Those who can talk make people laugh, and those who can't talk make people jump.

Those who can talk make people laugh, and those who can't talk make people jump.

Speaking is an art, as the saying goes: Talking makes people laugh, but not talking makes people jump. ? Secretarial staff work in the leadership center and have the responsibility to communicate the relationship between the top, bottom and left. If they don't pay attention to art, sometimes it will bring bad or serious consequences. A person's maturity will determine your behavior.

A word is wrong, which makes the brother unit unhappy.

Hello, is this the county statistics bureau? I'm from the county office. Have you counted the completion of various economic indicators in the first half of this year? ? This is the secretary of a county office calling the county statistics bureau. The other party's answer counts. The secretary added:? We are writing a speech to the leader, eager to get these figures. Send it to me. ? Hearing this, the people in the Bureau of Statistics were very unhappy and said:? We are busy, too. You can copy it yourself. ? Bang, the phone was cut off. What happens if the secretary changes her tone and asks for support and assistance?

A careless word may lead to discord between leaders.

The relationship between the two top leaders of the party and government in a certain place was very good, but once they were slightly unhappy because of differences in work opinions. Just at this time, the superior came to a work inspection team. On the issue of escort, the secretary thinks that it is enough for the party and government leaders to be accompanied by one person, and it is not necessary for both of them to go. Unexpectedly, when the office secretary conveyed the secretary's meaning to the person in charge of the government, he said: He won't go if the secretary says you will. ? When the head of government heard this, he thought: What do you mean, I'll go and he won't go? Although I went reluctantly, I always thought the secretary was biased against myself. Fortunately, the two leaders talked later and cleared up the misunderstanding. Otherwise I don't know what will happen. These are just a few examples available to the author. In life and work practice, there are more serious examples than this. For example, due to careless conversation, disclosure of major secrets, and casual remarks lead to passive leadership and overall work. Of course, because of the secretarial staff Can talk? , so that the leadership intention can be accurately and smoothly implemented, so that neighborhood relations can get along closely and harmoniously, and such examples are endless.

Interpersonal relations in the workplace: what should I learn to say?

1, rhetoric

What songs are sung in what mountains, and different songs are sung in different docks.

Summarize the work, make decisions for leaders, and tell colleagues about democratic appraisal. On these occasions, you should be able to write platitudes, which are not directional and everyone is happy to see them.

Autumn leaves said that the bigger the officer, the better. The main job is to hold a meeting, which is mainly to summarize. The summary is mainly three points: first, it was a successful meeting and a United meeting; Second, everyone has put forward many good opinions, and the key is to implement them; Third, this meeting is over. Let's ask Comrade * * * to stay and have another meeting.

2. Authenticity

Telling the truth is the hardest, because telling the truth is a high-risk behavior. A man who says he only tells the truth must be a liar. People who never tell the truth must be immortals.

As a man, you must learn to tell the truth. If you never tell the truth and only tell lies, you can't be a liar. A good liar must tell nine truths and then deceive you with a lie.

The truth depends on time, place and object. Telling the truth regardless of the occasion may be a violation of the leader, or it may be a cold heart of subordinates.

When the leader gave you personal advice and the cultivation was beyond words, did you find an opportunity to tell the truth and express your loyalty? When everyone is wise to protect themselves, do you tell the truth in front of the leaders?

Lying is a skill, and telling the truth is an art. If you dare to tell the truth, it will make you proud, and telling the truth will make you beyond redemption.

3. Empty talk

I didn't say that. It's all empty talk

The boss's vision to employees is often empty talk, and the employees' commitment to the boss is also air-to-air. Empty talk is what you say and do, but it can reflect your attitude and determination. The greater the determination, the more positive the attitude, and the louder the empty talk.

4. Iron

No one wants to be sarcastic, but you must be sarcastic. For example, give democratic comments to leaders. We will say that the main shortcoming of leadership is not working hard. This is irony, which is not a disadvantage in China, but an advantage. Akiba suggested that leaders are not good at uniting lesbians (meaning that the leadership style is decent).

It's also ironic that leaders don't work hard (ironically, if you want to work overtime, don't bother our soldiers to work overtime? You have to pay overtime if you want to work overtime, right? )

Irony depends on whether others will listen. If you don't listen, laugh it off. If you listen too well, you can hear it normally.

5. Nonsense

You must speak at the meeting, whether it is about personal performance or talking about the progress of the project. At this time, you can't tell the truth, you can't lie, you can't be sarcastic, you can't talk too much, you can only talk nonsense.

Nonsense makes people confused and respectful. Think about it. What did you do?

Step 6 swear words

It is not unusual for men to tell dirty jokes now, but it is fun for women to tell dirty jokes. On the wine table and during the trip, there is no color matching, which is a little less emotional.

Casual sketches between the same sex are a prelude to flirting between the opposite sex and one of the sources of mass short messages.

7.lies

If you can't lie, you can't leave the society. Don't talk about adults, even children can lie now. I just think lying is natural.

There are three kinds of lies, well-meaning (when visiting cancer patients, you will never say that you are dying), malicious (there are many) and subconscious (when others ask you how you are, you just answer blindly).

Autumn leaves comment on four lies of adults: female age, male income, bonus promised by boss, and goal promised by employees.

8. if you are drunk

Some words really can't be said, and not saying them is injustice. Then drink.

Once you drink it, don't worry about whether you are drunk or not. Today, my brother has something to say. He said it when he borrowed wine. Sounds reasonable, but if it doesn't, he should be drunk. Ignore it!

There is truth, nonsense, nonsense and sad words in the wine talk.

Infatuated people drink and say sweet words, depressed people drink and say angry words, sharp people drink and say strange words, handsome people drink and swear words, confused people drink and tell the truth, and sober people drink and say things that make you think.

9. Don't talk

A thousand words, learn not to talk.

Nobody thinks you are dumb if you don't talk.

Opening your mouth is wrong. Don't let others use you as a gun. Please think about this sentence before you speak.

10, myth

Not everyone is qualified to tell myths. The higher the status, the better the myth.

Autumn leaves found that once the capital operates, myth is the executive, or the necessary medicine for VC. Some myths are not practical until they are told. If investors don't listen to some myths and are not practical, this stock will fall!

The myth is no longer true, and it will be shattered one day. Yesterday was Nasdaq, today is China stock market, and the day after tomorrow is GEM. You thought you met a myth, but it was robbed by it! ;