A letter to my girlfriend's parents

Parents are good for their children, and the happiness of children is their greatest happiness. Therefore, if a boyfriend wants to please his girlfriend, he must first be kind to his girlfriend's parents. The following is a letter to my girlfriend's parents. Welcome to read it.

A letter to my girlfriend's parents

Hello, uncles and aunts:

I've always wanted to communicate with you, but I can't think of anything to say when I call, so I want to communicate with you by writing.

Yesterday, the child came home and said that you talked about us, but still opposed us and asked us to give up this relationship as soon as possible. It's hard to think of, and it's unfair to think of. We were killed by such a stick because we didn't understand us. There's a reason to think about it. In retrospect, these reasons probably led to your opposition.

One aspect is the way we know each other. I deeply understand how you feel. I think most people on the Internet are bad people and there are many liars. Yes, most people think so, too. But understanding is just a way, just like the introduction of friends, but the media is different. More importantly, we have a real understanding and understanding. Until now, my children and I are very glad that we have not met any bad people. At that time, I told my children that it was definitely not good for my family to know that we met online, so my family's first impression of this person would be bad. After all, you are the last generation and can't accept these new things. I told my family that we met through friends, but we were afraid of causing unnecessary misunderstanding to them, and we would communicate with them slowly when we were mature. I believe they will understand us. Please rest assured that people on the Internet are also made up of real people. There must be more good people than bad people in the world. However, because what we hear and see in reality are all bad things on the Internet, too many people think that bad things on the Internet are bad things.

On the other hand, you are worried that your home is too far away, that your child will be wronged and that she will suffer.

What I want to say is that Ganzhou is not far from Nanchang. The traffic is so convenient now that it will take five hours to get there. If I feel homesick, I want to see you all morning. If the same province is far away, there are still so many couples from different provinces in the world who can come back even if they get married abroad and fly for a day. I also know that it is good to take care of them if they are close. Her brother is still young and has a burden at home, but we are together and we don't care about this family. Your daughter is your filial daughter. Whether your daughter and son-in-law are filial depends not on whether they are married or not, but on what kind of people they are. It is not without filial piety that they married in the neighboring village. There are many people flying back from Wan Li, so we can't generalize.

Although my family is not rich, it will not be bad in the local area. Now my family plans to build a house on the side of the road as a commercial house. Recently, the surrounding towns and villages have passed Ganzhou City. After the development of the region, even if you don't go out and do business at home, you won't be hungry. Last time I heard from my children, if we have to be together, we can bring money at home. I know this is just an excuse for embarrassing us, but I think if how much money can bring us happiness, my parents will agree that it is also appropriate to honor you in the form of gift money, but filial piety is a lifelong matter, not a transaction.

When it comes to suffering and grievances, think about who is not suffering and who is not wronged. When two people live together, it is inevitable that there will be friction and resentment. When the teeth and tongue are so close, there will be bite marks. I will take good care of my children, understand each other and tolerate each other. If I can't let her suffer, I will never let her suffer. I will never let her eat unless she suffers, but no one in this world is enjoying life. Where can I not suffer? A woman who doesn't want to suffer hardship but just wants to enjoy happiness will only be kept by the rich, depending on whether she has the capital to be kept by others for a lifetime. Will this life be happy? More couples in the world are willing to support, encourage, struggle and share weal and woe together.

Another aspect is that I went to Yunnan to pick up the children. I really felt sorry for you that time. I am sorry for my child's cousin's wife, which made you worry about suffering. I am sorry again. I'm not asking for your forgiveness, just asking for your understanding.

