How to further develop Zhihu with blind date girls

1, more contact in the first two weeks is the foundation.

Contact each other as much as possible after the blind date, but don't talk too deeply at this time. When you are free, ask each other out to meet, eat, chat and watch movies. Sometimes you can buy some small gifts for each other when you meet, such as dolls and flowers.

2. Fully show yourself and get to know each other in the first two weeks.

In a short time after the blind date, everyone should fully show their personality and interests in order to let the other party know more about your characteristics. At the same time, read more information about each other. This stage of mutual understanding can be discussed by both parties themselves or inquired by the blind date introducer.

3. If you have a good impression in the first two weeks, declare it boldly.

If you are really sure that you like her and want to spend the rest of your life with her, you can boldly express your love and say it out loud. No matter how she reacts, at least you gave yourself a chance, at least you won't regret your cowardice in the future.

4. Avoid holding hands and kissing during the first two weeks of mutual understanding.

It is best not to hold hands casually in the stage of mutual understanding after blind date, and to avoid physical contact with girls such as hugging and kissing. Because before the other person is fully familiar with you, any small gesture of yours will arouse the other person's vigilance, and ambiguous physical contact will easily arouse the other person's disgust.

After two weeks, I got a good impression and began to get to know each other better.

After the blind date, if two people have a pleasant two weeks and find that their affection for each other is gradually warming up, then they can have a deeper spiritual communication. At this time, you can expand each other's topics to your deeper hobbies and life concepts, so that the "emotional temperature" between you will be greatly improved.

6. After two weeks, you can make reasonable physical contact occasionally.

Please note that it is "occasional" and "reasonable", not deliberate, deliberate. Like taking her home and taking the subway together. In the crowded carriage, your bodies are very close, which is in line with the word "reasonable"; For example, if you go shopping with her and walk side by side, sometimes, in order to avoid the passers-by, you will lean aside and then you will meet her. This is "both reasonable and accidental."