Occasionally refuse a lover's date

It is actually a rare move in our life to refuse a lover's date occasionally, but in feelings, proper refusal can make the other person cherish your feelings, which is also a way to maintain feelings. The following is an understanding of occasionally refusing lovers to date.

Occasionally refuse a lover's date 1 1. Don't think that you don't need a phone every day.

Telephone is the best tool of ambiguity, because it opens the distance, and distance can produce beauty best. If you have an appointment, even if you are completely in time, you can call him and tell him where you have been, or ask him to buy you something to eat or drink ─ "Help me see what to buy, you know what I like to eat". This sentence must be added. This sentence tickles men's hearts and enhances their sense of ambiguity.

2. Learn to bend down and pick things up in front of him, not too close or too far, preferably one meter to one and a half meters.

Don't underestimate this action, it is a very sexy action, with a little temptation. Generally speaking, many men will open their eyes when a woman bends down to pick up something, because that is the time when a woman is most likely to be naked, and of course it is also the most ambiguous moment. As long as you do this well, the rest is his business, not yours.

3. Hold your cheek and don't talk.

The moment when a woman drags her cheeks and doesn't talk is the most attractive moment, giving people a feeling of innocence. So, when dating him in the park, you can look at the stars, look at the clouds and meditate. Men usually like and respect thoughtful and deep women.

Don't let him touch your body, let him think that you are still a reserved woman.

But you can take the initiative to contact his body, the frequency is lower. For example, if he says he is not feeling well, you can naturally touch his forehead, then touch your own and ask him if he is all right. Or lean on his shoulder when waiting for the subway together and say, "I'm tired, stand up straight, let me lean for a while."

If he goes to another city for short-term business or tourism and is not with you, then you must send him a text message at night.

Express your loneliness implicitly, or simply say that you miss him, and then turn off your phone and sleep. Such a short message will make him sleep well. You are sure to receive several messages from him the next morning.

6. Be good at using quarrels.

The life department may only be sweet, and it will be especially sweet when mixed with other flavors. Occasionally make trouble without reason, coquetry and complain, and finally leave angrily. Such occasional rudeness will make you feel different. But remember, turn away gracefully, make him unresponsive, and then chase you decisively.

7. When it is cold, put your cold little hand into his clothes to keep warm.

But remember it's the upper body, not the lower body. If you don't put it in the back pocket of jeans, a man's lower body will burn easily. Such intimate contact can make him feel excited for an instant.

8. Be late for appointments occasionally.

But don't form a habit and don't be too late. 5 to 10 minutes is the best. When you arrive, remember, I'm sorry I'm late. Be late once in a while, let him wait for you, and keep you as a princess.

9, in the company collective dinner activities, might as well sit at a table with him, but don't take the initiative to sit next to him.

If he generously invites you to sit next to him, accept it generously. During the activity, I spent half my time with my female colleagues, and the rest of my time was allocated to him as appropriate. In this way, you will give him a feeling of generosity and propriety.

10, also want to refuse kissing, especially wet kissing.

If you can't, don't kiss him. Comfort him and kiss his face. Not too heavy. If you kiss him often, it will only give him a feeling that you are not too reserved. Point to stop, ambiguous and generous.

1 1, distance produces beauty, but it is not beautiful if it is too far away. Remember to pay attention to him.

Not just playing with him, of course. The key is to care about his career, work, health, family and so on. Let him know that you can be very helpful to him, and your concern for him involves all aspects.

12, women wearing professional clothes are the most attractive.

Give people a professional feeling, make people respect you, and make them feel that you are a capable person. Learn to smile professionally and wear professional women's clothes to meet him, that is, tell him that I am not a child, and you and I should not be too casual. Often this kind of dress can change a person.

13, don't think that dating must be a couple of months ago.

Don't always date in places where the light is not good enough or elegant enough. You can invite him to the concert hall, exhibition hall or something. Those elegant places can show your knowledge and taste, and make people feel that you are a woman with high taste, which will increase your charm and make men more intimate with you.

14, don't say anything too intimate when you are face to face, it will be too disgusting.

Don't let your eyes wander. If it is affectionate, say it on the phone. He can't see you on the phone, so he can show his charm. Try to keep the correct posture when dating, don't lie down, don't fall, stand more, and don't let yourself be in a passive state of national subjugation. After all, men still like to master women and take the initiative.

15, when two people are together, it is inevitable that there will be intimate actions.

Nowadays, many young men and women will make some overly affectionate actions in public, regardless of outsiders' eyes, which makes many outsiders sneer. Therefore, your intimate behavior can start with holding hands, hugging and kissing, but don't go any further. Further, you will make him think that you are a person who doesn't pay attention to occasions and outsiders' feelings, and you will think that you are a casual person. If you really want passion, please choose a good occasion.

In the process of love, ambiguity can give men some moderate resistance, so that they always have a desire, a desire to know you thoroughly. This is what people who really love and know how to love have to experience and do, because love itself is a war. Only such love can be noble and gorgeous. Of course, this scale is in your hand, too much will make him stay at a respectful distance from others, so be appropriate and ambiguous!

Occasionally refuse a lover's date. When dating, girls have these behaviors, which are actually rejecting you.