Before, I just heard the children say that they didn't want to stay there and wanted to go to their classmates in Shanghai. I asked her if it was reliable and not to be cheated into pyramid schemes. Because she said she was a junior high school classmate and felt unreliable, she comforted her and insisted on going home for the New Year before considering where to go. Until two or three o'clock in the morning one night, I received a text message from my child, saying that she couldn't sleep, was packing, and sat in bed staring blankly. I don't think she wants to stay there. I was afraid that she would really go to Shanghai alone one day, so I comforted her and said that she was leaving and I would pick you up! I wasn't serious at that time, just talking about comforting her. Who knows that she is as serious as seeing the light of hope, and I can't refuse, saying that she can take a vacation! During that time, the company was very busy and it was difficult to ask for leave. Without sufficient reasons, the section chief will not approve it. Later, I went home for five days off in the name of my sister's marriage, but I didn't expect to be approved smoothly. Then I contacted the personnel department of our company, and the quality assurance department here needed to recruit people. I told HR that my cousin would come to our company, and HR probably asked about the situation and thought it was ok. I'm afraid my classmates are unreliable there, so they will have jobs here. After arranging his work, he will set foot on the train in Yunnan. He has never been on such a long train for one day and two nights. He ran so far without telling anyone, and he was very upset and didn't know what would happen. In the evening, I received a message from the child on the train that her father had an accident while driving. She was afraid that her family would be more worried about bigger things, and I realized that it was not as simple as me picking her up, so I felt uneasy and confused. I still want to reply to a message as if nothing had happened. Nothing, just think I'm here to see you in Yunnan?

On the third day, we finally arrived in Yunnan. When we met the children, we decided what to do. The child still wants to go and doesn't want to stay there. Seeing her living there like this made the whole person feel depressed. Think about it, this is also related to the child's personality! Introverted and self-respecting, she thinks that letting her go to Yunnan is the feeling of being dependent on others. Cousin and sister-in-law are very kind to her and think it is charity for her. There are no friends around, and it is really lonely to be alone there, and there are no intimate friends to tell, so you can't sleep there alone. Think about it or take her away! But how can I reassure you all? I was worried when I left. I told you I was worried. In retrospect, we just didn't communicate well. Similarly, you are worried about the safety of your child, afraid that she will be cheated. You wouldn't believe me if I told you I found the child. It's normal for you not to believe this. We haven't met, and we don't know each other at all, but all you know is that I met the children online, which increased your worry. Now think about communicating with you at that time. You don't have to worry so much about coming to us by train. I will bring the child back to Nanchang safely. I wanted to get off the train together and make things clear. Because of the inconvenience, I didn't get off the bus, and a person who was very uncomfortable returned to Suzhou. When I went back to work in the company, my colleagues saw that I was in a bad mood and asked me if I was still so unhappy when I came back from my wedding. I reluctantly smiled and said that I was reluctant to marry my sister. Ha ha. Our relationship seems to be better than that between me and my sister ... it's hard for my sister to know about it. People say that if I have a wife, I will forget my mother. It seems that my mother even forgot to sell her sister. Hehe ... joking and joking ... Alas, the whole thing tells me that no matter how difficult it is, I can't escape. Is the way to face them bravely, just like I am facing you now.

Let's talk about myself. I always thought I was an ordinary person, with ordinary thoughts and ordinary looks. I like Lu Yao's Ordinary World very much. I have no background and no power. I just want to work hard on my own, give happiness to the people I love and enjoy the happiness of ordinary people.

Finally, I hope my uncle and aunt can get to know me again, put aside previous unpleasantness and misunderstanding, and renew our hard-won feelings. I sincerely hope you can understand, and I hope my parents can accept me, fulfill us and respect everything about us.

Wish: Good health.

happy family

Happy New Year!

XXX

XXXX。 X. X

Letter to my girlfriend's parents Part II

Uncle:

Hello!

I feel a little presumptuous to write this letter to you, but I feel that life is to make continuous efforts to make progress, and love also needs persistent pursuit, so I write to you, hoping to show myself more comprehensively and win the recognition of you and beautiful women.

There was a love in the past, a love that made me mature but not perfect. Once, I became a complicated person in the eyes of you and your family, but in fact I was still a simple young man: I only hope to have a fever of love, from love to marriage, and happily carry the marriage to the end of my life. Personally, I think perfect love is more than just a feeling. Perfect love should eventually be integrated with the dullness of life. In real life, I have been striving for this, which is also the reason why my first love failed: one is to finally implement love in a plain life, and the other is to keep my initial passion for love at all times. The reason for separation is very simple. Since separation, there will be no entanglement. Please rest assured of my simplicity.

Maybe it's the arrangement of heaven, or it's a coincidence. Half a year after the first relationship, because I'm still waiting for the assignment from the public security department, I think it's better to hone myself in the society and find a job in Fuzhou in my spare time. As a classmate, I naturally met your sister Ping and finally fell in love with Ping.

