San Xiao most afraid of is how to deal with the original opponent. She is too emotional to send a message to San Xiao.

In feelings, how should the original match make the mistress retreat? Only when we face the third party and know ourselves and ourselves can we be invincible. I hope that in front of a third party, the original match can calmly counterattack the third wife.

San Xiao is most afraid of how to deal with her.

1. Not afraid of means and danger.

In fact, in real life, everyone wants to have a complete marriage. I hope that from the beginning of falling in love, I can be completely blessed. But reality is reality, and many families are not satisfied. In the face of cheating, many people have different attitudes. Those wives choose to divorce calmly and decisively. Some wives may not want to give up their husbands' big family business for their children, so they will choose to bear it, even if they know that their husbands are cheating. Of course, there is another kind of person, that is, in the face of her husband's infidelity, she is not afraid of danger, does not cry or make trouble. In fact, it is very difficult to be fearless in times of crisis. There is no truly generous woman in the world, and no one wants to be deprived of their marriage, let alone give away their husbands. If there is such a kind person, I'm afraid I'm out of my mind. Therefore, what San Xiao is most afraid of is that the original match is particularly calm. A woman, with the most calm attitude, is the most powerful way to completely destroy mistress.

2, afraid of being in charge of the original distribution of economic power at home.

In fact, most mistresses have only one purpose, that is, for money. Actually, you can think about it. No woman is a bad woman who deprives others of their feelings from birth. She may have just experienced something in her life, which led to different ideas, so she can meet her needs in this way. Maybe only in this way can money give her a sense of security. There is even another reason, or it may be that they have been hurt by men. But in this, it is not excluded that there are some small three purposes, really for love. So, at this time, what San Xiao fears most is that the original collocation is a woman with economic strength at home. Once this happens, no matter how hard they try, it will be in vain. Therefore, an original match is the most powerful blow, and it is the real purpose for men to see mistress.

3. Fear of men's parents and children

Its realization is that many people solve emotional problems, which is very simple and rude. That is, once my husband cheated on me, he called a group of young ladies directly and attacked his third wife. So there are often reports in life or on TV that a group of people are playing mistresses in the street. Think from the victim's point of view, that is, I think mistress is hateful, but some people think from mistress's point of view, which is another aspect, and some people will even be proud of being mistress. In fact, as an original match, you must have a cognition that the most important person in this struggle is your husband. Only when your husband asks San Xiao to leave voluntarily can you win. In fact, it is not difficult to see that many men will regret it after cheating, and even beg their wives' forgiveness and return to their original families. So mistress is afraid of men's parents and children. Therefore, as long as we grasp San Xiao's weakness, we can completely defeat San Xiao. Therefore, we must know how to make good use of family ties.

Send a message to San Xiao with high emotional intelligence.

Now, I don't want to hate you at all, because I think you are also a person who pursues romance and happiness. I don't need to complain about you. I complain about my husband, and I complain about myself. Why can't I hold my husband's heart? Why can't I make him feel attractive? That's why I will give you a chance. Now, although I say I don't hate you at all, I don't agree with your behavior. Knowing that he is a married woman, won't your conscience be condemned if you still do this? Even if you are loved by him now, we once loved each other so much, and now I may become you in the future.

What is the cruelest way to deal with a third party?

1. Take defense as the attack and stick to your first position.

Don't cry when you know your husband is cheating. As the saying goes, evil is not right since ancient times. In the witness of relatives and friends, my husband married you, and you are his original match. You must be sure that you are right. As the saying goes, "those who gain the Tao can help more", and those who lose the Tao can do nothing. Compared with the third party, you have strong public opinion supervision and moral orthodoxy maintenance, and everyone is occupied by heaven and earth. At this time, it is more unstable than anyone, and more impatient than anyone. Whoever loses his temper first will lose.

