What does it mean for a man to ask you for money? What was he thinking when he reached out to borrow money from you?

The marriage of a friend Ms. Li and her husband for more than ten years finally came to an end some time ago. After clearing up her emotions, she decided to start her life again.

After that, she met a loving opposite sex through various channels, so the two began to associate, but slowly Ms. Li found that this new boyfriend always borrowed money from her. At first, it was 5. 1 10,000, and later it became 35,000. Ms. Li thought that since she was a couple, she was never embarrassed to let him pay back the money. Later, she really accumulated too much, almost 30 thousand to 40 thousand. So after thinking for a long time, Ms. Li still hinted to her boyfriend that she was a little short of money now. As a result, she didn't expect the other party to say that she had no money. She also wrote a blank check saying that if she had money, she would give her money and buy her bags and clothes to take her out for a trip.

This is better than singing. As soon as Ms. Li heard it, she knew that she couldn't expect her boyfriend to pay back the money for the time being, but since then, the other party's attitude towards her has become cold. Text messages didn't return, phone calls were rarely answered, and even people were slowly lost. In the end, she didn't see a penny. This time, feelings and money hit Shui Piao's YaBaKui, making it difficult for Ms. Li to calm down!

Women are often soft-hearted and emotional animals, so when your partner asks you for financial help, your contribution will be "rationalized" by yourself and become an unshirkable obligation. But in fact, even in such intimate relationships as "partners", people should remain rational and distinguish between you and me. As the saying goes, brothers have to settle accounts, not to mention a partner who only relies on feelings and has no blood relationship.

Generally speaking, men are very good-looking, and they don't want others to know even if they encounter great difficulties. What's more, in front of women, he prefers to bite the bullet and try to be brave, and rarely wants to reveal his true situation. Someone once said on a social software that there are almost only two possibilities for men to borrow money from women. One is that this man is a soft egg who has accomplished nothing, and the other is that this man is a liar! If a man always reaches out to borrow money from you, then you need to pay more attention to these "motives" he may have. Otherwise, borrow money blindly, and be careful not to look back!

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You may be in the dark by him.

When a man always asks you for money from time to time, when you ask him about his purpose, he hesitates and doesn't make it clear. Maybe you will find that he has never encountered anything so-called important at all. By this time, you don't have to worry. He just wants to take advantage of your sympathy and love. Maybe he spent your money on other women, or he used your money to do something illegal! You must be careful of this impure "motive"!

2

You may just be an excuse for his laziness

All people are lazy, regardless of gender or age. When a person often bears the expectations of people around him and society, the inertia in his bones may appear after a day's work. At this time, he is too lazy to make money and doesn't want to struggle, so he always asks women for money. His attitude is to make it clear that he wants to "eat soft rice" For such a man without ambition, even if he is looked down upon and pointed at, he will not feel any influence. After all, as long as he eats, drinks and drinks well, the opinions of outsiders seem insignificant.

But women must pay attention that such a man doesn't really love you, he has a purpose. Therefore, when you meet such a man, you must keep your eyes open and go as far as possible. Don't reach out to him, or he will easily "pester" you! At that time, you couldn't get rid of this burden!

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He may really be in crisis.

A man has a strong self-esteem, and usually he is alone when he encounters difficulties, so when he has to ask you for help, it is actually completely understandable and considerate. This time shows that he regards you as a trustworthy person from the bottom of his heart. He will remember the help you gave him when he was in trouble, and he will be doubly good to you when he goes through difficult times in the future. Such a man really deserves your help.

In fact, it is not strange to lend money to men. Just because a man borrows money from you doesn't necessarily mean that he is a heinous person. Everything should be further judged according to the specific situation, but you should be careful in everything, which will save people and money, and it is only you who suffer and hurt your feelings.