A teenager in Yangzhou lost contact for many days to prevent his parents from divorcing. How will parents' divorce affect their children?

How much influence does parents' divorce have on their children? This degree is difficult to measure by numbers.

Parents' divorce and family separation have a negative impact on every family member. Even if the child is still young and not sensible, when he grows up, he will find that the family is different, and there will be psychological shadows.

I have come into contact with some children from divorced families. They either feel inferior or are particularly strong. I must be careful when I talk to them. I remember one year in class on the first day of junior high school, there was a boy who was very special, taciturn and withdrawn. He often finds his eyes red and swollen, as if he had cried at night. So I asked my classmates to call the office to have a private chat with him on the grounds that his homework was neat. As I guessed, his parents divorced, went out to work separately, and sent him to his grandparents' home. He felt sad under the strange eyes and gossip of others. When I said this, my eyes were blurred at first, and then I couldn't stop crying. It means that his parents' divorce has hit him hard. I also met a girl in grade three. When she was just sensible, her parents were mostly quarreling and sometimes fighting. When her parents divorced at the age of six, she grew up with her mother instantly. She seldom smiles, but her face is written with tenacity and strength, and the pain of premature maturity. She said that in the dead of night, she would cry when she remembered what had happened to her.

There are many reasons for family changes. If children witness their parents arguing too much because of personality differences, and the smell of gunpowder at home is too strong and uncomfortable, they may gradually accept it. If a family breaks up because of one party's infidelity, it will also cause a child's hatred and sometimes seriously affect his value orientation. I have a female colleague whose parents are divorced. She is 30 years old and has been afraid to fall in love. She is afraid to follow her parents' old path. After divorce, many people's economic conditions and quality of life declined. They have to spend more time and energy to earn money, and their children have less company!

Marriage comes to an end, and divorce is understandable! Without sufficient financial ability, divorced parents should also water their children with abundant love! After divorce, the biggest impact on children is the lack of love!