Boys chase girls' chat skills, which chat mistakes can't be made?

Are you free for dinner today? "(try so hard, there is no bedding, girls generally don't like it, of course, there are also very manly people who will be willing. )

2. Household registration management type

"Hello, my name is X, I work in yyy and come from zzz. Nice to meet you. " It's not like a person, it's a computer program. ) 3. Be considerate

"Tomorrow the lowest temperature 1 degree, the highest temperature 13 degrees. If you care about the weather, you care about yourself. Don't forget to add an extra dress.

Yo. "(Do we know that? )

4. Just kidding.

"Chimpanzees accidentally stepped on a bench pulled by gibbons. After the gibbon cleaned it gently and carefully, they fell in love. When asked how they got together, the chimpanzee said with emotion: ape dung! It's all ape dung! " Forwarding humorous news is a low-level performance that makes everyone laugh. )

5. narcissism

"If one day, you feel tired, as long as you turn around, my blessing will be by your side. No matter how far away, no matter how many years, this blessing will turn into a blue star, flashing in the morning, flashing in the sunset and flashing in every inch of your life." (mental derangement! ) 6. Ask endless questions

"What should I do?" (watching TV) "What's on?

And then what? "(If You Are the One) Is it interesting? "(OK)" What do you do after reading it? "Fang finally stopped answering the messages."

7. What's more, I dragged my English.

"Hey, what are you doing now, close your.

Eyes, I will be by your side and miss you day and night! "

If you have done these stupid things, please read on.

Conversation is the most common but also the most skillful way of communication between people.

Speak slowly, think quickly and decide to do it decisively.

Many times, we know that chatting up is the easiest way to find true love.

Whether chatting in real situations or chatting in social software, the sense of security will not be high, so it is not suitable to enter the pursuit process immediately after understanding.

When we add WeChat to each other, how can we chat with unfamiliar girls correctly?

First of all, we must understand the differences in thinking between the two sexes. Seeking common ground while reserving differences is the most basic. For example.

For millions of years, men have been quietly waiting for prey in the grass, and women have been chatting with children in caves.

Men and men cooperate with each other because of clear goals, and then quietly start to act after consultation;

Women and women get together because of the same situation, and it is normal for them to talk about each other's state and feelings.

Therefore, men are projective thinking-goal-oriented, while women are mapping thinking-sharing-oriented.

Until today, we will see that two men can go fishing without saying a word, but they can squat by the pond for an afternoon;

Two women go shopping, even if they don't buy anything, they will talk all day.

Let's take a look at the chat between girls again. Let's call it Xiao Ah and Xiao B for the time being.

Small: "I saw a skirt in Vientiane City yesterday. It was very beautiful." (where to see something, this is the state; What is particularly beautiful is the feeling. )

Xiao B: "I saw a windbreaker in Yintai the day before yesterday, and I like it very much." Women seem to be chatting happily, but in fact they all talk separately.

Little A is with her boyfriend.

Small: "I saw a skirt in Vientiane City yesterday. It was very beautiful."

Boyfriend: "How much is it?" (Go directly to the problem solver)

Men talk to solve problems, while women talk to describe themselves in problems.

Men don't know how to chat with unfamiliar girls because they accept the influence of sexual thinking.

He will think: anyway, that's what we are actually doing, or we can meet directly; Or "giving gifts", that is, showing concern; Or "let her know how strong my hunting ability is", which is called display value. In fact, these are all purposeful behaviors.

For a woman, unless she is willing to let you enter the pursuit process, it will resist men's purposeful behavior.

However, the first familiar relationship is not suitable for immediate pursuit, so this is also the fundamental reason why many chat-up offenders are unfavorable in the future.

There is a phenomenon in smooth sexual communication: the active party will adapt to the passive party's way of thinking.

As a man, if a woman throws herself at you, you can certainly act according to your own thinking, and she will certainly obey you.

But if you haven't attracted her very much, you should learn to talk to women in their language.

For example, first understand each other's status, common opening remarks:

"What are you doing?" Or "Are you busy? How have you been recently? " .

Then comprehensively judge the state of the other party according to the speed, content and tone of the other party's answer.

Is she busy or not? Is she in the mood to chat?

If you feel that the other person is not in the state, then don't continue to send WeChat.

This will ensure that you won't make mistakes, won't be annoying, and there will be opportunities in the future.

If you are not sure whether the other party is in a state, for example, the other party replies "at work."

You can answer, "Me too. I'm just not busy right now. When I miss you suddenly, I send a WeChat.

Introduce your status, add some feelings and find out your connection. )

This answer is both a communication and a test. It doesn't matter if the other party doesn't come back. You didn't make any mistakes.

But as long as the other person is not busy and doesn't hate you, it is usually easy to continue. Girls usually talk about themselves or ask you some questions.

For example, "We are always busy and will go on a business trip next week." (Describe the status)

You can answer: "envy, I haven't been on a business trip for a long time, and staying in one place feels quite boring."

(state+feeling)

Maybe she will continue to say, "What do you envy? We are on a business trip and have no time to play.

(She also joined the feelings, which is a good sign of enhanced communication.

Elephant. )

That's it in short. Everything you say is trivial.

If you talk too much, you will feel natural, and then you will be invited.

Remember, always grasp the "state"+"feeling" and find the connection between you and her.

They can be the same or different, and these can be the topics of chatting.

Finally, about the main points of asking questions:

Don't ask questions all the time. Keep talking and asking questions separately to avoid giving the other person an aggressive feeling.

When you are asked questions in the opposite direction, you should ask them well and answer them well.

For example, she asked, "Is your work always leisurely?

Take this opportunity to introduce yourself. (Static situation+feeling)

Don't forget to add "What about you" at the end?

Be kind and friendly, so it's easier to keep the chat going.

The ultimate goal of chatting is to ask each other out.

After all, if you want to have more stories, you still have to meet them realistically.

If you build up enough trust by sharing with each other, you can start inviting.

However, it is easy to be rejected by girls! ! !

This is inevitable. Girls are inherently insecure, and it is difficult for them to agree to an invitation from a stranger.