2. Show your husband the weak side.

When women are used to bossing men around at home and bossing men around outside, happiness will definitely miss you. A strong woman will put a lot of pressure on men, and men can't get the need and worship in her, which will lead men to go out and find women in need, thus putting their marriage in crisis. Why do men like mistresses? Because she knows how to show weakness, makes men feel needed, respected and affirmed, and can stimulate men's desire for protection. Such a woman is what men want.

3. Become a "changeable" woman

After getting married, many women gradually change themselves from slim girls to fat aunts, circling around their husbands and children all day, dominating the world in the kitchen and wearing clothes all year round. At home, unkempt and unkempt, which man would like such a woman? If you want to save your husband, you need to become a beautiful woman with an ever-changing image, find your original girl's heart, dress yourself well, stop circling around the kitchen, husband and children and find your own interests.

4. Do housework.

Family reasons are also one of the reasons why men cheat. Women's ability to stay at home often depends on your ability to save their marriage. When you take good care of your parents-in-law, educate your children politely and decorate your home warmly, so that your husband can have a delicious dinner as soon as he gets home, even if the third wife is capable, you can't beat him to a home with children and parents. So when you know that your husband is having an affair, don't forget to take care of your family at all times. You can focus on your family. There are many beautiful things in life, which you should not ignore. These are all ways to separate mistresses.

5. Make life colorful.

After marriage, if the wife's life is always 3: 1, family-kitchen-market, and the topic with her husband is always short and wordy, what is the charm of such a woman? The extramarital affairs expert said, "The quality of life is the most important factor for long-term attraction, because the higher the quality of life, the more exciting it is, and the more attractive it will be to the people around you and your long-term life." You should enrich your life, such as traveling, fitness, making friends, learning flower arrangement, learning marriage, learning Buddhism and so on. A rich life can enhance your temperament and make you more attractive.

6. Take its essence and learn from the advantages of third parties.

Many times, it's not just the husband's fault that men cheat. You may have problems yourself. And it may be because of these problems in your life that your husband cheated on you outside. At this time, you can calm down and try to get to know the third party. Why can a third party steal from you? What game did she play? Your husband has a crush on her and figured it out. You will find your own shortcomings more easily than you. It is very useful for your marriage to take the essence and find out the shortcomings to remedy it.

What do men like to find when looking for a mistress?

1. Young, beautiful and in good shape.

Most men have a clear goal of finding a third party-being young, beautiful and in good shape is the standard, and it would be better if they had a higher education. Having such a woman with a man will make him feel very respectable. However, if your husband loves his mother's sister, or an older woman is particularly fierce, there may be a "third son" older than you.

2. Being gentle, considerate and obedient will spoil you.

If the third party you meet tells a man how much he loves and then cries, "Don't accompany my wife and children!" " "That kind of. Then you don't have to worry too much. This kind of girl has no strategic awareness and can't become a big climate. However, if the third party can always show consideration and encourage men to go home and spend more time with their children and wives, it will always save money and effort for men. Then it will be much more difficult for you to separate from a third party.

3. High IQ and patience

Patience is important for third-party work. It must be a protracted war, and successful third parties generally have high temporary business. -because the third party has to fight not only the man's distrust of her, but also the bondage of his children and his wife, as well as his remaining morality and kindness. High IQ means "fighting" and patience means "long-term fighting".

4. Single-minded, not greedy for money.

For the third party outside marriage, it is a red rose, especially for the third party who has no money to feel, which makes men feel that they have found a harbor where they can escape from family chores. This kind of third party will make men believe that they have met true love to the greatest extent after marriage. The third party is much cuter to Mrs. Gong Zheng, and she humiliated him when she came home. Over time, men will inevitably have the psychology of keeping up with the joneses. If a man finds that the sunk cost of breaking up with a third party is already great at this time, then the possibility of the third party being superior will be great. Therefore, a third-party girl with a good sense of pattern, long-term vision and strong overall view will try not to take the initiative to raise money, but wait passively.