Divorced because of a text message from her husband

Marriage can be a strong castle, which will become stronger over time, or a fragile besieged city, which will collapse at the slightest sign of trouble.

Sometimes a circle of friends, a pair of socks thrown around, and a message that has not been answered for a long time will trigger all the forbearance and anger in people's hearts at a certain point. The idea of divorce is not a whim, but an outbreak that has been forbearing for a long time.

I want your concern, not ridicule.

I saw a very sad story on the Internet: I got divorced because of my circle of friends.

The woman was married for five years, but divorced because of a circle of friends sent by her husband.

Is it a man cheating? Domestic violence? Gambling? Drinking? Neither.

The thing is, the couple went out to buy food together and then rode home. Because the vegetables and fruits I bought were heavy, my wife fell down after riding for a few steps.

Fortunately, my wife was more flexible and didn't get hurt, but the car rolled over and things were scattered all over the floor. Watermelon was smashed, eggs spilled all over Huang Cancan, and potatoes rolled into the middle of the road.

She looked back at her husband and found that he was taking a video with his mobile phone. He didn't help her up, and no matter whether she was injured or not, he squeezed out a sentence:

"Eggs 6 yuan 5 jins. Why are you so stupid? "

Under the onlookers of others, the husband still did not move, and the wife picked up the car and walked home alone.

Along the way, my wife was very wronged, thinking of her grievances over the years and her husband's indifference, so sad that she wanted to cry.

She picked up the phone, but her husband didn't call or hear anything. Open her husband's circle of friends, only to find that her husband sent her embarrassing appearance to a circle of friends and added a ridicule:

"Why did you marry such a stupid bitch?"

My wife felt extremely cold for an instant, and all her patience collapsed at this moment.

The wife and husband had a big fight, vented their dissatisfaction for many years, and then took her husband to divorce without hesitation.

The husband thinks his wife is crazy. Is the circle of friends divorced?

The wife feels that this circle of friends has broken all her expectations and fantasies about marriage and is the last straw to crush the camel.

What's the point of such a marriage if years of marital friendship have turned into strangers' indifference, if my silent patience has brought you lessons, and if my heart hurts you and you turn a blind eye?

The husband doesn't understand. He thinks that he has neither cheated, gambled nor domestic violence, and he is a good man in the traditional sense. Why do you have to divorce?

What destroys marriage is sometimes the indifference and blindness of the other party. If there is no care and consideration, no love and cherish, there is no difference between a husband and wife living together, living with a stranger and being free and clean as a person.

Marriage is both strong and fragile. A marriage that understands and cares about each other can stick together in the storm of life, but a marriage that doesn't feel warmth and hope will be broken at the touch.

Second, do you know how disgusting other women are?

There is a hot topic on the Internet: "At what moment did you suddenly find that there was something wrong with your relationship?"

Some people say: "communication is getting less and less, only daily necessities are left."

Someone said, "The mobile phone is more important than your partner. You can't live without it, and you don't want to be touched by the other person."

Some people say: "The other party is always secretive and deliberately avoids it."

Someone said, "It's totally boring for me to fall asleep at night." .

These seemingly insignificant little things, but these little things will lead to a big crisis over time, and it is often the seemingly casual little things in life that crush marriage.

The most terrible thing in marriage is to get used to each other's existence, stop trying to please each other and stop taking each other's affairs to heart.

Recently, my friend poured a pot of bitter water on me. My husband never praises comments in the circle of friends, and it turns out that his husband often praises comments in the circle of friends sent by other women in the circle of friends, and none of them fall.

As if he didn't exist in his eyes like air, his friends felt chilling. After more than ten years of marriage, he became cold.

Being indifferent to his wife's dynamics, but paying attention to other women's every move, does the man praise him for not being disgusting?

Third, some marriages can be painful.

As a disabled poet, the first thing Yu Xiuhua did after becoming famous was to divorce her husband.

The misfortune of marriage is often due to the disagreement of three views. From the comparison of details, it is easy to see the difference between the two people's three views:

Yu Xiuhua said that the roads in the village were muddy on rainy days, but her husband never picked her up and gave her a hand. On the contrary, if he falls on the road, he will laugh at her.

Not only that, once on the eve of the Spring Festival, Yin Shiping even coaxed her into asking her boss for a salary.

"When my boss's car will come from there, you'll stop him and ask him to owe me 800 yuan. You are disabled, he won't hit you. "

Yu Xiuhua was silent for a long time. She asked, "but what if he did hit it?" Yin Shiping also don't talk.

At this moment, Yu Xiuhua realized that in her husband's eyes, her life was only worth 800 yuan, not as good as a pig.

This loveless marriage completely broke her heart. In marriage, every minute becomes a torment. When she was able to get rid of the shackles, the first thing she did was to get rid of her marriage and regain her freedom.

Yu Xiuhua finally bought his freedom for the rest of his life with 1.5 million yuan.

Marriage should be two people who love each other and spend the rest of their lives hand in hand, no matter the rain or the ups and downs, you have a solid shoulder to lean on when you are tired, and someone to cry with you when you are in pain.

If marriage is like two strangers living under the same roof, I would rather not have it, at least I can have freedom.