How to educate rebellious children

1, control your emotions. When children begin to enter the rebellious period, they will touch their parents' bottom line. At this time, you should control your emotions and don't lose your temper, otherwise your child will be more alienated from his parents. The correct way is to make yourself an expert in managing emotions, learn to control your emotions, and the more angry you are, the more you should control your seizures. Try to treat children's problems rationally, ensure that they can solve children's problems with people instead of things, and guide children slowly. And in doing so, let yourself become a role model for children, and also help children to have a good emotional state.

2. Respect children. Children in rebellious period are usually sensitive, so we should respect them, don't compare with other children casually, and encourage them in time when we see their advantages. At the same time, don't interfere with children's freedom and allow them to have their own ideas and decisions.

3. empathy. Parents should think and deal with problems from the child's point of view, so that we can understand the child's thoughts, communicate effectively with the child, and let the child understand us.

4. Let go appropriately. Parents let their children make decisions, which is not only a way to respect their performance, but also a way to increase their knowledge and exercise their abilities in all aspects. So, please don't interfere with children's thoughts, clothes, friends and hobbies. As long as it doesn't involve principles, try not to make too many comments on children's behavior. More importantly, encourage and guide children to play as they please. In the process of taking responsibility, let children feel independent strength and happiness.