You feel sorry for Lu Xinghe’s persistence, but why don’t you see Yu Huai’s forbearance?

After three months of chasing "The Best of Us", it finally comes to an end. It's rare to follow a drama so seriously in so many years. Some people say that it is because it is too similar to the youthful years we are familiar with. Although it seems ordinary, it really seems to have just happened around us.

One of the hot searches on Weibo two days ago was about Lu Xinghe’s 56 marriage proposals. It turned out that so many people were moved by Lu Xinghe and felt that Yu Huai was cowardly and that Lu Xinghe should work together for the rest of their lives.

Generally when watching TV dramas, I like the presence of warm male leads, but in this drama I love Yu Huai. Only the Geng Geng Yu Huai will not be resentful.

Love is not only thrilling, but love that is deep will be unforgettable.

Lu Xinghe’s love for Geng Geng is flamboyant, which may be related to his cynical character. He takes Geng Geng to skip classes, asking her not to study for the sake of grades, and takes her to bars, to the beach... Let She feels the variety of life.

In Yu Huai's place, Geng Geng's life seems boring. He lectures and does questions every day, and everything revolves around learning. A friend said that if Geng Geng didn't like Yu Huai, she would be annoyed to death by such a deskmate.

However, Geng Geng did not have a rich father like Lu Xinghe. For her at that time, it seemed that the only way to go was to study hard and get into a good university. Because Yu Huai knows that this is the life that belongs to Geng Geng. He lectures her on topics, organizes knowledge points, and yells for her when she doesn't understand in class...

Compared to Lu Xinghe, Yu Huai's love is more mature. Geng Geng asked him whether he should study literature or theory. Yu Huai said: "I can't advise you to study philosophy, nor can I advise you to study literature, because I know that I can't delay your future because of my selfishness. If I knew what you were doing, The best, but I won’t let you do it. I’m sorry, I can’t do it.” Perhaps only this kind of love is the cornerstone of long-term love.

Fifty-six proposals of marriage are no match for the words “I’m late!”

At the end of the play, everyone felt sorry for Lu Xinghe. 56 proposals and 10 years of companionship still failed to move Geng Geng. But being moved doesn’t mean love! Just like that question, how would you choose between someone who loves you and someone you love? Everyone's choices in Tianya are equally matched. Some people say that you should choose someone who loves you, because relationships can be cultivated slowly; some people say that you should choose someone you love, because relationships can be cultivated slowly. The same applies. Some people say that only mutual love can lead to happiness, and unilateral love will not lead to happiness. I think this is the most reasonable thing. If relationships can be cultivated slowly, it took Lu Xinghe 10 years to develop a true relationship. Will they be happy together in the future?

Geng Geng didn’t get together with Lu Xinghe because he was moved. Maybe this was the best choice for both people. Geng Geng loved Yu Huai, and Yu Huai also loved Geng Geng, so Lu Xinghe should also Do you want to find someone who you love and loves you back? As simply said, wishful thinking requires a willingness to admit defeat. Only love between two people can last forever.

Many people say that Yu Huai is too cowardly, but his experiences over the years have prevented him from being as free and easy as Lu Xinghe. He failed the college entrance examination, his mother contracted uremia, and gave up her dream of Tsinghua University to take care of her. Her father was sick when he returned from Africa, and his family was in a difficult situation. When he saw Geng Geng holding hands with his senior, maybe letting go was the last step. Good choice. Yu Huai's cowardice is because he doesn't want him to drag down Geng Geng, who is now the best. It's not that he doesn't dare but that he can't. He can't because he loves it too much.

Geng Geng told Yu Huai in a text message that no matter what happens in the future, I will always be by your side. Don’t be afraid. The meaning of love is that two people can be together and change their fate. Together we are the best of us!

So, why do you have to make do with it? What is more important than being happy with each other?