After every quarrel, my boyfriend doesn't return to WeChat or answer the phone. What should I do?

When in love, boys say good morning and good evening every day, which they often do, but their attitudes will change greatly after breaking up. If you don't answer the phone and don't return to WeChat, it will make girls very painful and I don't know whether to give up. Now let's take a look at what if my boyfriend doesn't return to WeChat or answer the phone after breaking up.

1, divert attention.

Don't spend all your time and energy on texting, calling, contacting him and all kinds of nonsense. You can participate in club activities, such as sports, fitness, photography, handicrafts and so on. You can go to the library to study; You can also learn various skills, such as makeup and dressing up. Even if you find a part-time job, you will find that investing time and energy in yourself is the most worthwhile thing to do when you are young.

2. Don't pester each other and continue to send WeChat.

In the face of cold violence from boyfriends, many girls will call each other crazily and send him WeChat constantly. In fact, this will make the other party more angry. At this moment, you should calm down and think about why he didn't reply to you. Is it because he is busy and has no time, or because he is angry and deliberately doesn't come back? After all, the more grumpy you are, the colder the other person is, or you say more outrageous things because of impatience, so the problem remains unsolved. Calm down, think seriously, and admit what you did wrong in time. Or both sides calm down and find each other to solve the problem.

3. Stick to yourself.

If you lose your principles because of the cold violence of the other side, then this loss is not worth it. This will make the other person feel that you attach great importance to him and he will not cherish you. So send him WeChat no more than three times. If you don't reply more than three times, don't continue. You should give each other a period of silence. Maintain self-esteem.

4. Reduce dependence on others.

If you have a lot of needs for him, and obviously, crying all day asking him to pay more attention to you means that he doesn't have to care too much about you and you can't let him go, then why is he still there? Did you spend too much energy on you? Let's have a good communication and talk. For you, you want to improve your "treatment" through conversation, but he knows very well that he just didn't improve your "treatment". If you don't know how to leave, if you are still chasing him, he will naturally ignore you and will have a cold war with you.