My husband sends nervous text messages all day.

Let me tell you a good idea. First of all, dress yourself up every day and pretend that you are having an affair. You are very happy. Second, if you don't do housework and pretend to be ill, you will shout "Ouch" when he is angry and go to the hospital in pain, and then walk away. I ate a delicious meal outside and fell asleep when I walked home. Third, no matter what he does, you insist on ignoring him. In this way, he did housework, and he realized that it was not easy to do housework at home.