Husband and ex-wife are getting hotter and hotter, and ambiguous text messages keep coming. What should I do?

To tell the truth, during the marriage, he was very kind to me and my parents, and I always felt very happy. I believe he is a responsible and good man. But on the first 10 day of 2008, my husband's mobile phone was charging at home, and then the phone rang, and four text messages came, all of which were ambiguous love words. I suspect it's from his ex-wife, but I don't know his ex-wife's number. But it has his ex-wife's name in it. It seems that my husband sent it to her, and she sent it back. At this time, my husband came back, so I asked him if he still had contact with her. He denied me. So I looked up this number on the internet, and it really belonged to his ex-wife, and then he admitted it. I couldn't accept it and cried. My husband comforted me by saying that we met at the class reunion through several phone calls. He also vowed never to meet again. I want to check his account online, but he won't allow it. Seeing that he insisted, I didn't insist either. Besides, I didn't try out his password at that time, so I didn't look it up. I talked to my husband about the conditions and said that I should leave tens of thousands of dollars in my family savings. I feel safer. My husband agreed, and after listening to his promise, I really thought they just met at the classmate party, so I believed it. I looked up his list on the internet again, and the result made me pale. Their text messages began to be sent months ago, and the intensity was from morning till night. I didn't expect my husband to lie to me like this! I want a divorce, but what about the baby in my belly? Suddenly I feel that the sky is falling. They send text messages like lovers in love, but he and his wife who have been married for less than a year have nothing to say at home, like the most familiar strangers! My husband explained to me this time that his ex-wife is unhappy in her family and wants to be with him. But he turned her down, saying that he would never betray our family. I don't know if I should trust him. Is it necessary for them to send text messages from morning till night as he said? The text message sent by his ex-wife is obviously his love story. I want to divorce him, but he won't. I think it's because of the baby. He is 36 years old, but he has no children yet. Now he finally has one. I met him when I was 20 and married him. I said that our family is going to break up, and I want to abort the child. The baby is five months pregnant, he said to me. What should I do? Please give me a good analysis! I grew up in a single-parent family. Without my father's care and love, I would choose a husband much older than me. I think such a man will definitely give me a special sense of security. Moreover, he has been divorced and will cherish this marriage. I have always trusted him very much. He has many social activities in his work and often goes in and out of colorful places. He goes out early and comes back late almost every day, and he is drunk and smoked every day. Even so, I understand him very well. I believe that he is working hard for his family outside. I see him drinking every day and feel sorry for him. I never doubted him. I wait for him at home every day and never complain. My personality is a familiar one. I am particularly bad at dealing with strangers, so I have no friends. I don't go out much at home every day. My husband never has time to accompany me. Even if I finally get home, I just want to watch TV. He never knew my inner loneliness and depression. I didn't expect my husband who told me every day that he was very busy and tired at work had time to send text messages to his ex-wife from morning till night! And sometimes I text him, and he doesn't answer! For me, the sky is falling. I have lost trust in him. I feel that he is lying to me, and my heart is very painful. Emotionally, I may be an absolute perfectionist, and I can't tolerate a little betrayal and deception from the other side. I want to end it, but I can't bear to part with the little guy who has punched and kicked in my stomach, but I am particularly afraid, afraid that after the baby is born. At that time, I wouldn't even have a place to live, and the children were bound to leave. I can't help crying when I think about it. But now that my husband has admitted his mistake and vowed not to contact his ex-wife, I still have a glimmer of hope that this family will be as good as ever. I still wonder if they will be separated in the future. This uncertainty about the future is really unbearable. I think. It's impossible if you hope that there will be no storms in your family life. Since I don't give up my baby and don't want to live anywhere, I am determined to cultivate trust and closeness with my husband. As for swearing and writing your name on the real estate license, these are not guarantees that you trust him. Which do you want, a house or a happy family? You have to think clearly.