Relatives around me always borrow money from me and never pay it back. How to gently remind them?

In fact, in the current interpersonal communication, I suggest that you don't borrow money from others casually, and don't lend money to others casually. Understand that it is normal not to lend money to others, and there is no need to feel embarrassed.

Because it is human to borrow money, and it is duty not to borrow it, especially when friends get along. Sometimes borrowing money can make the relationship between two people very subtle.

When you really need money, there is no way to ask others for it, so it may be better to maintain the relationship between two people without borrowing money. For our loved ones, we should also combine the actual situation. After all, the relationship between relatives is closer.

But there is an old saying in China that makes sense, that is, the poor are in need. Because poverty is nobody's fault, it can only be said that he is too lazy, especially in this society. Poverty can only be said that you are not diligent enough, even if you move bricks on the construction site, it will cost hundreds of dollars a day.

And if you encounter an emergency, especially if someone at home is hospitalized, you must do your best to help. I even think that friends need to break their own bottom line when they encounter such a thing. Because we have to understand that there is no time in life when we don't need others, so for such a thing, don't say that people don't talk, but take the initiative to send money.

This is also a kind of interpersonal communication, a kind of worldly wisdom. However, there are relatives around you who borrow money and don't pay it back. We should draw a clear line with them. In fact, everyone has it around. They always kidnap others with morality, thinking that they should send you flowers if they have money. At this point, it is necessary to distinguish clearly, not to mention relatives, even brothers and sisters of a nursing compatriot.