How did his best friend's fear of marriage comfort him?

I think we can start with the friends around you and analyze her marriage bit by bit.

First of all, first of all, it is very important for us to understand whether you want to change the current situation of this fearful marriage. For example, many girls are your best friends. They think they can't get married if they don't want to get married. What are the benefits of getting married? They must take care of the man as a daughter-in-law. When they get married, they must take care of their parents. When they have children, they have to take care of them, and they have to be a yellow-faced woman, serving tea and cooking all day.

Choosing one person to get married means losing all other possible objects (after all, intimacy is exclusive in regular marriage). This sentence doesn't sound romantic at all, but all individuals who are afraid of marriage may have thought about it more or less, or implicitly or explicitly.

This in itself is also in line with the general assumption in social science: everyone is a simple economic rational individual and will instinctively weigh the possible benefits.

First, what benefits will it bring to her after marriage? Think about the benefits of getting married. Oh, I can have my own lovely baby to watch him and take care of him all day. I feel happy when I look at him. And after I get married, I can accompany my favorite husband every day, let him take me out to travel everywhere, let him buy me what I want to eat, and I will get married when I am old. It's not good to drag on like this.

Second question, what harm will it bring if you don't get married? That is, bad influence? If I don't get married, some girls say I'm getting old. Now I am 28 or 9 years old, and there are many spots and wrinkles on my face. If I am old, how can I get married?