0 1, playing mobile phone all the time

If I like you and think you are interesting, I won't keep playing with my mobile phone. It is precisely because this date is boring and I am not interested in you that I have been playing with my mobile phone to ease this embarrassment. Maybe they are just pretending to play with their mobile phones, turning a deaf ear to your words, just a few simple words.

This kind of performance can already be seen that they are rejecting you. They don't want to have further development with you, and they can't find a suitable reason to leave for the time being, so they have to use this method.

02, don't go to more private environment with you.

For example, cinemas, parks and other places with few people are reluctant to go with you even during the day, because they are not at ease and will be embarrassed in this environment.

Of course, there are also some girls who are more reserved and will choose this way when they are not very familiar. Therefore, this is also a warning to boys not to be too impatient when pursuing girls.

03. Reject your further invitation.

Generally speaking, there will be more than one activity when dating. Eating and watching movies is the most basic. If you invite a girl to go to the movies after dinner, she refuses, which means she may not want to have further contact with her.

There is also sending her home after the date, and she also refused, or resolutely refused. In this case, it is more obvious that I am rejecting you. I want to understand.

04. Always keep a certain distance from you.

When two people are on a date, she always keeps a certain distance from you. Even when you want to get close to her, she deliberately pulls away, indicating that her heart is resisting you.

If you have a good feeling in your heart, girls will not deliberately avoid casual contact when dating. By doing this, she also wants you to know that she doesn't like you and wants to keep her distance from you and give up early.

05. Don't reply to your message after separation.

After the date, boys usually send a message to the girl asking if she got home safely. At this time, the girl's reply to the message can't explain anything, which may be the most basic courtesy, but if the girl doesn't reply to the message, there is something wrong.

If the girl doesn't reply to the information at this time, she is completely uninterested in you and wants to let you back down in this way.

06. Don't take the initiative to refuse your consumption.

When dating, boys usually pay the bill. It was ok for the first time, but it has always been like this. Girls just stood by and didn't show the willingness to pay the bill. Such girls not only don't like you, but also treat you as a spare tire.

If a girl really likes you, she will try to lighten your burden. For example, if you pay for meals for two people this time, she will buy you a movie ticket.

07, completely ignoring your request.

She is not interested in what restaurant she wants to go to on a date. What movie did you say to see? She was not interested at all. For your request, she looked indifferent and completely ignored the past.

As for what you want, she doesn't care and won't say what she wants. Such a date is simply to find someone to accompany you, without any emotional communication.

If a girl shows these behaviors, it means that she doesn't like you. I suggest you stop asking her out. In fact, it's not bad to meet such a girl, which can also imply that you have been rejected. If you meet some love rat, even if you don't like it, you still won't show it and treat you as a spare tire.

So, once you find these manifestations, retreat.

Occasionally refuse a lover's date. When dating, these five performances of girls are very clear, that is, rejecting you.

I have been paying attention to my mobile phone.

When others are talking to you, it is respect and courtesy not to play with your mobile phone. Put yourself in others' shoes. You rack your brains to think about the topic in order to break the awkward atmosphere between you, but he is playing with his mobile phone, and he won't listen to anything you say. You called him several times before he came to his senses and asked you, "What did you just say?" You are sure to be angry.

Since she didn't want to know more about your desire, she agreed to your invitation, probably just eating and drinking.

I came to see you with a sad face.

To date the opposite sex, even lazy women will slap themselves. Even if it is a primer, it will make you look a lot better, but there is no trace of dress on her face, which is particularly casual, just that she has no idea about you.

Seeing your makeup doesn't mean anything. Maybe she just hasn't been out for a long time and finally has a chance to dress herself up. But seeing that you don't wear makeup, I advise you to give up. You don't deserve her to wear makeup. She doesn't care whether she is beautiful or ugly in your eyes.

Pay at the cashier or take AA with you.

When men and women meet for the first time, the default is that the man pays the bill. From this detail, we can directly see whether she is satisfied with you.

She acquiesced in your checkout, indicating that this date gave her a good impression, and she is also looking forward to contacting you next time. If she competes with you to pay, or if you pay, she will share with you, then you will pass. After this contact, she doesn't like you very much and doesn't want to take advantage of you economically.

Many stingy men, after being rejected for the first time, take money to talk about things. She doesn't know if you are such a person. In order to cut off this possibility, she would rather suffer some losses and pay the bill herself.

Refused to let you take her home after dinner.

After all, you dragged her out at night, and you have an obligation to send her home. Accidents are most likely to happen at night. In case you take the path, there are dangerous people hiding.

But at your repeated request, she refused your kindness, quickly stopped a taxi, opened the door to say goodbye to you and ran away. You look at the car that drove her away with disappointment and realize that your story has drawn a sentence here.

She sent you a WeChat when she got home, and then she was not as enthusiastic as before.

Reject your further arrangement

Generally speaking, there will be other activities after the appointment. It takes almost an hour for two people to eat and serve food, and then they will go home after dinner. That's boring. Walking or watching movies is a good choice to kill time and enhance understanding.

But she flatly rejected your next arrangement and said that she had something to do. I can assure you that this is definitely an excuse. She accepted your date first, which must make her free tonight. Then she suddenly said something was wrong, nothing more than that you didn't meet her expectations, and she didn't want anything to do with you.