

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Part 2: Methods

The most important thing is of course the method to pick up girls. Now, you are in a nightclub and want to find a female companion, what should you do?

At the bar

You come to the bar to buy a drink and find a few hot girls right next to you. So what do you do?

You turn to one of them, smile and say, "Hey! Did you have fun?" It's that simple, and that's your icebreaker. Generally speaking, she will definitely give you a warm response, unless she is scheming. If this is the case, you'd better leave her quickly.

At this point, you can start introducing yourself. If after introducing yourself, you feel you have nothing to say, you can say something like, "I don't think I've seen you here before," and that's it, you can lead to a conversation that can be used anywhere. For example, you can comment on the service of this store, which has a lot to say. You can talk about a lot of things from this topic. Try to use your imagination.

On the dance floor

Now, the friends in the circle you left are dancing on the dance floor. How do you make a move on pretty girls? (Note: This tip is useful for newbies or very shy people)

As I said before, it's best to dance in small groups. Dancing alone makes you feel like a friendless loser. Usually two people are fine, but it's a bit like homosexuality. So I think it’s most suitable for three people to go together, four people are fine, and five people are okay. Any more will not be suitable and will make some simple methods of picking up girls unusable. A large group of people dancing together, like a bunch of brothers going out for a party. A small group will be more approachable. I've noticed that many beauties usually go to nightclubs in groups to dance, so you can do the same.

Now, you leave your small circle, dance on the dance floor, and eye a group of beautiful women dancing together. So, you gradually move towards them until you come to them. You can nuzzle one of them, or try to squeeze into their circle. Once you successfully break into them, you've succeeded.

I found that the above method is more respectable and easier to succeed than the method of rubbing behind a beautiful woman.

The “Traditional” Method

This is a time-honored technique that is the basis for all methods of picking up girls. You should know. You were in a nightclub and you spotted a beautiful woman. At this point, you should make eye contact with her. Once she looks at you, give her a smile. If she smiles back at you, wave to her, then walk over to her and introduce yourself. That's it, it's very simple!

You are dancing with the pretty girl now

Yes, this part is simple common sense. I once saw beauties approaching some boys on the dance floor and rubbing their vaginas against them provocatively, but these boys just stood there, dancing stiffly, thinking: "Oh my God! This is She’s so right! What should I do?” Most of you can ignore this part, but if you are the kind of guy I’m talking about, then keep reading.

So, you are on the dance floor, dancing with the hot girl you just made eye contact with.

She teases you and you rub her vagina. But what do you do next?

Of course, every situation is unique, and there's no set way to pick up girls on the dance floor. However, here are some general processes that I use for reference.

You danced with her, introduced yourself, and after dancing for a few minutes, you pulled her over, looked into her eyes, and gave her a kiss. All the above actions should be performed gently and slowly, without tongue kissing, unless she takes the initiative. Then, step back and look at her with a smile. If she does the same, continue with the technique above, but this time use a tongue kiss, but do it slowly.

Seize the moment and move your hands to her ***. If she doesn't want to, she will usually give a polite gesture of rejection, but most beauties like this. After doing this for a while, stroke her body upward until you touch her breasts and rub them gently.

Likewise, if she doesn't want to, she will make it clear. If so, she probably won't go home with you tonight, so the best way is to give her a kiss, then ask for her phone number, and end the conversation.

Anyway, if she is okay with you rubbing her breasts, keep it that way for a while, then move your lips to her ear and whisper, "Want to get out of here?" If she He answered in the affirmative and took her away. If she refuses, either ask for her phone number and end it, or take her back to your booth, or change the scene to create a happy atmosphere.

If she's wearing a separate top, then...

Keep kissing her, but, after a while, stick your hand under her top. If she doesn't object to what you're doing, the evening will definitely be delicious. If she lets you play with her breasts like this, use your other hand to guide her around you.

Keep this state for a while, then take your hand away, touch her belly, and then insert it into her vagina. Use your fingers to tease her and guide her hand to a deeper place. After a while, gently ask her in her ear: "Do you really don't want to leave here together?" If she still refuses, it's mostly due to ASD. Give her some safe and considerate reasons, such as taking her for a drink exclusively, and then Take it home without asking her permission.

Okay, that’s pretty much all I want to say about picking up girls in nightclubs. The above methods all come from my many years of experience in nightclubs. Good luck and hope this post is useful to you.

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Bai Fumei’s Tips for Picking Up Girls in Nightclubs

Nightclubs are places with relatively high energy in the city, whether you are chatting up strange girls or having sex with them. To flirt with a girl you already know, a nightclub is always a good choice. Although the success rate of picking up girls in nightclubs is much higher than in everyday situations, this does not mean that you can pick up girls as long as you go to a nightclub to have a drink and dance for a while.

1. Choose a nightclub that suits you

The "suitable for you" here is divided into two aspects: First, the nightclub style is suitable for your own social style. For example, the nightclub in Gongti is more suitable for friends. Party, work together on PickUp; while Guomao nightclubs are more private and suitable for taking girls to further build intimacy. Nightclubs in different regions have their own relatively obvious styles. We cannot change the overall atmosphere of the nightclub, so we must choose a venue that suits our own social style. The second is that the female audience of nightclubs is suitable for their own choice. Corresponding to the style of nightclubs, the audience groups in different regions are also different. For example, the high-scoring girls with dami style are mostly in nightclubs in Gongti, and those who want to date *** should Go to Wudaokou.

