What kind of psychology is the post-90 s now?

When the post-90s "waves behind the Yangtze River push the waves before", we expect to know more about them. After three years of trying, I felt something at 20 10. Through the platform of Dialogue, the image of the post-90s generation is vivid in our minds. We tried to paint a portrait of the post-90s generation, and after a reluctant choice, we left these ten groups of personality sentences. We know it's impossible to cover everything, but at least it's a brave start. ...

Personality 1: Dare to love and hate.

Growing up, they haven't learned to hide their secrets, but their views on the world, whether it's emotions or contempt, are clearly written on their faces. They hate affectation, reject hypocrisy and like transparency. This generation is not as gloomy and complicated as people think. One is one, and the other is two. We don't look forward, we don't look back, we don't cover everything, we don't look for both sides.

Comments from people around you:

Personally, I dare not dare to love and hate, because it also takes some courage. I have such friends around me. I like their style very much, but they pay a higher price. After all, even if a person is annoying, there is always another side. It is too early to say that he dares to love and hate without a comprehensive understanding.

(Respondent: Huang Lingyun, a student, born in1991; School Media Reporter: Wang Xuanhui, School Newspaper of Fujian Agriculture and Forestry University)

In fact, it is the characteristic of each generation of young people to dare to love and hate, but this characteristic varies with age. After 90, they are all in adolescence, which is the normal performance of adolescence. In addition, because the post-90s generation is a special group growing up with the Internet, their behavior will naturally be concerned and amplified by online media.

(Respondent: Chen, a student of Xiamen University, born in1990; School Media Reporter: Huang Yuli, School of Journalism and Communication, Xiamen University)

The post-90 s who dare to love and hate are distinctive and unique. We are cautious in judgment and strict and brave in handling our feelings. Like or hate should be straightforward, without hesitation: love will be dead set, and hate will never give up. Some people think this is necessarily arbitrary, but indecision will make them even more at a loss. Independence and stubbornness in character give us such a resolute and determined character. We do what we think is right. Dare to love and hate is our label. We have our own persistence, which is enough.

(Respondent: Wang Yanmei, a student, born in1991; School Media Reporter: Student Journalist Group of Youth Publicity Center of Zhangzhou Normal University)

After 90, I love life more and love myself more. We will spend a lot of time on things that our elders think are worthless, such as our favorite street dance. We feel that as long as we like it, even if it is bitter, it is worth it. We just want to realize our value in our favorite field. But if we don't like it, it's futile to force it. If we don't love it, we don't love it In short, we are a brave, confident, ambitious generation, who dare to love and hate, which sometimes makes us look too angular and arrogant.

(Interviewee: Selina (studying in the UK), a student, born in1991; School Media Reporter: Wei Rongrong, Fujian Normal University Newspaper)

Most people always think that the post-90s generation are people who dare to love and hate. In fact, no matter which generation, there are only a few who dare to love and hate. In my opinion, dare to love and hate can also be divided into "benign" and "bad". Benign dare to love and hate is integrity and courage. On the other hand, if you look at yourself, you really can't be fearless. And the bad guys dare to love and hate, too ostentatious and irrational. As the post-90s generation, most of them are only children, and there are many self-centered phenomena. The so-called dare to love and hate is also easy to make them unreasonable together.

(Respondent: Zhang Honghua, a student, born in1990; School media reporter: Fujian Normal University Youth News Agency Zhong)

As a post-90s generation, most of my peers dare to love and hate, and detest evil as hatred. This is not only a good phenomenon, but also worrying. On the one hand, they have a clear view of right and wrong, and at the same time, they have a strong personality, are not afraid of power, and are willing to express their ideas bluntly. On the other hand, the unique personality of the post-90s generation often leads to their lack of calm thinking. They always enthusiastically support or vehemently oppose something regardless of objective facts or without comprehensive consideration. Therefore, if the post-90s generation can pay more attention to rational thinking on the basis of clear love and hate, it will be more mature and stable.

