I want to see her one last time. help me ...

From a girl's point of view, I know a lot about girls' psychology. Most girls don't take the initiative to pursue the boys they like, unless they really like them too much or are the kind of girls who are very brave and brave. So, if you like a girl very much and think she is a little interested in you, take the initiative and don't have a tug-of-war with her. Maybe the person you like is also suffering.

Any girl's psychology is very complicated when she is chased. She may be happy, but she is a little scared. She has ambivalence towards the boy who intruded into her quiet life. She didn't mean to. Don't think she is testing you. She's actually fighting herself. She is afraid of being hurt.

Don't be afraid that your initiative will bring her disgust. If you don't take the initiative, she won't take the initiative, and it will fade slowly. If your initial confession is rejected by her, it is normal. Don't be discouraged. Who knows what this girl is thinking?

Maybe if you confess twice, she will be moved by you. Kind girls are easily moved.

If you encounter setbacks, leave immediately, never reply to this girl again, protect yourself tightly and lick the wound silently. When you are in pain, as everyone knows, that girl may regret it in her heart. Maybe she will secretly cry and regret rejecting you, and it will be sad to see your indifferent eyes again, but she won't tell you and won't let you come back to chase her. Your excessive self-esteem may hurt a girl's sensitive heart.

She will think that you don't really like him, otherwise how could you just give her up?

Some people say that it is really difficult for boys to chase girls. But my feeling is that this phenomenon is inseparable from the social role orientation of men and women. From a physiological and social point of view, women are always passive. If, on the other hand, men are ashamed and women are brave, the world will be in a mess! Women's shyness is always beautiful ~ ~ ~ I always hear that a brave man overcame many difficulties and finally won the heart of a beautiful woman. There are few examples to the contrary.

Some boys are afraid that others will say that they are persistent and will bring them a bad reputation. However, I think that boys pursue the girl they like and continue to be kind to this girl after some setbacks, which shows that people really like it and are sincere. If they don't succeed, they will not regret it. It's nothing. Who makes people like it? I hate people blindly following me, and I hate boys who have no opinions and care too much about what others think of them. They deserve not to find a girlfriend.

If you are a man, be brave. Girls are emotional and easily immersed in love. Although you work hard, once your heart touches her, you will get more and more love. Such examples can be seen everywhere. Girls are gentle and considerate to their boyfriends. What is the sweetness that the initial efforts have brought? And most good girls are devoted and single-minded.

Therefore, it is suggested that some boys be brave and pursue the girls they like, instead of being so timid. One is that people think you are unmanly, and the other is that you feel uncomfortable. But, most importantly, you get nothing in the end. Happiness is always earned by yourself. Don't expect others to give it to you!

By the way, I think it's good to take the initiative, because your goal is what you really like, and girls are often passive and can only choose to accept and refuse, so I'd rather take the initiative and love what I love without regrets.

First, what kind of first impression should I leave on MM (time: I just started to contact MM)

1, I think the most important thing is to let MM see your self-motivated.

The greatest charm of a man lies in his successful career. Young people can't "succeed" if they don't work long hours. At this time, you should let M.

M thinks you are a self-motivated person.

Others can talk nonsense, but this question cannot be vague. You must tell MM that you are full of confidence in the future, that you are not satisfied with the status quo, and that you have a long-term plan. In a word, your future is not a dream.

2. Be confident and responsible.

Don't be a child. Girls are lazy and want to find someone to rely on. You should show your confidence and sense of responsibility.

It's better to have a wrong choice than no choice at all.

Not too formal, but not too casual.

Be serious where you should be serious, and ridicule when you should be ridiculed.

Girls like men who are a little cynical, so it seems that they don't care about anything, which is too dull.

Step 4 look mature

A leisurely man has fatal attraction to mm.

Second, how to further contact MM (time: the stage of starting to chase)

1, the most important thing at this stage is not to worry, not to make things so clear that people can see them at a glance.

Chasing people.

Think about it, most people don't like you at first sight, but they don't hate you at first sight. Are the children of ordinary people (

Unless you look like Chow Yun Fat (Andy Lau or kevin costner), goodwill needs to be realized through constant understanding.

Yes, so the key to the problem is the opportunity for further development you want.

Think about it from the girl's point of view: girls must have psychology if they rush directly to have sex.

Stress. If I find that I don't like you after a while, it won't be a lie, will it? So if you start with ambition,

When you come out with a winning attitude, you will basically be bored back immediately.

Step 2 start with a low profile

First of all, we should position the relationship as a "friend", which is originally an "ordinary friend". You want to be a good friend with taste.

You can also ask the other person to be a "confidante" or something. Anyway, don't say "chase you".

Think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then this girl won't have a chance to "refuse" you-why don't you go after her?

Reject you? !

This can relieve the psychological pressure of girls and let you have a smooth relationship. Don't fantasize about agreeing to get married after three days of knowing each other

Give you full contact and understanding. Feelings don't come out of thin air.

Don't be too impatient in the process of communication.

Relax and don't pester others all day. Anyone who does this to you will get tired of it. I have a good friend who told me to chase girls.

The key to children is eight words-"hot and cold, playing hard to get" (this is the crystallization of my classmates' efforts for many years).

Staying with people all day, naturally you won't think you are good. If you are indifferent for a day or two, girls will remember the benefits of your existence.

Also, don't take out the ambition of "you don't want to marry" It is not good for the price to drop too low. Sometimes you can play a little trick.

4. Create opportunities appropriately.

I said before, don't let things turn into "you are chasing others" right away, you need to get a chance to get close to girls. this is

It depends on your creativity.

You can collect information and find ways to turn waiting for rabbits into encounters; You can also pretend to be casual and find out the most suitable one.

Invite the other person to do something with you.

In short, this is the most technical place. If it is really not feasible, you can consult your predecessors.

5. Never: It is impolite to give gifts to others casually.

Some people are eager to chase girls and like to buy things for others often, but they don't know that chasing girls is the most taboo.

As the saying goes, "you get something for nothing", you are putting pressure on others by giving something like this, and others will feel indebted to you, so they will.

Find a way to repay you If you can't, find a way not to associate with you, so as not to always owe you a favor.

If you want to show your sincerity, you might as well invite girls to spend money together, such as finding a good restaurant to eat, or finding an expensive one.

Girls can naturally see that you spent a lot of money, but after all, the money was spent by two people instead of.

Is to turn it into something to take home.