How to get along with extramarital lovers

The phenomenon of lovers seems to have become a common phenomenon in today's society. Based on my own observation and many experiences around me, I think getting along with lovers is also a science.

First of all, lovers will not be lovers forever, so we must consider the long term.

Some people say that having a lover all one's life is alarmist and hearsay. Because it is impossible to maintain a lifelong relationship with lovers, they will either get married together and become lovers or go their separate ways. The ideal ending can only be to keep friends and never be lovers for life. Therefore, you must have a long-term consideration with your lover, and you can't think that temporary joy is forever.

Secondly, the lover will not completely belong to himself, so we must grasp the scale.

Everyone knows that love is selfish, and lovers prefer each other to be their own. This is fantastic, daydreaming. Because lovers in the usual sense refer to people who have extramarital affairs, and lovers have their own homes, otherwise they are not called lovers. Since a lover has his own home, he/she must belong to his/her lover, and his/her temporary possession is also temporary. Generally speaking, lovers can be lovers with you and others, so we must realize this calmly and never think that lovers are our own.

Third, lovers can't pursue their own interests, they must be clear-headed.

When enjoying "love", it seems that everything is so beautiful, so "pure", wishful thinking and madness in love. Love is often wrapped in sweet words, but in fact, it has its own career in its bones. To sum up, it is nothing more than sex money. Men love sex more and women love money more. There are not many men in the world who really pursue Platonic spiritual love, and of course there are few women who commit themselves to each other without money. So when you get along with your lover, you must see this clearly, and don't think that what you meet is true love.

Finally, lovers will not give up their families easily, so they must obey the rules.

I don't object to lovers, but I object to lovers destroying the family. And getting along with your lover is a betrayal of your family and a violation of morality. Therefore, when you meet "love" or get along with your lover, you should be very calm and behave yourself, and it is best not to cheat. Even if there is outrageous behavior, we should take the family as the last line of defense and not let the backyard catch fire. Since both sides refuse to let the family break up, it is time to get along well with their lovers, strive to be abstinent, not indulge themselves, and not think of love so unforgettable and heartbreaking.

To sum up, the feelings you get along with your lover can't be called love. I know it's just love, love and affection. Love is sex, and love is like keeping a pet. Therefore, to get along with lovers, it is best not to be lovers (referring to sexual relations), but to be friends and friends.