How to attend a wise parent-teacher conference

Every July, the school will hold a parent-teacher conference at the end of the term. The school hopes that parents and friends can further communicate with teachers through parent-teacher conferences, so that they can not only understand their children's school situation, but also be quality parents under the guidance of teachers and jointly cultivate outstanding intelligent students. When teachers, students and parents get together, what are they thinking at this moment? What are you going to say? What is the joy here? Why do you sigh? Who will wait to go home and get spanked? What should the poor do? What is the class ranking this semester? Total test score? Students' recent performance, etc. The focus and hot spots of the parent-teacher conference turned around and finally fell on the exam results. Scores used to be the lifeblood of students. Now, scores are the lifeblood of parents. Don't you think you are stupid if your parents only live for grades and only look at grades, but can't see anything else? Just sad, anxious, helpless and waiting for the guidance of the famous teacher and class teacher. Will this work? Flowers need constant watering by others, and souls need watering by themselves. The best education method in the world is to educate yourself. Each of us is a sculptor of our own soul, and only we can carve ourselves. If you don't solve your natural wisdom problem, who can help you in this world? Parent-teacher conference is not an achievement meeting, but an exchange meeting, discussion meeting and promotion meeting. It is not that one party unites with the other to deal with the other, so it will become a battlefield. The reason why students are emotionally opposed to parents and teachers is that they are wary of each other, distrust each other, pass the buck to each other, and always want to shape people according to their own wishes and models. Education is a collection of three parties, or a group army, which integrates with each other and eventually forms a powerful force. Everything is developing and changing. Look at people from a developmental perspective. Those children with good grades are not necessarily without problems, and need to be observed and corrected in many ways. Children with poor grades may hide many things that others have not found. The ultimate goal of education is not to cultivate robots, but to cultivate people who are energetic and love life. We should realize that compulsory control is useless, worrying is useless, shirking responsibility and relying on teacher education is useless. Every parent should learn to think about himself often: the best education method in the world is to educate himself. The best teacher in the world is myself. In the world, it is you who can activate your potential, and it is you who save your life. (Author: natural glass)