(Respondent: Huang, a student of Chinese Department of Zhongnan University of Economics and Law, born in1991; School Media Reporter: Fei Jinghua, Fujian Normal University Youth News Agency)

Personality 2: There are ways to manage "money"

The abacus of financial management is ubiquitous in the daily life of the post-90s generation. They know how to cut costs and pay more attention to open source. The nagging of the elderly to live frugally often leads to the ridicule of the post-90 s: you are out. Qian Shengqian, spend it. They know how to enjoy life and plan wealth. In the eyes of the post-90s generation, resources, talents, contacts, family ties and health are all classified as "wealth" and need careful care.

Comments from people around you:

The topic of financial management has nothing to do with age and cannot be generalized. There are people who can't manage money after 60, and entrepreneurs after 90. From an adult's point of view, most of the post-90s generation are not aware of financial management, even worse than the post-80s generation. I think the most critical reason is that the rapid rise of domestic prices and the diversification of shopping methods have strongly stimulated young people's desire to shop, making it more and more difficult for them to manage their finances, and how to help them establish a correct concept of financial management has become more and more difficult.

(Interviewee: Han Han, a well-known young scholar, was born in1985; School Media Reporter: Huang Yuli, School of Journalism and Communication, Xiamen University)

The post-90s generation around me really has a good way of managing money. They are full of innovative thinking and pay more and more attention to money, so they are very enterprising and start their own businesses earlier. They are willing to spend money on themselves, but most of them are not very generous to their families, relatives and friends after 90. This may be due to the very independent personality characteristics of the post-90 s and the lack of sharing awareness.

(Respondent: Liu Yang, a college student, born in1989; School media reporter: Huaqiao University "Huada Youth Daily" Tong Jing)

After 90, he is active in thinking and courageous. It can't be called financial management if conditions permit, but some post-90 s really spend money. For the vast majority of post-90s who are still in the stage of pure consumption, it is still too early to label them as "finance" because they have not really been exposed to financial education.

(Interviewee: Li Wei, a teacher, born in 1980s; School Media Reporter: Yu Ying, Zhangzhou Normal University)

In the concept of financial management, I admire Chinese children very much. In western countries such as Europe and America, many children's credit cards are seriously overdrawn and even "heavily in debt". China children are very rational in financial management and advocate spending according to the actual situation. With the development of the Internet, they have turned their attention to inexpensive online stores and know how to do great things with small money.

(Respondent: Smith (Finland), a foreign teacher in university, born in 1955; School media reporter: Fujian Normal University Youth News Agency Li Yaqiong)

There is nothing wrong with loving "wealth" after the 1990s, but I think the first thing to love "wealth" is to learn to be thrifty, and waste is more common among students after the 1990s. If a person does not cherish the fruits of people's labor, how can he talk about loving "wealth"? Therefore, for the love of "wealth", we must learn to start from thrift and oppose waste.

(Respondent: Xue Yiqing, senior engineer of Southwest Electric Power Design Institute,/kloc-0, born in June 1958; School Media Reporter: Jiang Yan, Sichuan Normal University)

Personality 3: international style

China, born in 1990s, speaks authentic English and sings pure English songs, which is not very different from the international peers. Compared with the post-60 s, post-70 s and post-80 s, their international vision is broader and their thinking ability is stronger. The post-90s generation is the most "internationalized" generation in the real society, bearing the hope and future of China's rise from a world power.

Comments from people around you:

Compared with people born in other times, the post-90s generation is more fashionable, fashionable, flexible and open. They can accept and adapt to new things more quickly, both at home and abroad, so it is easier to connect with the international community and more "international". You know, most of them began to contact and learn foreign languages when they were still in kindergarten or primary school, or even when they just learned to speak, and they practiced fluent English very early, so they dealt with foreigners relatively smoothly and had little cultural barriers. Although the post-90s generation are young and relatively naive, they should become more rational and mature with the passage of time.

(Respondent: Hu Youzhen, employee, born in1989; School Media Reporter: Jiangxi University of Finance and Economics Zhou Huan)

Influenced by economic integration, education internationalization and information networking, the post-90s generation has more mature internationalization conditions and foundation than the post-60s and post-70s generation, but we still need our joint efforts, especially the solid struggle of the post-90s generation. Internationalization does not mean englishization and westernization. To cultivate international talents, we need to correctly handle the relationship between the world and the nation, tradition and innovation, history and reality, cultivate the "world vision" of the post-90s generation and the "soul of China", and adhere to the unity of internationalization and nationalization.

