Should I call or send a message to a girl I like very much?

"I saw a girl and liked it very much. How do I get the phone number through other channels? Send a text message or call directly? " On this issue, let's see what these netizens say ~

Netizen "Dog, you have changed" said:

It is really important to keep a sense of proportion in the communication between the opposite sex. If it's too far, people won't feel it. If it's too tight, it's hard to breathe. Boys are really an IQ level on how to pursue girls, especially when they meet their favorite object again, and their IQ is basically below 0. First, congratulations. Meeting true love is already zero. If you have got the contact information of the other party, the first thing to do is not to contact the other party, but to make sure that the other party knows you exist. Don't text or call each other. The other party doesn't even know who you are. It's embarrassing. In addition to determining your situation in the other party, you should also determine whether the girl is single and whether there is an ambiguous object. If you just pursue blindly, it is easy to get yourself into trouble. In today's society, honest people are no longer popular, and those who can only play routines can get everything.

The netizen "sweet and sour" said this:

I think it's better to send a text message first. You don't know if this girl has a boyfriend or something. So, send a short message to test each other's attitude. If the other person's text message is cold and doesn't care much about your appearance, then it is estimated that you are hopeless! I think it's a bit presumptuous to call first. I feel a little puzzled. Moreover, two people who don't know each other will definitely feel embarrassed when they suddenly talk on the phone. I have no idea what to say. In addition, most girls don't care much about the phone calls from strangers, and they think you are doing some advertisements. I think the subject can send a short message to express your purpose first. The tone must be good, and you can't write too long, otherwise the other person will look more stupid than 0.0! It's better to be humorous, so that the sister paper will be more interested. See what it is.

A user named "Fang Fei" said this:

If you like a girl, you should confess as soon as possible, or you may be preempted by others in minutes. After all, there are more men than women now. Therefore, as a boy, we must be bold and cautious. Of course, since I can get the girl's phone number through other channels, it's prudent. Next, we should summon up the courage to work hard on the phone number. Call or message? I think according to your actual situation. First of all, if the girl knows you and you are from the same school or unit, you might as well call directly. Not difficult. Maybe the girls are just waiting for you to break this window paper. So when you set a goal, you go forward and there is no turning back. Anyway, if you want to win the heart of a beautiful woman, you have to work hard, because the happiest thing in life is to walk into the wedding hall with the girl you like.

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