Who often calls to send messages?

Many people think that women are clingy animals, but men are no exception.

But both men and women have some psychological reasons in common.

Boyfriend always wants to know what you are doing, in fact, because he has a high sense of demand for you!

Why does he often call you and doubt you?

Because what you can give him is far from meeting his needs.

We often say that love depends on attraction, and attraction depends on charm and mystery.

However, the sense of high demand has broken this attraction mechanism, but it has had a negative effect.

He wants to know what you are doing all the time, keep in touch with you, and even try his best to connect the phone.

In your opinion, without mystery and charm, you actually reduce your self-worth. In the end, you may feel disgusted.

Actually, it has something to do with your boyfriend's childhood experience.

People with a high sense of demand pay attention to others, and are too eager for others to love them and meet their own needs, hoping to get satisfaction from others.

Subconsciously, I think I am not recognized, needed, unloved and unable to love myself;

These feelings are not accepted in the consciousness and are suppressed to the subconscious.

Projected on your spouse, hoping that he can fill the emptiness in your heart and eager to get your love from him;

And when you don't satisfy him, he often feels: I am not loved. That's why I always doubted you.

Therefore, I suggest that your boyfriend reduce his need for you and pay more attention to himself. In addition, I suggest you meet your boyfriend's needs more so that he won't always doubt you.

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