(Respondent: Chen Yida, associate researcher, born in1970; School Media Reporter: Lin (Fujian Agriculture and Forestry University)

Personality 4: Self-esteem and teamwork.

In the eyes of many people, the post-90s generation is like Sichuan spicy chicken wings, spicy, eccentric, self-centered and full of personality. Indeed, advocating self-development, self-presentation and self-achievement is their belief, but this is obviously not the whole of their belief. They know when they can fully display their personal style and when they should properly restrain their abilities, so as to better integrate into the collective and strive for the goals and honors of the whole collective.

Comments from people around you:

Many people say that the post-90s generation is selfish and lacks a sense of collective honor and cooperation spirit, but I think this is only a minority. Some extreme cases have been infinitely magnified after being reported by the media, which has caused widespread misunderstanding of the post-90s generation by social groups. In our class, most post-90s people are willing to work with Qi Xin. When we rehearsed the party program, although the dance movements were revised repeatedly, everyone had no complaints and actively increased the rehearsal time. Students who practice well can't teach students who don't. Sometimes cooperation is this kind of tacit understanding without words. Although everyone has personality and self, we are duty-bound when necessary.

(Respondent: Huang Jie, a student, born in1992; School Media Reporter: Jiangxi University of Finance and Economics Zhou Huan)

My children and nephews are both born after 90. They give me the impression that they don't care much about anything, they care more about what they like, and they like to stay at home around the computer and let their parents worry. After 90, there is a strong desire for self-expression. Of course, they also have the ability to express themselves. They have their own opinions and opinions on things. Many things that we think are classic are often subverted by them. This makes it easy for them to get rid of isolation in teamwork, and it is also possible to propose more effective solutions. I think they need to know more about society before they can understand the meaning of teamwork. Only when society is more tolerant of them will they be less involved.

(Interviewee: Zhao Direction, a teacher, born in1966; School media reporter: Fujian Putian College Lin)

In my opinion, it is biased to take "self-esteem and team" as the key words of post-90 s. I contacted several new colleagues. On the one hand, the post-90s generation has a strong ability to accept new things, but poor tolerance for setbacks. They like to show their abilities in team work, but they often can't face up to their mistakes, and they are easy to be self-righteous and exaggerate. Some of them are cooperative, but as a whole, they need further training in this field.

(Interviewee: Xiao Jinfa, engineer, born in1963; School Media Reporter: Jun Xiao, Fujian Institute of Technology)

Personality 5: Anti-loneliness

The post-90s generation who call themselves "Internet aborigines" are often labeled as "self", "loneliness" and "indifference", but they say, "Actually, we never think so ourselves." As only children, they actually yearn for and cherish friendship more than people with brothers and sisters. They never make friends deliberately, let alone utilitarian. They like to build their own circle of friends and have many kinds of partners.

Comments from people around you:

Who hasn't been lonely? We have no reason to worry about the post-90s generation and are not qualified to teach them. The post-90s generation did not experience great political wars or great economic fluctuations. Their war is just their own mental panic. They love money, games, themselves and freedom. Living in a small circle makes them more independent, but innovation and independent mind are also derivatives of their loneliness. Sometimes "loneliness" is related to the general environment, such as the education system, such as the family environment, but some things are interlinked, such as love, such as cherishing pure friendship ... blessing is better than worrying!

(Interviewee: Ai, reporter of Tangshan Evening News, born in 1970s; School media reporter: China Youshi University Sun Wei)

The post-90s generation is not a lonely generation. They are full of love. They care for others in the face of floods, earthquakes and other natural disasters, especially in the volunteer service of the Olympic Games and the World Expo, which fully shows their love for the motherland. Now many post-90s are only children. There are indeed some post-90s people who are confined to a small world all day, and their hearts are not open, but this phenomenon exists in any generation. Society should not blame the post-90s generation too much.

