Husband and wife quarrel. Should I go back like this?

If you go back to your mother's house, you will inevitably say things and complain to your family. The problem of one family will rise to the problem of two families. Although a person can't bear it, why chat with friends, go out for a walk, and then communicate with her husband more? It doesn't hurt anyone to speak first, just because they are mature. You can't go back to your mother's house. You can go to your best friend and go out to play by yourself. Aren't you afraid of your parents' worries when you go home? Every time I quarrel with my husband, I don't want to go back to my mother's house. Going back can't solve the problem, it will only deepen the contradiction.

Your home is the home of you and your partner. The first thing that needs to be clarified after marriage is this concept. Your parents' home is your family, and your home and the other half's home are your own. It will be clearer to understand this concept and solve some things behind closed doors. Don't always go back to your mother's house and kick him out! Take care of whoever annoys you! Why do you always go back to your mother's house? Let her worry about you, let her think that your mother's family has nothing to do with your marriage!

You have to think about why I have to go back to my mother's house as soon as I quarrel, instead of throwing him out! Me too. We live with my in-laws. Every time we quarrel, I feel very uncomfortable. Like a stone, I just want to go back to my parents' house, not complaining, but relaxing. I think this is the only way to make me feel better, otherwise I will always have a knot in my heart and I don't want to see him after the quarrel. I hate him so much that I wish he would die, okay?

As the saying goes, "Don't wash your dirty linen in public". In others' eyes, family trifles are just jokes. If there is a problem, try to solve it yourself first. After the quarrel, both sides can calm down or talk to their best friends to achieve the purpose of emotional catharsis. Trust me, it will be fine in a couple of days. Always look for reasons from yourself. It is not a trip to your mother's house that can lead to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is an eternal problem! How to deal with it depends on my husband. It can be said that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not the problem of wife, but the problem of husband. Always put yourself in others' shoes. My wife married all the way, unaccompanied. When she is unhappy, she is surrounded by people who make her unhappy. Nowhere to tell, and I didn't run to my parents' house, so I choked.