After the divorce, the ex-wife sent a message back to her ex-husband.

After the divorce, the ex-wife sent a message back to her ex-husband.

After the divorce, the ex-wife sent a message to her ex-husband. People have very rich changes in feelings and emotions. Emotions and sorrows are only the most basic, and there are many complicated feelings and emotions, no matter in which aspect or relationship. So why did the ex-wife reply to her ex-husband after the divorce?

After the divorce, the ex-wife sent a message to her ex-husband. People nowadays will divorce even if they get married. As long as the marriage is not suitable or for various reasons, many people will choose divorce instead of settling. Nowadays, people are very open-minded, even if they are divorced, they feel that they can live well.

Of course, many divorced people will remarry, because they think it is better to walk around, and some remarry just for the children.

What I told you today is that after a couple divorced for half a year, the ex-wife sent a message late at night asking her ex-husband if he had slept. The ex-husband replied, "No, my daughter said she missed her mother." Then they remarried. Let's take a look at their experiences.

I am 37 years old. My wife and I were married for half a year, and then remarried. After two people calmed down for half a year, we realized that they still had each other in their hearts.

My wife and I can fall in love freely. We were working in a company at that time. I didn't know anything when we first went in. She taught me everything.

Later, after spending some time with her, I developed feelings for her. Later, I got up the courage to confess to her. I thought she wouldn't agree, but I didn't expect her to like me, so we got together.

After two years together, we entered the marriage hall. After marriage, our pressure is getting bigger and bigger. I work hard every day for my life because I want to give my wife a better life.

At that time, my salary was 8 thousand a month and my wife was 6 thousand a month. After our daughter was born, the expenses became heavier and heavier, and I was under increasing pressure because I had to pay off my mortgage and car loan. There was no money after that.

In order to give her daughter a good life, my wife hasn't bought clothes for a long time and is getting sloppy. Maybe it was because she had children that she became a yellow-faced woman.

And I found that my novelty for her gradually disappeared, and then I was particularly disgusted with her. She is the same to me, and doesn't care much about me. Sometimes I don't want to go back after work because I don't want to see my wife.

Usually, my wife and I will fight to the death because of a little chicken skin and garlic hair. Gradually, our feelings faded, and conflicts occurred every day.

In fact, we can do this because my mother moved here. At that time, my mother wanted to help with the children, so she took the initiative to move here. My mother is a person who can't control her mouth. She never considers other people's feelings when she speaks, and always hurts others. My wife just can't stand my mother's mouth and often quarrels with me.

Then two people often have conflicts. I don't know who to help when there is a contradiction. I helped my mother. My wife said that I didn't know how distressed I was and helped my wife. My mother said that I married my wife and forgot my mother, and I felt embarrassed every time. Later, I didn't help them either. Every time they quarrel, I stay away.

However, there are more and more contradictions between us. My wife filed for divorce, and I also took my daughter away.

After the divorce, we blamed each other every day, saying that the other side was not good, and vowed not to contact each other in the future.

However, after a while, I suddenly miss my wife and children. Calm down for so long, I also realized how difficult it was for my wife before, and I also remembered the dribs and drabs between two people, and suddenly felt that I was not a person.

I used to have a wife to accompany me, and I could have a hot meal every day when I went home. After the divorce, I returned home deserted, without the joy of my children and the food cooked by my wife.

I especially regret divorcing her. Then one night six months after our divorce, I really missed her. Then I sent a message to ask her and wanted to talk to her. I said, "Are you asleep?" When I sent this message, I thought she wouldn't reply to me. Unexpectedly, a minute later, she responded to me: "I can't sleep because my daughter is clamoring for her father."

I couldn't help crying when I heard her say this, and then I immediately ran to pick up their mother and daughter, because I found that I couldn't live without them at all. My life was a mess in those days when I was separated from them. They are the most important people in my life.