(Respondent: Huang, a university professor, born in1953; School media reporter: Lin (newspaper of Fujian Agriculture and Forestry University)

The post-90s generation is lonely. Most of them are only children, and their parents attach too much importance to their children, preferring to keep them at home rather than let them go out to play with their peers. Gradually, the post-90 s children developed a withdrawn character and lived in their own small circle. Recalling my childhood, I spent it with my peers, harvesting straw and playing together. Today's children have excellent living conditions, but they are like birds in a golden cage, seemingly comfortable, but actually lonely.

(Respondent: Xie Guihua, an ordinary teacher who has worked in a primary school for a long time, was born in1958; School Media Reporter: Xu Shanshan, Minnan Institute of Technology, Fujian Normal University)

Personality 6: Modern family view.

Loving children is not rewarded by giving, but doting will hinder children's growth and dispel their upward motivation. Support at critical moments can make him feel a sense of accomplishment in adversity. High-quality intergenerational relations are actually more important than unilateral fatherly love and maternal love. Children should be taught to stare at their father's loving eyes, feel their mother's warm hands, complain less and hate iron for not turning into steel.

Comments from people around you:

In fact, many people can't answer the concept of kinship, but they can all feel its existence. This is an emotion that cannot be expressed in words. "inherit the wind". Every parent's starting point is for the good of their children, although their ways may not be to our taste. Therefore, when encountering contradictions, I have a good talk with my parents and try to be understanding and considerate. The older I grow up, the more I feel that my parents are really not easy. Moreover, in my opinion, no matter what age we were born in, family ties will always be the best thing in the world.

(Respondent: Zhang Haixing, a student, born in1990; School media reporter: Fujian Medical University Youth News Agency Zhang Meilian)

Many times, children's ideas come from family, regardless of age. I will not compare my child with others, but give him a warm hug and an encouraging look; I not only care about his success, but also want to share his growth. I hope my son will listen more, not just show it; Experience more, don't hide behind your parents, and never grow up. I would like to give my children a belief that affection is mutual sharing and support, and it is constant warmth and strength.

(Interviewee: Yu Tian, a university teacher,/kloc-0, born in 1970s; School media reporter: China Youshi University Sun Wei)

Sometimes, public opinion labels us. When we don't know how to be filial, we become the target of public criticism because of "unfilial". In fact, for us, parents and elders are still worthy of our respect, and those who should be filial will test everything.

(Respondent: Ethan, a student, born in1992; School media reporter: Fuzhou University newspaper Lin Dian)

Affection is like a cool breeze blowing slowly in midsummer and steaming milk in winter. It goes hand in hand, giving us meticulous care and touch. Affection is a familiar figure of my father at the intersection of alleys where he goes home part-time in winter and summer vacations; It is my sister's tireless enlightenment when her study and work are not satisfactory; Is to listen to my mother's nagging at home in my spare time; I was anxious to hear that my sister failed the exam ... It was passed down from our ancestors to our parents and passed down from generation to generation, teaching us how to love others and the truth that "blood is thicker than water".

(Respondent: Gao Biqing, a student, born in1990; School media reporter: Putian College newspaper Liu Chunrong)

The attitude of the post-90s generation towards their parents is contradictory. On the one hand, they can be aware of their parents' hard work or everything their parents have done, but on the other hand, they take everything their parents have provided for granted, and rarely use some actions to express their love for their parents or relieve their pressure. I think the most fundamental reason is that the post-90s generation are not good at expressing themselves, especially boys.

(Interviewee: Li Rongkai, college student, born after 90; School Media Reporter: Student Press Group of Youth Publicity Center of Zhangzhou Normal University, Yang Bishuang)

The pampered environment has made the post-90 s develop many bad personalities. After 90, most of them love to show but lack patience to listen, especially the nagging of their loved ones. If you don't pay attention to your expression, you will often hurt your loved ones inadvertently. After 90, they are not good at communicating with their relatives. They would rather tell their feelings to strangers on the computer than their relatives. They are constantly pursuing fashion, and they always feel that their parents' ideas are backward and their thoughts can't keep up with the trend.

