Anxiety of young parents

When a child enters a large class, he immediately faces the problem of going to primary school. Parents are anxious about what to do and how to do it.

Through the questionnaire survey, we found that the general confusion of parents is mainly manifested in the following aspects: when to start preparing for the young connection; What are the contents of young convergence? As a parent, what should be prepared; How to choose a school for children; What problems need to be considered when choosing a school, etc.

For the connection between young children, some parents think it is enough to attend pinyin classes, literacy classes or preschool classes at the end of large classes or during summer vacation. This idea is wrong. Young convergence is not a temporary surprise process, but a long-term process, which needs to start from kindergarten classes and continue until the first grade of primary school. However, parents need not worry too much. As long as children have normal intelligence and can complete the tasks assigned by teachers during kindergarten, they can basically adapt to the learning life of primary schools smoothly.

Because the whole process of children going to kindergarten is to prepare for going to primary school in the future and cultivate all kinds of abilities that should be possessed, including the cultivation of living habits, study habits and learning ability. Specifically, the cultivation of living habits includes: children can take care of themselves and manage themselves in all aspects of life such as eating, drinking, pulling, scattering and sleeping; The cultivation of study habits includes five aspects: children's listening habits, expression habits, feedback habits, task consciousness and attention cultivation. Learning ability mainly focuses on improving children's attention, memory, observation, imagination, understanding and imitation.

Young convergence also includes parents choosing the right school for their children. When choosing a school, parents should first consider being close to home. At present, the enrollment of primary schools everywhere is divided into districts, and the policy of letting children choose schools nearby is also to facilitate children to go to school at ordinary times. Secondly, parents should not blindly buy school districts or move their registered permanent residence to key schools. It is unwise to blindly pursue key schools, but to choose schools according to children's learning ability and conditions. Finally, before choosing a school, parents should investigate their favorite schools in many aspects, including asking neighbors, searching for school information on the Internet and visiting schools on the spot.

Parents should also pay attention to the regularity of work and rest and the cultivation of eating habits. There are many learning tasks in primary schools, and teachers are strict with students. Unlike kindergarten teachers, they have a relaxed attitude towards children's lateness and leave. Primary schools have very strict requirements for attendance, and teachers will criticize them for being late or absent for no reason. In terms of diet, kindergartens will provide three meals a day, while in primary schools, breakfast and dinner are eaten at home, so parents need to make adjustments in this regard.