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2. Understand the recent theme activities of major nightclubs in advance

Today, with the rapid development of social platforms, any decent nightclub will have its own publicity. ***WeChat or official Weibo, you can learn about the latest nightclub activities through these methods.

The reputation of a nightclub is not only judged by its daily attendance, but also accumulated by some of its theme activities. Learn about the activities of different nightclubs in advance and choose the one that suits you best. Of course, you need to do some work before going. For example, for a uniform party, you need to wear a uniform that day, and for a fluorescent party, of course, glow sticks and laser trinkets are indispensable. Even if these preparations cannot make you the center of attention, at least they will not make you embarrassed in public. After all, good "equipment" can improve "combat effectiveness."

3. Don’t hesitate before speaking

In my opinion, hesitating before approaching a girl is definitely a taboo in nightclubs. It has never been easy to attract high-scoring girls, and usually most high-scoring women are a bit "cheesy". They don't need your deliberate pleasing at all, but prefer to be conquered. Just imagine, before you strike up a conversation with a high-scoring girl, you hesitate in front of her and her eyes wander. As long as this woman has some IQ, she will know your purpose. So, as a high-scoring girl, would she date someone who is hesitant to even talk to her?

4. Choose one or two cocktails that suit you

Usually from Bad Boy Academy Offline activities are all collective actions. Of course, it is not suitable for a group of people to order a table of cocktails in a nightclub. But this does not rule out the possibility that you may have a whim one day and want to hunt for sex alone. Opening a bottle of wine in a booth by yourself is too easy to reveal your sense of need, so when you go to a nightclub alone, I recommend ordering a cocktail. Of course, the cocktails in every nightclub are different, but there are some classics that any nightclub will have. My favorite is the Margarita, not only because of its poignant love story, but also because it was the first cocktail I ever drank, and it happened to taste good. There is a story behind most cocktails, which can start the conversation between you and the girl. Between the wine and the person, there is no need to worry about having nothing to talk about.

5. Make dancing the primary purpose on the dance floor

I believe that the primary purpose of many people taking girls to dance on the dance floor is to upgrade Kino. Indeed, compared to the overall environment, The dance floor can be considered the most energetic place in a nightclub. But if your purpose of moving to the dance floor is just for a simple Kiss or Kino upgrade, etc., then you will really let this place down. In my opinion, the ultimate purpose of going to the dance floor is to arouse a girl's emotional upgrading. Women are usually more emotional and have stronger emotional needs. If you want to arouse a girl's emotions, you must first have a positive emotion yourself, so dance with all your heart on the dance floor, and this will drive your goals. Trust me, positivity is contagious.

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Men must learn tricks to pick up girls in nightclubs

When you go to a nightclub, what else can you do besides drinking and dancing? Pick up girls! The answer is correct, then in the nightclub What are the strategies for pursuing girls? Let’s take a look!

Tip 1: Refuse to form a group

Brother, going to a nightclub is not about online group shopping for home appliances. The number of girls in nightclubs is limited. Good quality ones are even rarer. Who do you want to compete with when you form a group? Moreover, there is also a psychological problem here. If you are alone, the girl will feel less threatened and may even take the initiative to approach you. If you take a pack of wolves to eat sheep, it would be strange if the sheep don't run away.

Tip 2, Three-Second Rule

The three-second rule means that you should approach a woman within 3 seconds of seeing her for the first time. This is done to prevent men from thinking too much and becoming nervous, and to avoid scaring a woman away by staring at her for too long.

The lights in the nightclub are dim and the sound is noisy. This is also the best time to "hunt". If you like a girl, make eye contact with her without interruption, because human eyes can speak. . After watching for a while, you go directly to her and say: "Hi! How are you doing today? Are you just going to look at me like this and do nothing? Let's go and dance together!"

Tip Three: Grasp the Rhythm

This is difficult. You'd better know some music. Different music rhythms have different contact methods.

In the beginning, any form of direct touching will cause her to become alert. However, as the rhythm of the music changes, an inadvertent touch can happen to have a better effect. Especially the rhythms of some Latin music styles are cheerful and joyful, with large range of movements and many opportunities for contact. At this time, seize the opportunity and don't miss a good opportunity.

Smile like a flower

Tip 4: Break out head-on

This statement sounds a bit explicit, but it is actually a psychological insight. Many novices in nightclubs always start with She is embarrassed and always likes to dance back to back with girls, or dance behind girls. In fact, this is a psychological misunderstanding. Behind the scenes is what they are most afraid of, because they can't see you. Only by daring to confront each other head-on can we advance to the next stage.

Tip 5: Drink in moderation

Don’t drink anything strong when inviting a girl to a nightclub, because we just want to find a girl and have a good time together. Therefore, drinking wine is also very skillful. Try to choose soft drinks. Also, you can't drink too much. If you're already down, what's the point of having a girl?

Tip 6: Read the hints

There are various "hints" in nightclubs. If you are a veteran, you must know that when you invite a girl to dance, she will not object. , but you are not active either. You look around from time to time, which proves that you are not recognized, and you can change people for the next dance. Also, if you're dancing next to a girl and she responds by calling all her "wingmen" back, you should leave quickly. Calibrate the bullseye and choose what’s most important to you.

More tips: late-night wantonness does not mean debauchery

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