Long-distance love, my boyfriend insists on chatting with me for at least one to three or four hours every night. Although we have been on and off countless times, he has always been there.

Personally, first of all, most people don't have the essence of long-distance love, so your problem is that long-distance love often bothers you, that is, it often breaks up, and this situation is the easiest for two people in love to cause psychological burden, which will make people subconsciously make it possible to get back together even if they break up, or subconsciously prepare for a real breakup, so it is easy to get tired. Obviously, your 1 day breakup caused such a result. No matter what you think, the other person is tired first, but maybe it's because the previous feelings are so deep that they can't be forgotten for a while, so they can't be controlled. Actually, you don't know what to do. On the one hand, you feel tired, on the other hand, you feel that your thoughts are finally in an ambiguous state. Just like when you buy something on Taobao, you know that he is the only seller who sells it, and you really want to buy it, but after you place an order, the seller drags it and finds various excuses for not delivering it on time. As soon as you criticize the seller, you will be given something to ease your mood and let you wait for him to deliver the goods, but once you are in a mood, he will find an excuse not to deliver the goods on time. When you are angry again, he will continue to give you some sweetness to keep you waiting. After a while, even if you want something, you won't buy it again, instead of giving it up because you have found a new seller. It's like your relationship with your boyfriend is the same. It is not that you have a third party, but that he may be really tired. Remember that love can only be a temporary impulse. I used to be inseparable when I was in love, but I can't compare with a realistic and peaceful life. I seem to live a happy life with the princess. Maybe it is the end on the phone, but in reality it is the beginning. If you want to be together, either find a way to end the situation in different places or understand each other. There must be fatigue, but you can't break up and threaten to break up in order to solve other things. This is mutual. Let's just say your relationship is immature. Personally, you didn't meet the right person at the right time. I still want to know what I have to bear, what I can bear and what I can't bear in my present situation. Only when I think clearly can I sit down and tell each other what I can bear and what I can't bear, and then I can communicate well and find the correct answer. Another possibility is that your boyfriend has someone else, but it may still be at the tipping point. Maybe you are too far apart. After all, some things can't hydrolyze your thirst, but they are still not comprehensive enough, which will give a third party an opportunity. But in my judgment, there are only two possibilities. One is that you can't let go of yourself and feel bad, but regret doesn't mean you are not tired, so it's different from before. The second is that you have a third party, but you still feel inferior to you, and then you return to an ambiguous position. However, as far as you are concerned, the first situation should prevail. You should still hold your horses and watch the changes quietly. If it is the first one, you should have a good talk with him. In the future, you both have to forgive me and don't be too melodramatic. You should both leave each other, or it will be too late. If it is the second, everything in the past can only be said to help you verify his sincerity. Remember that emotional infidelity is even more terrible. Don't think it's just a little sadness in your heart. It's better to find out earlier than to get married and leave. Smart women often remember that men are attracted by magnetic fields, not playful or tied by ropes. Don't think too much about everything. It's not a loss to be yourself. Don't think that if you pay too much for love, you will always suffer, because he doesn't want you to meet someone who knows the goods. And if you care too much, even if he is perfect in all aspects, someone will always see through one day, which is not good for yourself or anyone.