(Respondent: Yang, a student, born in1992; School media reporter: Fujian Normal University Youth News Agency Zhou Xiaotong)

After growing up in a relaxed and affluent environment, the post-90s have their own unique attachment to family. A song "Listen to Mom" sings a person's expectation of filial piety when he grows up. A "The Most Beautiful Song in the World" directly hummed out the memory of the family after 90. In fact, the family view of the post-90 s is very simple. "My parents work too hard, I want to make money, buy a good house and provide for my parents" is their simple and firm idea, and it is also their best interpretation of the family.

(Respondent: Lin Ying, a student, born in1991; School Media Reporter: Nie Lirong, Youth News Agency of Fujian Normal University)

Personality 7: Animation Generation

Animation has been deeply embedded in many post-90s spiritual structures. Animation not only brings them happiness, but also touches, thinks and inspires them. They are not satisfied with the current situation of animation in China, but they just don't know whether they have the power to change this situation when they grow into a new force in animation production. We can only wait and see.

Comments from people around you:

I like two generations of love, and I like Naruto after 90. I haven't seen Naruto, but I guess it must be unique. Perhaps it can make children realize the same or even more vivid truth as in books and movies through strange stories and novel ideas. This kind of impact is more vivid and plain. If animation can bring leisure and sentiment at the same time, I think it can be a reason for growth.

(Interviewee: Wang Cuihong, a teacher from Tangshan No.1 Middle School, was born in the 1960s; School media reporter: China Youshi University (East China) Sun Jing)

Personality 8: pure modern view

Compared with the post-1970s and post-1990s, greenhouses, greenhouses, sunshine and fertilizers are all fed scientifically, and everything is sufficient. It looks like it is cooked, and it seems that it has never been green at all. But they are still pure, but this purity is not the "1975" version in the mind of director Zhang Yimou, but the 20 10 version.

Comments from people around you:

In my mind, "purity" is a word reserved for girls with simple thoughts and clear hearts. But now, the post-90s girls are different from their children. They have mobile phones, computers and designer clothes, and grew up in a complex world. It's normal that they are well informed. Naivety may be just a term of an era, which contains youth, ignorance, even ignorance and barrenness. Now, innocence has lost its nutrients for growth, and it is more related to the beauty of appearance or the freshness of temperament. Since we are familiar with each other, how can we "rejuvenate"? Maybe time flies so fast that our thinking can't keep up. ...

(Respondent: He, retired worker, born in 1960s+091950s; School media reporter: China Youshi University (East China) Sun Jing)

It is true that people born in the 1960s, 1970s and 1980s are moving from youth to maturity. The difficulties they have experienced are unimaginable, and their fighting spirit is also worthy of respect and learning. However, it is undeniable that in this era of rapid expansion of the Internet, the post-90 s contact with the world is wider than the previous generation, and a large number of Japanese dramas, Korean dramas and American dramas are flooding the Internet. It is natural that the clothes and behaviors of the post-90s generation are different from those of the previous generation. As long as it's not over-imitation, why not make appropriate changes?

(Respondent: Xue Haoren, a college student, born in1989; School Media Reporter: Xi Jiaotong University Xu Pan)

Personality 9: Entertaining spirit

The post-90s generation who declared that "I can eat limited, wear limited and spend limited every day, but my happiness must be infinite" is a generation with super entertainment ability. In their eyes, entertainment is a natural release and a way of life that makes them happier. Compared with any generation of us, they all want to "live in entertainment and learn and grow in entertainment".

Comments from people around you:

In fact, every generation expects to live as relaxed and happy as children born in the 1990s. The post-90s generation is a happy one. They have enough time and energy to enrich their spare time through entertainment. Although sometimes it seems crazy and wild, in fact, many of them learn while playing. Compared with our generation, they enjoy life the most.

(Respondent: Zhou, a farmer, born in1963; School Media Reporter: Jiangxi University of Finance and Economics Zhou Huan)

Most post-90s don't have to worry too much about not having enough to eat and not being warm, so they have more time and energy to pursue spiritual comfort. Entertainment is the spice of life, and proper entertainment can relax yourself, relieve stress and eliminate troubles. However, the cynicism of the post-90s generation and the "pan-entertainment" phenomenon of the Dance Academy are also worthy of vigilance.

