Husband sends text messages on his mobile phone.

Cao Zeneng, chief psychological consultant of Zhuhai Bangda psychological institution, replied: I can see that you are a kind and caring intellectual woman. No one will feel sad when their deep infatuation with money and true feelings are not reciprocated by each other, or when they are "short of gold and two". I fully understand your pain at this time. There are only two steps to solve this problem. First, recognize the situation clearly and know yourself and yourself. The second is to be targeted and prescribe the right medicine. As far as understanding the situation is concerned, the more comprehensive the better. You might as well: (1) check your husband's phone and SMS records to assess the seriousness of the facts; (2) Quietly listen to the wind from his friends, colleagues and his own population for further verification; (3) You can find suitable occasions such as wedding anniversary and birthday, chat with your husband, see what he thinks of yourself, and see if you have changed recently; (4) Learn in detail whether he has an extramarital affair and to what extent, whether Chun Qing is in the embryonic stage, or in the inseparable middle stage, or in the final stage due to the "east wind"; (5) Give her husband a comprehensive evaluation to see if he "made the mistake that all men will make" as Jackie Chan said. (6) Evaluate your marriage rationally, and the crisis will turn the corner and see what you can't do. When taking action, we should be rational, affectionate and restrained. (1) If the husband is just "an early adopter" and has no real influence on the family structure, although he hurts his feelings, he can still make up for it, and he also thinks that you are his first important person, conditional forgiveness may be a better solution; (2) If they are "doing things with live ammunition", do you "push" them out of the house first to vent their grievances, or "compete for posts" and "pull" them into the house first? Hehe, this will test your wisdom; (3) Remind him appropriately, give him a dose of "hangover remedy", make him aware of his responsibilities and obligations, give him the opportunity and time to get lost, you should let him know that you still love him and your family, and use your wisdom to improve your love index. (4) Wait patiently and be prepared. There may be a result after half a year. It is scientifically proved that men's "crazy period of love" is only 6 months.