When the leader says to you, "Do it if you can, or leave if you can't", how should I answer?

I may be one of the ordinary people, and my brain is too hot and too low. Perhaps my experience is the epitome of many people, but I want to express more experiences for some young people who are still confused: at different stages and different scenes, the responses are different.

I have also been scolded by my boss, and I have done it differently with my age, so I can only give you some experience and avoid taking my detour.

I. Reply: OK, I quit. When this is not your own problem, you are still young, and the boss just wants to take it out on someone. Since I am unhappy working here, I'd better change my job. While you are young, you can't wronged yourself from the beginning. When I first came out of society, I had to work in a restaurant because I didn't need anything (I didn't have enough ID cards).

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Once, a guest had a hangover and told me that my soup was too salty, so he fell to the ground and let me lick it clean. I am very angry. It's already insulting. At that time, I was young and just wanted to open my mouth to refute. The proprietress came directly to apologize and then asked me to clean it.

All right! Under the fence, you can wipe it if you say so. As a result, the proprietress forbade me to take a mop and handed me a rag for me to wipe.

Me: I'll get the mop.

The proprietress is angry: wipe it quickly if you want.

Me: Then I can't wipe it. I can't squat.

Boss: Do it if you can, or get out if you can't.

I took off my apron at that time: I quit, I don't want my salary. Your shop will turn yellow sooner or later!

Only about three months. That shop is really yellow, and I don't know if it's really what I said, or if the proprietress has no virtue.

What I want to say is that when you are really insulted in this job and this class is unnecessary, quitting may be the best choice. Because when you endure it once, you may face a series of insults in the future.

Second, reply: Sorry, boss. This matter is my responsibility. I promise it won't happen again. I went to the factory (2008). After work, the workers in the factory talked about how much work they did today, how long they fished, and where to eat in the future. I silently picked up the most basic computer application technology book. They all laughed at me and said it was useless to learn this in the future, but now it seems that I am really glad that I can persist and teach myself for several years.

I have no education, so I may be lucky, and I can have certain personal characteristics and ways in sales promotion. During the interview (20 13), I will tell the truth that I have no education or something, and I will lower the price, which is much less than that of the same industry. Maybe it's because "sitting in the office" is really much more comfortable than in the factory, and my mind has changed-just gone with the wind.

The previous efforts are attributed to hard work, and the mentality is drifting with the tide. There are always times when work is sloppy.

20 18, something really happened because of my negligence, which caused the company to lose a lot of money, more than 20 thousand yuan. The boss gave me a good scolding and said to me, can you do it? If you can't do it, you can leave. Some people are scrambling to do it.

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What I thought at that time was not that I wanted to escape from it, but that I couldn't leave because of it, which was a shame.

I said: I'm sorry, boss, this is really my responsibility, and I promise that similar problems will not occur.

At that time, my salary was more than 4,000 a month (the lowest in the same industry was 6,000). At first, the boss didn't need my compensation, and I didn't think so. I said let the finance department deduct 2000 yuan every month to fill this hole. The boss said nothing. Seeing that I was so active, I was detained by the finance department, and my colleagues secretly called me stupid.

But what my colleagues don't know is that my year-end bonus is 20 thousand more than my colleagues (they get double salary (about 1.2), and I always get 3.3). The boss said this was my attitude (after deducting 6 months * 2000 =1.2000, the boss returned this part intact.

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I'm a little confused. I don't know whether I am more than them or I don't have much at all, but I always feel that I am making money.

Therefore, when you think this job can make you happy and gain a lot, the boss can lose his temper. There's nothing wrong with admitting your mistake. Even if the boss says this to you, he actually just wants to deny you, not you. Don't care too much.

Third, reply: capable, capable, boss, calm down and let me see if there is still room for recovery. After entering middle age, there are old people in the upper class and small people in the lower class, leaving me little chance to lose my temper.

There will be mistakes in my work, but now my attitude towards my boss is: right, right, right! I'll change it! Calm down!

Seriously, as long as I don't touch on the principle and don't let me take the blame, I will be scolded for doing something wrong. I won't do it as long as I have a lot of money. Just don't call me next time. It's my ideal goal to get paid every month. The boss can do whatever he wants, and I will do whatever you want me to do.

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So, if you are as middle-aged as me now and really need a stable job, just bear with it. Sometimes it's okay to be thick-skinned. After all, only the boss and you know about it, and the boss won't go out and publicize it loudly, admit his mistake, calm him down and try not to make it again.

These three points are my different ways to deal with problems for different people, different age groups and different ways. You can sit in the right place or laugh it off.

There are more than one billion people in China, and there will definitely be people like me, or people facing the same difficulties as me. I hope I can give you some reference. We all work, just be happy and make money. Don't be too wronged. But if you and your family really need money, then-from the heart (timid), it's no big deal.