Techniques of refusing blind date

Tips for refusing blind date 1. How to politely refuse a blind date?

(1) Push to elders: When you date someone, you don't like them. You can praise their Excellence. You must have been forced to come by your family. What a coincidence. Me too. I complain about my elders from the same position that he is my brother, and let them know that you have no intention of dating. Since you are not interested, you certainly don't want to develop with him. He naturally understands.

(2) Ask the other person's favorite type: When you don't like the other person, you can ask the other person's favorite type during the conversation. When the other party makes a general statement, you immediately answer: Too bad, I really can't be what you said. I am a hard person to change. Then make regrets and let him know that you are not the only thrill.

(3) The heart belongs to someone: When you feel that you don't like the other person, you can tell him how many people you met today and they are still considering it. You can tell him that you are more impressed with one of them, so you may have a greater chance to consider that person, so you don't want to waste his time now. I hope he can find someone who has feelings for himself. When you meet someone you don't like, you just need to cut the gordian knot. Don't waste others.

(4) Send a message to refuse: When you don't like the other person and are embarrassed to refuse on the spot, you can also ask the other person's phone number first, and then send him a message after you go back, saying that it is still inappropriate after consideration, so forget it. Sending a message refuses to lose the embarrassment of two people face to face, and also avoids letting the other party directly lose face.

(5) Don't answer directly: If you are embarrassed to refuse, one way is to wait until the contact information of two people is separated before answering. If the other party sends you a message or calls, you don't have to answer it. Silence is the best refusal. After several attempts, the other person will naturally understand that you are not interested in him.

Second, refuse the method of blind date.

euphemism

Suitable for both men and women, mainly to make both sides feel better and not embarrassed.

1, asking for the phone number: After the blind date, if neither party asks for the phone number of the other party, then of course they are not interested. This can be ignored. The key is what to do if one party asks for the phone number of the other party. Please look at the following example.

M: I had a good chat today. Can you tell me your telephone number?

Woman: My mobile phone is dead. (There is no signal, I forgot to bring it, and I can't remember the number of the new card I just applied for.) ... I know where you live, and I will come and tell you when I have time (next time).

M: OK, I'll give you my phone number.

Most men will understand that some men will leave their phone numbers, so just write them down generously.

Discharge method

If you find that the other person is not the one you want, give him a hint by setting off, so that he will know the difficulty halfway and won't ask for contact information at the end. See the example.

W: (If the other person is short) Do you like the movies of a certain star?

M: Yes, and you?

W: I don't like it. If a man is too short, he will feel unsafe ... I don't like it.

Although you are talking about others, you are actually giving them a hint. There are many ways to hint. You can also draw inferences here, and don't be too deliberate when you say it.

Unfair method

This method mainly reflects that you are forced to have no choice but to date each other, and at the same time shows that you already have a sweetheart for various reasons. See the example for details.

W: I'm really sorry. I have a boyfriend, but my parents don't want to. There is really nothing I can do this time. I don't want to make my parents sad. You're fine. You'll find someone better than me.

M: Oh, (men are usually generous at this time) Well, I wish you all happiness at an early date.

Generally speaking, men have certain manners and are easy to accept. If you encounter an individual stalker, please see the following tips.

Exposure method

This is suitable for those who refuse to be effective after euphemism, so they have to expose themselves, surprise each other and naturally lose interest in you. See the example.

Woman: (calling a friend face to face) What's my luck recently? I lost 30 thousand yesterday, and I'm not interested in getting married. Tomorrow I invite Xiao Wang and I to drink together. Remember to invite that handsome guy to play with me last time. ...

Man: (with a surprised face) ... Is this your hobby?

Generally, men's blind dates are for married life. Those who have so many bad habits are usually avoided. Of course, you can also draw inferences and think of other ways to expose your shortcomings.

Search method

This is also to let the other party retreat from difficulties, that is, to say their own conditions, of course, euphemistically and appropriately, so that the other party feels that the requirements are difficult to achieve, or even outrageous, then he will only feel unsuitable, see examples.

W: Do you have a car at home? (Luxury car), how many houses do you have now? What is your monthly salary? ...

M: I haven't got this yet.

Woman: (with a regretful expression) Well, we'll talk about it another day.

If you meet a rich man and don't want to get along with him, then use the above exposure method. The rich man prefers to find a good partner. You have performed so many of your own shortcomings, which has made his heart cold.