What is the mood of a man being deleted by a woman?

As a man, the psychology of being deleted by WeChat needs specific analysis, which cannot be summarized in one sentence. There are mainly the following points.

First of all, it varies from person to person, because different people often have different intersections with us, and we invest different time and energy. So first of all, it depends on who is the person who deleted himself and what is the relationship. If it is a casual acquaintance, or an ordinary temporary business relationship, then you delete it. There will be no waves in my heart, and I won't even find myself deleted.

If we are good friends, when we are either in high spirits or haven't seen each other for a long time, we want to send a message, but we see the hint that we are no longer friends. In all fairness, the psychology of answering the Lord is to doubt first and then reflect. Doubt is asking yourself, how was it deleted? Reflection is, what did you do to make the other party delete it?

At this time, one will appear in my heart first? Fault tolerance mechanism? That is to say, I don't know whether the deletion is due to accidental deletion or misoperation. Then I will think further about whether to send an application to add friends' information.

If it can be confirmed that the deletion of the other party is 100% or a large proportion, it is not a misoperation, but intentional, then there will be corresponding psychology? Thinking mechanism? , what else? Comfort mechanism? .

So-called? Thinking mechanism? Is to treat the deleted event in a relatively rational way. In fact, being deleted means that you are no longer needed by that person, worthless and unsightly. In short, the other party made a choice and was eliminated. At this time, according to the distance between the deleting party and oneself, the psychology will fluctuate to varying degrees. However, at this time, if we have a clear conscience, or feel that our self-worth is still worthy of recognition after reflection, then the previous fluctuations or discomfort will be effectively alleviated, so as to enter? Comfort mechanism? .

And the so-called? Comfort mechanism? It is also a custom answer. To put it bluntly, it is to comfort yourself with your own words. For example, the deleted person thinks that I have occupied his friend's position, so it is no problem to release my position, leave it empty or give it to others. You can't say that you are a gentleman, but you must have a beautiful mind of an adult. It has always been our attitude to respect that person's choice and decision. Bless those who have had an intersection. Life is not easy in this world, and no one who cares can always accompany us. I hope the other party can take care and live a happy life.

However, if the relationship is particularly good, there won't be so many psychological activities above, or you can make a phone call directly, or you can directly verify the news, ask the other party if there is anything wrong, and give yourself a chance to talk to the other party again, because it is not easy to go from a stranger to a particularly good friend step by step. Listen to each other's voice, try to communicate again, see if there is any misunderstanding, and see if the road ahead is possible to go on together. It would be great if we could go back to being friends. If we can't, we will do our best, without regret, and still follow the above-mentioned principle of respect and apply it to ourselves? Comfort mechanism? . That's basically it.