The moment I saw my wife, our family of three hugged and cried for a long time. My wife said that she missed me very much and regretted divorcing me. I also regret it. After this incident, we cherish each other more and more, and I swear that I will never be separated from her again and treat her well.

After I took my wife back, we went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to remarry the next day, and we lived happily together. I also vowed to work hard to make money and give them a better life. I will never let her down again. Then I invited my mother back, because I thought it was all my mother's fault here. After all, life belongs to both of us. If the old people are involved, it will really affect the relationship between husband and wife, although my mother is very reluctant. But she also knows that she is wrong and is willing to go back to her hometown. After my mother went back, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was much better. Now our family is particularly harmonious, and my wife and I are getting better and better.

Concluding remarks

It is normal for couples to quarrel, so two people must understand each other and tolerate each other, and don't divorce because of a little thing.

Also, if there is a contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, men must know how to deal with it. Don't just help their parents and don't choose to escape, otherwise it will only make things worse. Men are mediators between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. As long as two people make up, are they still afraid of unhappy marriage?

I also hope that all couples can be happy here for a long time.

Nowadays, with the development of society, people's requirements for the quality of life are gradually improving, so the divorce rate is also very high. As we all know, some couples will eventually divorce for many reasons, such as the disagreement between the two sides after marriage.

Feelings are no longer as vigorous as when they are in love, or the demands of both parents and work reasons may lead to irreparable cracks in feelings and eventually lead to the end of marriage. Next, let's take a look at this divorce case of Ms. Wang.

Ms. Wang and her husband are college classmates, so everything from school uniforms to wedding dresses is typical and their feelings are very sweet. After three years of marriage, the two worked together to successfully buy a car and house, and everything went well, just waiting for the arrival of new family members.

With the birth of the child, the whole family seems to have added a little vitality, and every day is full of laughter and hope. The couple happily watched the child grow up in their arms. However, the good times did not last long. As the children grow up, the expenses at home are increasing, and the couple are deeply stressed.

In order to alleviate this situation, the husband began to become a workaholic and strive for higher progress in his career. Finally, many good things happen. After working overtime for more than a year to improve himself, he finally rose from his original position to the department manager of the company, and his bonus was much higher than before.

This kind of news is undoubtedly very exciting for the husband himself and his family. After all, a good job means that the economy will continue to grow upwards. They no longer have to worry about their children's expenses, and even the material conditions of their families can be improved.

However, before long, the contradiction between husband and wife gradually appeared. After the promotion, the husband became busier than before. Not only can he not take care of the children, but he even goes home very late after dinner, which leads to a significant decrease in communication between husband and wife, and almost all the children are taken care of by Ms. Wang alone.

Because at that time, Ms. Wang's working hours were relatively fixed, except for weekends, every day was nine to six. Therefore, on weekdays, she always gets up early to take care of the children and then sends him to work after work. It's raining and windy, and the trip is quite busy.

Compared with her husband, not only Ms. Wang, for the sake of children, the number of times to pick up and drop off children can be counted with one hand, and almost most of her energy and time are devoted to her work. For example, once Ms. Wang called in sick to rest at home and asked her husband to pick up the children. However, after the other party picked them up for two days, they began to shirk their work, so that picking up the children became Ms. Wang's fixed job.

At that time, for the sake of children, I think the reason why my husband worked so hard was mainly for the sake of children. In order to make this family live a good life, I feel at ease and understand my husband's hard work, so I urgently need a person to take care of the children.

What people didn't expect, however, was that such contradictions were only the beginning of cracks in feelings. The work of middle-level leaders is not easy to do. They should not only take good care of their subordinates, but also face the demands of their superiors at any time. So in this case, Ms. Wang's husband's temper began to get more and more urgent. He seldom lost his temper before, but now he will make a big fuss about Ms. Wang for some trivial things, regardless of whether it will affect the children or not, and only insist on going her own way.

Although when this situation just changed, Ms. Wang tried her best to comfort her husband's emotions and hoped that he could relax himself occasionally, but the following things completely broke out the long-buried fuse.