(Interviewee: Kuang Juan, a college student, born in February,1990; School Media Reporter: Jiangxi University of Finance and Economics Zhou Huan)

Personality 10: Love is in the moment.

After 90, there is sufficient mobility. They do what they want, without thinking, and like challenges. They said, "Actually, we are not complicated. We just need a space for expression." They also said: "Give me sunshine, and I will be brilliant; Give me space and I will grow. "

Comments from people around you:

Like many post-90s generation, I am also happy to show my style and personal charm on appropriate occasions. However, this kind of behavior is often misunderstood by teachers or other elderly people as too ostentatious, not modest enough, and even criticized as ignorance. In this case, I usually don't pout or argue with them in a hurry. In my opinion, as long as you don't violate the law and discipline, don't touch the moral bottom line and do whatever you want, why look at other people's faces? The best way to overcome doubt is to act. After 90, I will work hard silently and give myself a chance to prove that I am not worse than others.

(Respondent: Wang Qingfeng, a college student, born in1991; School Media Reporter: Jiangxi University of Finance and Economics Zhou Huan)

Some people say that the post-90s generation is pushy, boastful and arrogant, but I don't think this is a common phenomenon. Compared with the former college students, the post-90s generation is a little more self-centered, but if you really have in-depth contacts with them, you will find that they are more likely to communicate with their teachers. As long as you are sincere to them, they will get close to you soon. Many people don't treat them from the heart, or don't have much contact with them and don't know them well, which leads to such misunderstanding.

(Respondent: Wei Liyan, a university teacher, born in1977; School Media Reporter: Jiangxi University of Finance and Economics Zhou Huan)

Typical characteristics of "post-90 s"

1. Keep talking in front of acquaintances and keep silent in front of strangers;

2. A hobby must be sleeping;

3. I always feel that others can't understand myself;

4. Don't ask questions, just check Google and Baidu;

5. Be keen on studying astrological fortune;

6. There must be a chat tool in the computer;

7. The degree of glasses is increasing rapidly;

8. Have a soft spot for anime, especially Japanese and Korean anime;

9.QQ number level is above one grandson;

10. The speed of texting is the same as that of BMW Z4;

1 1. Sitting in front of the computer, you can sit on your ass and smoke;

12. I like to make a careful personal plan and then not implement it;

13. I like to check whether there are any text messages on my mobile phone if I have nothing to do;

14. All electrical appliances don't read the instruction manual;

15. I hate it when my parents compare themselves with others;

16. High efficiency at night;

17. Let go of madness in front of everyone;

18. Like being alone at home;

19. Always have breakfast and lunch together;

20. Every day, home-school-home, two points and one line;

2 1. Report good news but not bad news;

22. There is no guarantee to brush your teeth twice a day;

23. You can use Martian;

24. Drinking a certain brand of beverage for a long time;

25. At least one backpack;

26. The most commonly used address is "classmate";

27. When passing by a place with specular reflection, you will definitely pay attention to your appearance;

28. Clean at least once every two weeks;

29. Never know where your money has gone;

30. Know one or two dialects;

3 1. Like cool girls or beautiful boys;

32. Write a blog, but never work hard;

33. Netizens become friends and friends become netizens;

34. You can borrow books, never borrow CDs;

35. At least one star used to be an idol, but now he is ashamed to admit it;

36.R & ampR, R & ampb, hip hop, like at least one;

37. Pinyin can be typed every word, but it may not be written;

38. Call less and send text messages frequently;

39. The keyboard wears away quickly;

40.CRBT changes every two weeks;

4 1. There is more than one MP3 player;

42. Don't read posts with more than 500 words;

43. Never be satisfied with your hairstyle;

44. Love to go to the small shop Taobao;

45. despise the post-80 s;

46. like QQ but don't like MSN；;

47. Power Ranger and Altman must have seen it;

48. Two minutes are often arranged like this: one minute is worship, and the next minute becomes contempt;

49. I always want to try new products in advertisements;

50. Never find your own pen.