I think you and Jiaren, as Ping's elders and closest people, always hope to find a happy future for her, so since I want to strive for your similarity with Jiaren, I should introduce myself more comprehensively and convince you that I can give Ping a bright and happy future.

Attitude towards life:

Perhaps, at my age, most of them are young and frivolous, lacking mature life rationality, but I am young and have a relatively complete life orientation. I remember when I talked about success at your house on the first day of the New Year's Day, my opinion was: Tomorrow is better than today, even if it is successful. This is also my attitude towards life. I don't think the rise of a family can be completed in a generation, but as long as the people in this family always hold positive and enterprising innovations, then the week of this family is only a matter of time. As for me, I have been implementing this goal independently since I was a child: from primary school to university, from rural areas to cities. Until now, I still maintain the passion of struggle and think rationally about myself. In this way, I believe that the facts will be better and better in the future. Therefore, if we can live in peace, we can give her a good life and will not let him be wronged materially. As for the details of my life, I think I should be a man with heavy male chauvinism, but personal male chauvinism has personalized characteristics. I agree with the tradition that men are the masters outside and women are the masters inside. I have always received such a traditional education: a boy should be like the pillar of a family and the guardian of a family. In the ups and downs, the boy's obligation and responsibility is to protect his family, so that his family can still live a carefree life in the ups and downs. So I have been involved in family decision-making and exercised my ability since I was a child, so now I have the ability to protect Ping from any harm. At the same time, I have always held another attitude towards life. I am determined to have a home. A good man is not only the master, but also can reduce the burden of trivial housework and participate in housework, so that the hostess can have a relaxed environment and leave a warm feeling for female directors.

So in life, I think I can provide Ping with a relaxed environment to make him happy and not worry.

XXX

XXXX。 X. X

Letter to girlfriend's parents 3

Dear uncle and aunt:

Hello, guys.

That summer, I happened to meet your two daughters, Wen Lan. At that time, we were still in college, she was in Jiangxi and I was in Hebei. I haven't forgotten her since. We have been in love, separated, loved and separated. Until now, we have decided to be together and love each other for life.

I love all of her. I know how to appreciate her beauty. I can't put her smile down. In my heart, she is a proud little princess, and it is not enough to spoil her. As long as I see her smile, that is my greatest comfort. Now, because my conditions can't meet your requirements, you want Wen Lan to leave me. Please listen to my heart.

First, the issue of age. In traditional marriage, it is true that men are older than women, but this is not the decisive factor for long-term feelings. You may worry that Wen Lan is more than one year older than me, and I won't love her in a few years. However, love has nothing to do with age, only with feelings and people. If a man older than her is irresponsible, he will still betray love, won't he? Although I am over one year old, I can love her all my life and make her happy all my life. Not good?

Second, the problem of work. Just returned from Beijing, I really need time to position myself and find my direction. My plan is to seize the opportunity of the annual public examination and the recruitment of public institutions and strive for a decent and stable job as soon as possible. Before that, I will prepare for the exam while working in the enterprise. I will try my best to enter government agencies and institutions, and then live a stable and happy life with Wen Lan. These days, I interview everywhere. No matter what work I do, I will work hard.

Third, the house problem. I know that if you want to get married, you have to have a house, and women have to get married. So I agree with your aunt and uncle very much. My parents are ordinary wage earners, and my father used to love playing cards, so the situation at home has never been so good. When I buy a house, I will definitely buy a new house. I won't let Wen Lan live in the old house. It's just that the house needs a mortgage to buy. Please understand that I really don't have the economic conditions to buy a house in full. Mortgage, I promise you both, I will never let Wen Lan pay it back. I just want her to live a relaxed and happy life. These days, my family and I are preparing to buy a house. We will definitely give Wen Lan a big new home.

Fourth, the most important, emotional problems. Over the years, Wen Lan and I have experienced a lot. I think we all know who we love, what we want and how to be truly happy. When I decided to come back, I knew that the only person I loved and wanted to spend my life with, and so must Wen Lan. If we are separated, we will never be happy again. Dear uncles and aunts, would you like to see us suffer the pain of loving each other deeply and leaving other things?

I sincerely beg you, let's be together. Finally, you will see that I will prove that I am not insincere, I am sincere, and Wen Lan is very important to me. I can do anything to make her live well.

XXX

April 16

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