If someone confesses to you, how should you reply?

Like is a pure and sincere feeling. If you are liked and confessed, but it doesn't mean anything to him, how should you reply with high emotional intelligence?

Can we minimize the loss?

First of all, thank you for liking it.

It is a good thing that others like it, which means that you have something to attract others, or that your beautiful appearance, lovable personality or interesting soul are the highlights of you.

Lead to each other, and they will like you and confess to you. Being noticed is a happy thing, whether you like each other or not, sincerely.

Thank each other for their love and concern.

Second, explain the reasons.

Don't be vague when you refuse others. First, you don't respect them enough. Second, you will leave them hope. If you really don't like them, refuse them decisively and neatly.

This is absolutely respect for the confessor. Therefore, when you refuse to confess, you should explain the reasons clearly and express them clearly, but pay attention to the sincere tone. Express sincerity

Sincerely, don't despise and disdain.

Third, affirm each other.

Rejecting others' confession can also appropriately affirm each other. Being rejected is embarrassing and sad, which may lead to self-awareness.

Doubt, so that you can properly affirm each other, praise each other's advantages, and express the reasons for disagreement from your own point of view as much as possible (for example, you are Yan

Control, feeling that the other person's face value can not meet their own standards. The statement at this time is not that the other party is not good-looking, but that my requirements are too high and I will be right when the time comes.

Other advantages of the party), euphemistic expression, reduce harm.

Fourth, deal with it according to the occasion.

Confession may be two people in private, just express it normally. If it is a big confession, there are more occasions with friends, but

In order to choose to promise first, and then quickly ask the two to talk in detail in private after the promise, make their feelings and difficulties clear, or ask directly without responding.

Discuss in private, so as to save face for the other party and clarify your demands, but pay attention to it, if you promise the other party's confession first, it will be over.

If you have a private chat in the future, you must do it as soon as possible, otherwise the longer it takes, the harder it will be to talk.

The key point of rejecting people with high emotional intelligence is actually to put yourself in the other person's shoes, while expressing clearly, to minimize the anxiety and embarrassment of the other person as much as possible.

Personal wishes, so as not to cause misunderstanding.