What if my wife spends money without restraint? How can a wife care if she spends money lavishly?

I often hear some men complain about their wives. The most common complaint is that their wives don't know how to spend money moderately. They always spend money lavishly. So, what should the wife do if she spends money indiscriminately?

What if my wife spends money without restraint?

In life, many men will use this method to limit their wives' pocket money, which will save a lot of money when their wives spend. After all, their pocket money is limited. But sometimes this method can only cure the symptoms, and there will be many quarrels with the wife, because when the wife doesn't spend enough, she will ask the man again, and if the man doesn't give it, there may be quarrels.

You know, virtuous and kind women like to brag. The wife pays too much attention to her appearance, which reflects her inner self-confidence and self-distrust to some extent, so she has to rely on external materials to affirm herself. You can try to praise your wife for being virtuous, beautiful and capable. She is a beautiful naughty boy. She doesn't dress up or buy expensive clothes.

When I first graduated from work, my income was not high, so I could only buy skirts that looked beautiful but were of poor quality. My best friend praised me and said, "You have a good figure. Even if you wear cheap clothes, you can wear big ones. The compliment from my best friend is so sweet in my heart that I will never forget it.

Everyone likes to be praised, flattered and affirmed. Giving a proper compliment to his wife and meeting her needs psychologically can alleviate her problem of spending money indiscriminately. However, the more a woman is praised, the more she wants to buy something to dress herself up. Therefore, a man must be clear about his wife's character before praising her, otherwise stealing chickens will not cost him money.

How can a wife care if she spends money lavishly?

1. Let the wife learn bookkeeping and rational consumption.

Tell your wife what the total household income is every month. Everything will be spent on the cost of food and clothing every month. What is the family's monthly residual income? With a detailed account, you can spend it in a planned way every month, at a glance. After removing the necessary expenses, it is disposable income.

2. Communicate with your wife more about the family's income and expenditure.

Let the wife know the real situation at home, and it is not easy for everyone to make money outside. If you don't eat and wear, you will never be poor. After sincere communication, my wife will understand from the bottom of her heart that it is not easy to make money, be more considerate of you, and be embarrassed to spend money lavishly.

Don't leave it with your wife.

Of course, the wife's own salary can be freely controlled by her. This must be decided by both parties through consultation. In order to avoid family conflicts, we should also respect our wife and patiently tell her the reasons and benefits of doing so. In short, women still have to be coaxed!

Both sides can make plans for the future.

For example, if you save a certain amount of money, you can travel. Women are all romantic, what's more, with a plan, a wife will not spend money easily. Especially after having children, we should educate and cultivate them. My wife will also be very restrained and won't touch luxury goods that she doesn't need to buy. On the contrary, they will focus more on taking care of their families and children.

Does the wife's unrestrained spending affect the relationship between husband and wife?

In the life of husband and wife, many women spend money without restraint after marriage, without considering the life guarantee of the whole family at all. Such a woman will make her husband very tired, because men can't just say that their wives don't spend money, which will make their wives feel that men don't love themselves. However, if women are allowed to spend money blindly, family expenses will not be guaranteed.

In fact, since both husband and wife have entered the marriage and family, they should establish a correct concept of consumption and work together for family life, so that their marriage will last forever. The most important thing is to understand that people are not armed with money, but to improve themselves through their own realm.

How does a wife spend money lavishly?

In life, women spend money lavishly. A large part of the reason is that the husband has no restrictions on his wife when he starts spending money. Over time, women have the psychology of shopping. In fact, my husband should also review it. Is it because of the connivance at the beginning that my wife spends money indiscriminately now?

I think everyone should develop a healthy consumption concept and rational consumption, and don't care about the safety of the whole family in order to satisfy their own selfish desires. If such a person stays in this state for a long time, he can only say that he is a selfish person and will not be happy in marriage.