My boyfriend always says he wants me to help him wash clothes. What does that mean? Do you mean to treat me like a nanny?

In fact, he may not be lazy, he just enjoys the feeling that you wash his clothes.

That was my date.

My own understanding is that men fantasize about having a virtuous wife. Washing clothes and cooking are common in their fantasies or TV dramas, which will make them feel warm and satisfy their male chauvinism.

Now that there is a washing machine, it's no trouble to wash clothes. I'll wash them for him.

You can let him do the trouble of sweeping the floor and mopping the floor. If he is involved, there is nothing to say. This is not helping, but sharing.

The most important thing is to see his attitude. Must you wash it? ?

If not, you may feel your love for him in this way and enjoy the feeling of having a home (this is simple, if you wash his, he should also wash yours);

If so, emmm ... may just want to "manipulate you". I don't think the future will be easy.

You should talk to him calmly and tell him your thoughts and reasons. Women's bad temper can easily arouse men's resistance mechanism.