Mind your own business, you're just an ex.

Fuck the chicken. Xiaomei at the next table exploded loudly.

It turned out that Xiaomei's boyfriend Gao Jiawen's ex-girlfriend sent him a message in the middle of the night, and the content was nothing to worry about.

"At this point I again remind of you. Are you asleep? "

"How have you been recently? How is your new girlfriend treating you? "

"I'm sorry, I shouldn't be so capricious. Can you come back? "

Like these, Arvin received them every time after breaking up, and occasionally called and sobbed softly. Although he has no nostalgia for his predecessor, I am sorry for this interruption, but I don't accept it. Please stop.

02

Whether it is a boy or a girl, the ex is a hurdle. Everyone wants to know what kind of person the other person's predecessor is after interacting with the object.

Is she prettier than me? Are breasts bigger than mine?

Is he tall and handsome? This is a big project, okay?

Why did they break up? Will he go to her again?

These subjective speculations alone are enough to cause a world war, not to mention the tireless harassment of my predecessor.

Gao Jiawen and his predecessor began to fall in love when they were students and broke up after graduation. Although their feelings are not vows of eternal love, they are also unforgettable first love in the lush years. At first, they were in a long-distance relationship. After graduating from college, the girl stayed there and found a job. Because of the long distance, the contact between them is only daily telephone calls and occasional meetings.

It may be because of loneliness, or it may be because of the loneliness of working alone outside the home. The girl found a boyfriend in that city before long, so she broke up with Gao Jiawen decisively. Probably even Li Bei didn't think that people who have been together for so long will end their feelings for several years for such reasons.

However, when Arvin wanted to start a new relationship, his predecessor began to bother him again.

When Gao Jiawen was pursuing Xiaomei, the circle of friends on WeChat began to show signs. When my predecessor saw this, he seemed to have some restless commotion, and began to ask about the recent situation in Arvin intentionally or unintentionally. It was all my fault in the first place. You will find something better after you leave me. How have you been recently? Is there a girl you like?

03

When I saw this news, Gao Jiawen's first feeling was, What do you want? I ignored it and thought that she would stop later, but it got worse.

When Gao Jiawen and Xiaomei were together, they happily announced the good news in a circle of friends. I just didn't expect the girl to leave some embarrassing words unwillingly. With sincerity in her present position, Arvinla blacked out her ex-girlfriend and told Xiaomei about it.

Xiaomei is angry, but her attitude is simple and rude. Don't unplug it. You sent your haunted ex straight to me. Tell her to ask me directly what color underwear you wore today and what dinner you had yesterday. I promise to let her know clearly. By the way, leaving her is definitely the wisest choice in your life.

I have asked many people around me that it is not a big problem to keep in touch with my ex once in a while if they can remain friends. It is also common for two people to retreat to the position of good friends when they break up peacefully because of their incompatible personalities.

But for those seniors who always put you in a tight spot and want to turn around when you want to start a new life, I just want to say: go as far as possible.

Your so-called love that you still miss, remember and never forget is just that you don't want to see the person you dumped lead a better life than you.

You can't see that he found someone more beautiful and better than you. You can't bear him to meet true love again after a short separation, so you only bother at this time to prove that you still have a place in his mind? Don't be silly. At this moment, you are like shit stuck in your nose, and then get rid of it quickly.

04

I still remember seeing a discussion topic in Weibo: What should I do if my ex keeps bothering me?

At that time, the news exploded, and many people were troubled by this problem. In addition to those incumbents, even the harassed me left a message with some inexplicable dislike for these predecessors. Zhou Zhou's words left a deep impression on me. No, it makes me want to incite everyone to attack.

It's been a year since I left my ex-girlfriend and now I have a new girlfriend. I like her very much and want to go on with her. However, my ex-girlfriend has been contacting me recently and telling me about the past. She is not really a stone-hearted person. After all, she has been through so much together, and she is always a little touched and sad.

When I am with my ex-girlfriend, I often break up with me. Every time I coax her into making peace, I refuse. But when I adjusted my mind, she appeared again, saying that she could not bear to part with me, because she was soft-hearted and with her, so I worked hard again and again and was really tired.

Sometimes I don't want to be known by my current girlfriend, because I'm afraid she will be unhappy, but I also know that if you want to be with her, you must be honest. I never want to leave her now, and I have never contacted my ex-girlfriend actively, but she always takes the trouble to send messages and make phone calls, which is really distressing and disgusting.

To this problem of juvenile, I just want to say: You make me sick. If I were you, I would kick you in minutes. No, it's just a harassing text message from my ex. If you really love your present job, you will be hacked decisively. If not, draw a line with your predecessor! With so much time to worry and be depressed, I can already cope with N+ 1 predecessors! Spicy chicken!

Many people say that people who really love each other will never contact their ex again. I'm sad that I can't be together because I've loved and been hurt, so how can I heal my wounds again?

And those who can find you again and again and threaten to break up really don't love you. For them, you are just a temporary substitute until they find their next home. It's a pity to abandon it.

In that case, why bother to be a spare tire that they despise?

For those who keep repeating themselves, just say loudly: mind your own business, you are just an ex.