Mobile phone is the mirror of marriage.

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Having nothing to do, I watched the movie "The Ring of Calling", a seemingly ridiculous online movie, but it gave me a new understanding of adult marriage. Three couples have dinner with a single friend. Someone suggested playing a game of making the mobile phone public. Whether it's phone calls, text messages, WeChat, advertisements, etc. As long as the mobile phone rings, it must be watched by everyone in public. When the dinner becomes "exposed", the mobile phone is not a mobile phone, but a time bomb that will ring at any time.

With the different sounds of mobile phones, mobile phones are like a magic mirror, exposing everyone's secrets naked in reality. On the surface, Bai Wen and Dai Li are a model couple who respect each other. Her husband Bai Wen is a university professor, his wife Dai Dai is a psychologist, and his daughter is in high school. In fact, I was divorced long ago and lived in the room where I represented my daughter and parents.

Li Nan and Wu Xiaojiang have been married for many years. They have a daughter and a son. His wife Li Nan is a housewife. Her husband Wu Xiaojiang runs a business alone to support his family. There is also a mother-in-law who raised Wu Xiaojiang and his brother alone after her early divorce. The triviality and hardship of life made Wu Xiaojiang and Li Nan try their best to decompress their mobile phones. Li Nan plays games and truth-telling adventures with strangers. Wu Xiaojiang watched the live broadcast, rewarded the female anchor and played with the female anchor. Two people guard against me every day, and I hide from you to play with my mobile phone. Even if I sleep in the same bed, I would rather brush my mobile phone than look at each other.

Jia Di and Jiao Jiao, a pair of men and women who are in love, Jia Di is a bit talented in my play, and Jiao Jiao is a veritable rich second generation. Because her boyfriend said she liked the little white rabbit, she abruptly changed herself from an unruly rich girl to a good girl who kept her mouth shut and said "Baby, I love you". When I heard on the phone that my talented little boyfriend was sleeping with his best friend, and her best friend was pregnant, she completely collapsed and turned her head and threw herself into her ex-boyfriend's arms.

Xiaoxiao is a single young woman with a stable job and considerable income. She is urged to get married by her parents every day, talked about by her colleagues and teased by her friends. After being drunk, he was raped by a malicious colleague, and he also took photos and sent WeChat threats again and again, which made Xiaoxiao deeply involved and wanted to end the matter with death. I have just been invited to the party. When playing games, I found that it was the same as Wu Xiaojiang's mobile phone. Originally I wanted to take the fall for Wu Xiaojiang. As a result, I was threatened and insulted by my friends. It doesn't matter if you try your best to pretend when you are warm, and all the questions you face will have answers.

Each of us once longed for a mobile phone, where we could say good night to the people we care about most, say I miss you to the people we care about, and say hello to friends and strangers. However, mobile phones are getting smarter, but people's hearts are getting farther and farther away. Saying good night and I think you are hypocritical. Talking to strangers is like being best friends.

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I went to a hot pot restaurant to eat hot pot two days ago. There is a couple sitting behind our desk. Because we just passed their table to get drinks, the pot in the middle rattled. One person watches TV series on his mobile phone, and the other plays games on his mobile phone. Nobody talks or eats. Until we finished eating and left, they kept the posture I had seen them before.

Although I always remind myself not to judge others at will, because you don't know what kind of life others have experienced. But seeing that scene, I really want to ask them: "Isn't this tired?" If eating is just playing mobile phones in different places, it is better to lie on the sofa or sleep in bed to play. After all, there are many people waiting in line for dinner these days. It's a waste to occupy the table without eating.

How many modern marriages are lost to mobile phones? When eating, walking and sleeping, on buses and subways, in parks and shopping malls, everyone is obsessed with mobile phones. I'm not afraid that I have no food or money to spend today, but I'm afraid that my mobile phone has no power and no signal.

Some people joked that the posture of modern people lying on their mobile phones is exactly the same as smoking opium. The Opium War destroyed a famous country. Where's the cell phone? It is not only a mirror of marriage, but also a mirror of our life.

People are social animals, most afraid of loneliness. When there is no mobile phone, married life is a short talk between parents, parents, children, relatives and friends. Even if one party doesn't do housework and the other party makes a hullabaloo about in the kitchen, the other party will respond to you that he is there. Now, under the same roof, playing mobile phone is superb, and no one responds to you even if you shout it out. In the end, you won't beat San Xiao and the poor, but the glory of the king, eating chicken, online drama, Tik Tok, live broadcast or other apps. The stimulation in the mobile phone specializes in all kinds of loneliness and boredom, especially the dead in adult marriage.

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There is such a joke: a family of three, my father is sitting on the sofa playing games, my mother is lying on the sofa grabbing red envelopes, and the little girl is bored and has no one to accompany her, so she cries that she will become a mobile phone in her next life and let her parents hold her in her hands every day. Does the only child want to become a mobile phone? How many times have you been on the phone when I wanted to talk about my children going to school? When you want to communicate our emotional problems, you are playing the game of Taobao brushing WeChat. When I finally became interested in your mobile phone, you told me that two people should respect and trust each other. So I also learned to play mobile phone silently.

When reading love vows to witnesses at the wedding, probably no one expected that the distance between you and me would be a mobile phone in the future. No matter how hard I try, I don't know the password of your mobile phone, and I can't be the CP in your game. Naturally, I can't get the praise of your circle of friends.

How many unknown secrets are hidden in a small mobile phone. A consumer text message, a WeChat picture, Alipay and Tmall records all have their own stories. Whether to keep it or share it depends.

I envy Jiang Yang Qian Zhongshu's love, which can be wandering from place to place or plain and simple. You can write to each other when you are far away, and you can read and write when you are near. Some people will say that it's because they didn't have smart phones at that time, yes, I admit it, but even if they did, or if they lived in this era, I believe they would put down their mobile phones, die happily, and join hands with their sons to grow old together.

The mobile phone is just a communication tool. Although it is also conveying and expressing demands, it is not our deep-seated needs. It is a kind of disease, called confusion or boredom, which needs to be experienced with the love and warmth of people around you.

The progress of science and technology has brought convenience to life, but it has also troubled us accordingly. In the previous marriage, we guarded against poverty and hardship, but now we guard against parents and children and mobile phones. Cell phones are like looking in a magic mirror. With a pat, you can know your married life well.

The furthest distance between people is not that you don't know I love you when I stand in front of you, but that I sleep next to you and you turn to look at your mobile phone.