The winter just after the child's third birthday was extremely cold. Ms. Wang took the child home under the heavy snow and found that the child blushed and cried. She didn't know until she took her temperature. It turns out that the child has a fever. So at that time, Ms. Wang quickly took the antipyretic sticker and posted it to her child. Then she gave medicine to put the child to sleep and went to cook.

After her husband came back, Ms. Wang talked about the news that the child had a fever and told him that he was still in the observation period and the fever had not returned. The other party only answered a simple "well" and didn't speak again. Not long after, a colleague from his company called. Maybe some work was not handled well, so they immediately turned on the computer and went on working. In this process, the child began to cry because she woke up uncomfortable, so Ms. Wang had to take the child back to her arms and coax her.

But no matter how coaxed, the child kept crying. At this time, her husband was full of impatience and said loudly, "Why can't you take him to the hospital when he has a fever?" Do you want to cry? When Ms. Wang heard this, she got angry on the spot and asked, "You know that the child is uncomfortable, can't you help me first?" So the two immediately broke out in a quarrel.

In this case, Ms. Wang, overwhelmed by anger, blurted out directly: "If you don't want a divorce, since you think it's easy to take care of children, try it yourself." Who would have thought that after she finished this sentence, her husband also said uncharacteristically: "Divorce is divorce, and I will take care of the children." Let Ms. Wang completely stunned. But having said that, the powerful Ms. Wang certainly didn't want to show weakness, so the next day, they got a divorce certificate.

After the divorce, Ms. Wang moved out of her home where she had lived for many years. Because they have children, their contact information has not been deleted, but it is easy not to contact. After living alone for four months without family, Ms. Wang is still not used to this state, so she often suffers from insomnia. So in the middle of the night, when she couldn't sleep, she accidentally saw her husband asking the child in a circle of friends what to do if the fever had gone down and then had a fever, so she quickly sent him a message: Did you sleep?

After a few seconds, the husband replied to the message and told her, "I haven't slept yet." The child just had a fever and cried for his mother. " Seeing this news, Ms. Wang burst into tears, and then her husband sent another message: "My baby and I miss you very much. Will you come back? " The last string in Ms. Wang's heart was also broken.

After much consideration, the two men sat down and talked about their bad places in the family in detail, and then made up their minds to remarry. When Ms. Wang returned to this home again, her husband was still a workaholic, but he began to spend some time with his wife and children. Ms. Wang also put herself in her husband's shoes and helped him to share the decompression.

After the divorce, the ex-wife sent a message to her ex-husband. Three years after the divorce, I sent "I miss you" to my ex-wife, and my ex-wife replied with four words that made me burst into tears.

Ms Tian is 46 years old. Two years ago, her 49-year-old husband filed for divorce with Ms. Tian. Her husband said that there are 4 suites in my name, and I will give you a house as compensation for divorce.

Ms. Tian has a job with a monthly salary of 4000 yuan. She usually does housework when she comes home from work. Ms. Tian is a hard-working woman who is serious about her family, but her husband filed for divorce.

When a woman lives to be forty or fifty years old, she should enjoy life. At this time, her husband suddenly wanted a divorce. Even if Ms. Tian is usually a confident and generous woman, it is also a psychological setback to encounter such a marital change in middle age. She usually doesn't like tears Ms. Tian, a strong woman, shed tears because her husband offered to divorce.

Ms. Tian thought that more than 20 years ago, when she was young, her husband said that her biggest dream in this life was to get married with Ms. Hotan, and they would grow old together. When I was young, my husband, Ms. Tian, loved him more. Ms. Tian thought that if she marries a man who loves her so much, he should never leave her in his life. As a result, whether you marry a man who loves you deeply or a man you love deeply, most men will want a divorce when they reach middle age.

