Help, kind words, text messages

Express what you want to each other with sensational words, and make them feel as if they are there. Sorry, I can't refuse your help.

2. "Hold" before seeking.

When seeking help, you should first say something that the other person likes to hear, praise the other person realistically, make the other person feel comfortable with your words, and of course be willing to help you.

3. Commitment to mutual benefit

Express your willingness to give the other party something in return, or keep in mind what the other party wants in return, so that the other party feels that their efforts are worthwhile and not in vain.

Step 4 find the transition

If you ask for help from someone who is very close or familiar, you can be straightforward and casual, but sometimes asking for help from people with ordinary relationships, strangers or people with high social status usually requires an "introduction" process. This process can be long or short, depending on the situation.

Step 5 be sincere

Sincerity is to let the requested person feel what you want from the heart, so as to attach importance to your request.

Be polite, don't impose it on others, sometimes you need to be tactful. This is a prerequisite for success.

When asking for help, we must first determine the goal and lock the method, so as to make the request go smoothly and achieve the goal.