What I wrote to him after the breakup, after the breakup.

Guide: We had a lot of regrets when we left, but we still have to break up if we can't go on. Anyway, whether you or I, we will go back to the road and live a new life without each other.

It's been three months since I broke up with my ex, and I still haven't come out.

Seeing the delicious food, I can't help but want to buy him more. When you buy it home, you will find that he has broken up with me for a long time; I forgot my conditioner when I washed my hair, so I couldn't help calling his name, only to find that he was no longer at home.

I have asked myself more than once, why did we get to this point? Obviously we can continue to be together and watch the scenery together, only to find that he and I have left, and I can't find an excuse to be with him or a reason to be apart.

Whose fault is it that we survived the most sad and difficult days and finally lived the most comfortable life?

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The time when I just graduated was probably the most painful and helpless day. We are crowded into a house of more than ten square meters. Every day after work, two people can enjoy tomato and egg noodles all night.

During that time, although bitter, it was sweet; At that time, there were endless words, many words, and too much time was wasted. Although we were poor at that time, we really loved each other.

Later, when we got rich and found a stable and reliable job, we didn't care how much we spent this month. Our feelings change when we need to save some living expenses.

You resent me for not being gentle enough and only reading data every day; I hate your laziness. You want to play mobile phone to kill time after work every day.

Slowly, we become speechless, even in the same room, we will feel redundant with each other. Later, after work, we would hide from each other and gradually become speechless.

What did you say?/Sorry? What the hell is going on here? We have all experienced the hardest days, but why can't we enjoy the best and simplest life together?

Does this mean that lovers can only suffer * * * and cannot share joys and sorrows?

Later, you told me, let's break up. ?

I didn't speak, but I vaguely felt that we had lost time.

On the day we broke up, I helped you pack, looked at you with tears in my eyes and said, Zhou Bei, we broke up. I really didn't expect that we could not compete with reality in the end. You should take good care of yourself. Look at you. You have lost weight recently. You have stomach trouble, remember to drink more water and don't eat anything too spicy. Forget it, let's go.

You looked at me with wet eyes, as if trying to remember my words. Finally you nodded, looked at me seriously and said, thank you. I'm sorry I didn't take good care of you in the end. ?

I shook my head and watched you go downstairs. I think we really left each other.

Although I hate to leave you, my self-esteem tells me that there is no need to recover such feelings. I have to let you go. I want to live alone.

02

What's it like to lose someone you love very much?

I may not find the courage to live a good life. Your leaving is very painful for me. I open my eyes every day, hoping that you can appear in front of me again. But the reality is that you really left my world and we will never meet again. Even if we had met, you wouldn't call me now? Baby? . I want to stay with you for a while.

I never wanted to lose you, but I really left you.

What's it like to live alone after breaking up?

I may not be used to it. I used to be taken good care of by you, but after leaving you, my life was not satisfactory. I can never fix the fuse. No one will deliver the express for me. The rice was so heavy that I had to carry it upstairs by myself.

Life is really cruel, especially when I live alone.

This is life. What pains me most is that I can't live with you. No one can spend boring weekends with me, and no one can spend wet rainy days with me.

Many times, many times, I couldn't help calling you, but I hung up after three prompts.

I shouldn't bother you. We broke up. I have no right to bother you any more.

My life has not been easy since I left you. I slept for a short time at night and suddenly woke up. I secretly turned on my cell phone and flipped through our past photos.

I always think we shouldn't break up, but I just think we should be together, and I can't get over it.

When we broke up in the first month, all I could think about was you, and I couldn't help going to the places we had been. I went to eat what we used to eat. I can't help crying when I eat hot pot. I was thinking, do you remember the sentence you said that we would eat hot pot together on my next birthday?

Unfortunately, we haven't experienced that period yet.

Really broke up suddenly, eating hot pot alone, really lonely, watching the water boiling in the pot, I suddenly couldn't stand it, tears flowed out with the fog. Honey, I miss you so much.

Two months after we broke up, I went back to the place where we first dated. I stayed quiet all day and didn't go home until the waiter closed the door.

Holding a mobile phone, looking at your familiar WeChat avatar and flipping through your circle of friends, I couldn't help but want to send you WeChat, but in the end I just stayed on "typing".

What can I reply to you? What else can we greet? Now that we have broken up, why should I bother you?

I didn't miss you very much in the third month of breaking up. I won't miss you like the night before. I always cry in the middle of the night.

From the third month, I learned to live alone. I started to learn baking, grew flowers in my spare time and went to the gym. In short, from the third month, I really found my own life.

I used to think that without you, I would lose the whole world. Now, I understand that you are not my world.

Those sad days passed, and I began to learn to live alone.

03

What's it like to break up?

Probably just accept each other leaving their own world and learn to face this unknown world alone.

After breaking up with you, I began to learn to deal with my emotions by myself. Even if you are depressed, you should adjust your mood yourself. I think I should face this difficult society by myself.

After leaving you, I tried to love the world. I live seriously, accept my own ordinary, and understand the uncertainty of my feelings.

It's not that we don't want to love, it's just that under the action of time, we have taken different paths. In this case, you have the right to separate from me, and I won't complain any more.

It took me three months to accept the breakup. In the past three months, I have thought a lot and gradually understood a truth.

Many times, two people can't go on by love alone. We need more and more things. Mutual understanding between lovers is very important. We should trust, support and care for each other.

Lovers don't just need love, only love, and feelings without understanding can't go further. Such a simple truth, I have to understand it at the cost of breaking up, which is really not worth the candle.

However, if I didn't break up, I wouldn't have found myself with such a big problem at all. I've always been very concerned about giving and gaining and losing. Some problems and contradictions are mutually exclusive, and I always feel that the other party doesn't love me so much.

Only after I lost it did I realize what I had done wrong.

It's painful to break up, and it's sad to lose a loved one, but at least after breaking up, I learned to grow up, to reflect, to love someone from the heart, and to control my temper.

The most difficult thing for people in this life is to be self-consistent, know themselves and get along with themselves. It's not easy. Living alone may be a bit lonely.

But people always have to learn to get along with loneliness, life is very long, and the time spent with themselves is also very long. It is important to learn to get along with others.

I used to think that breaking up was just to love someone again, but later I realized that breaking up is to learn to live alone. I think I have learned it.

I have to love life and myself before I can love others. May you and I both have it.