The husband who loves him deeply suddenly filed for divorce, even revealing the divorce conditions to Ms. Tian, which proves that this man is very anxious about divorce. Ms. Tian looked at the man in front of her. For decades, she thought she knew her husband very well. However, when the husband moved his mind about the divorce, he had no idea at all. Obviously, he is a person who lives together every day, but the other party actually has the heart of divorce, and he has never noticed it.

The husband has thought about the conditions for divorce. Ms. Tian is so anxious to get a divorce. What can she do? Begging her husband not to divorce? This is not like Ms. Tian's style. Ms. Tian is usually a confident and generous woman. At the beginning, it was her husband who pursued herself first. Now Ms. Tian won't beg her husband not to leave her.

I still have to ask my husband what is the purpose of divorce in such a hurry? Actually, what does the purpose of his divorce have to do with himself? When a man wants a divorce, his wife doesn't need to know what the purpose of his divorce is, and there is no need to know why he wants a divorce. As long as he wants a divorce, his wife actually loses, because she can't keep this man, and this man wants to leave her.

Ms. Tian said that there are winners and losers in life. It was her husband who took the initiative to pursue himself before marrying him. At that time, she was the winner in this marriage because her husband loved him deeply. Now my husband is in such a hurry to divorce, which proves that his wife lost. Since she lost, she gave up generously, and Ms. Tian agreed to divorce. Only a few months after the divorce, the husband remarried with a 25-year-old young wife.

Ms. Tian is very glad that she didn't stay in this marriage at the beginning and didn't ask her husband why she wanted to divorce. It's a good thing she didn't ask. Because asking more questions will only show that you care about your husband, but her husband's performance after divorce shows that her husband has long cared about Ms. Tian.

After her ex-husband remarried, Ms. Tian no longer felt pain for this marriage, because her ex-husband was already someone else's husband, and it was ridiculous to feel pain for someone else's husband. Since her ex-husband married his remarried wife so soon, she must move on quickly. When her ex-husband has not remarried, Ms. Tian will always recall this marriage. After her ex-husband remarries, Ms. Tian will have all kinds of vigilance: this man is now someone else's husband, and someone else's husband has nothing to do with me. Why should I recall the past with someone else's husband?

After her husband remarried and became someone else's husband, Ms. Tian had already kicked him out, and Ms. Tian did not take the initiative to pay attention to her ex-husband. But a year after her ex-husband remarried, she took the initiative to call Ms. Abel Tamata. Ms. Tian thought that her ex-husband came to show off for herself. I didn't expect her ex-husband to call himself at three o'clock in the morning and say that he missed you.

The ex-husband said that after he remarried, his young wife encouraged him to sell three houses, saying that holding the money could help him earn tens of millions more. But after the ex-husband sold the house, the young wife disappeared with the house payment. The ex-husband is now poor and rich, and wants Ms. Hotan to remarry.

Ms. Tian laughed at her ex-husband in her heart. Is it that the older she gets, the less sense of crisis she has? How to sell a house when people reach middle age? House is the life of middle-aged and elderly people. Even if I sold one set, I sold three suites at the instigation of my young wife. I'm really not afraid that I'll be helpless after the house is gone.

But considering that the ex-husband is nearly 50 years old and will marry a young wife in his twenties, most of these men have no brains. A person has no brains, and finally lost three houses and became helpless. It's not Ms. Tian's fault Now that her ex-husband is asking for remarriage, isn't it just messing up her life and letting Ms. Tian recycle his waste?

Conclusion:

Waste products should have a place to go. Ms. Tian doesn't recycle waste here. Her ex-husband is an adult. What kind of life he can live is his own choice. He wants to marry a young wife and sell the house. Now I have no choice but to find a way, which has nothing to do with Ms. Tian, so her ex-husband asked for remarriage, and Ms. Tian replied, "Don't waste it."

The ex-husband remarried and was someone else's husband. Other people's husbands encounter setbacks in life, which has nothing to do with Ms. Tian. Ms. Tian is not responsible. The four words that Ms. Tian replied made her ex-husband burst into tears.