Tips for women to chat with men

Women chasing men is nothing new in modern society. Men and women have equal rights to pursue love. Many girls who have the courage to pursue their own happiness will pursue it risklessly after meeting the "Prince Charming" in their hearts. Although it is said that women are chasing men, it is difficult to succeed without paying attention to some chatting skills. Next, I will introduce to you the chatting skills of women chasing men and the taboos of women chasing men for your reference.

How can girls easily succeed in chasing boys? Keep in mind the 10 chatting skills for women chasing men

1. Learn to smile

Smiling is the most beautiful expression and can relieve the embarrassment between you. In addition, a smile is also a girl's mental outlook, reflecting your sunshine and innocence. It is said that girls who love to smile will have good luck, so use the magical expression of smile.

2. Let him take the initiative

Transfer the topic to him, and then agree with most of his views. Boys like to be recognized by others. For a small number of issues, You have to disagree with him, otherwise you will become a thoughtless girl in his mind.

3. Be confident and not shy

Most boys like girls who are generous and confident, which will leave a good impression on her. If you are too reserved in front of him, it will give him the illusion that you are afraid of him. So try to talk to him confidently and make him enjoy talking to you.

4. Enhance the interactivity of the conversation

Don’t often ask men questions that can be answered in one or two words, otherwise you will have to find a new topic to continue the conversation. Conversation requires skills. If you ask the same question in another way, although the answer you get is the same, the effect at that time may be very different.

5. Learn to use the art of language

In life, a sentence with the same meaning feels different when spoken in different ways. Be humorous when chatting, don't say too many literate words, and create a relaxed and comfortable chatting atmosphere. In this way, you won't feel that the conversation is not interesting, but you will feel comfortable talking.

6. Learn to listen

Chatting is a two-way experience of listening and speaking, so it is also very important to learn to listen. It is a matter of politeness to look at him while you are listening to him. After he finishes speaking, think about his main meaning and give him suggestions to make him want to discuss it with you.

7. Acting cute in moderation

It is said that being cute is shameful, but this is not the case. Girls should give people the impression of being weak, making people want to take care of them. But being cute is not acting like a baby. Acting like a baby to someone who is not your boyfriend can easily offend people. You must grasp the critical point between being cute and acting like a baby.

8. Talk about the things he likes

Many girls just ask questions like "Have you eaten?" when chatting, and then there is no more topic to continue. Having the same hobbies and interests is a prerequisite for you to continue chatting without being embarrassed, so it is a good choice to learn more about what he likes, such as talking about basketball, recently released movies, etc.

9. Find the right topic

Your topic must arouse his interest and should not be boring. You cannot talk about topics that boys are interested in, but you can always talk about neutral topics. You can, for example, comment on current affairs, reading, etc., so that he will feel that you are very meaningful, and you can also talk about some very feminine topics, but the premise is that he is curious about girls' lives and expresses masculinity.

10. Don’t use language to hurt a man’s self-esteem

Men all have self-esteem. Never praise other men excessively in front of him, such as how other men’s family conditions are superior. , income savings, how other men know how to be romantic, and how to be gentle and considerate to women. The speaker has no intention of listening, and these topics will be deeply imprinted on the man's seemingly strong but sensitive and fragile self-esteem.

6 taboos that women should keep in mind when chasing men

1. Women cannot take away someone’s love when chasing a man

Taking away someone’s love is the most disgusting thing. Although everyone has the right to pursue their own happiness, it is a different matter if it is based on the suffering of others. This is a very important rule for women to pursue men. Therefore, before a girl implements her pursuit plan, she must understand the other person's situation clearly. The most important thing is to make sure that he loves her without any hesitation.

2. It is not suitable for a woman to chase a man and chase him fiercely

If you invite him to participate in activities many times, if he always refuses, it means that he does not have that kind of intention for you, so still Enough is enough. If you want to show your feelings, you can borrow some special props or dates and say "I like you so much" in a joking tone. If he means it, he will take it seriously. If he doesn't mean it, he will just think you are joking, and naturally he will not lose face.

3. Women should not throw themselves into the arms of a man.

Girls are inherently very emotional. Once she falls in love with someone, she will ignore it and be "righteous". Therefore, many girls will show a kind of ambiguity in their words and actions, touching the boy she is pursuing with a certain part of their body, or looking closely, as if this can force the boy to submit.

4. It is not appropriate for a woman to leave evidence when chasing a man.

Note that a girl cannot express her love by sending text messages or a loving love letter. Be careful with these "written" The evidence is likely to become bragging rights for the boy being pursued. Men are like this, they have a skill to win women's hearts. And many times, through the exaggeration of boys, the girl who takes the initiative to pursue can easily form a frivolous impression in his mind.

5. It is not suitable for a girl to pursue a boy in a siege

Some girls take it for granted that they will make a fuss about the boy’s father or relatives or have an impact on the boy’s circle of friends and colleagues. , forming the fact that the two are in love. In fact, the concerned inquiries from the boy's father and the friendly jokes from friends and colleagues will actually form a rebellious psychology in the boy's heart. He will have questions like: "Why is it that when the whole world knows about something, only the protagonist of the incident is still in the dark?" "Where?" The girl's sincerity gave the boy the impression that she was too deep and scheming, making the boy think that the girl had ulterior motives and other agendas.

6. It is not appropriate for a girl to pursue a man for a long time.

A girl’s pursuit should not last more than three months. In the meantime, if the boy does not introduce you to his boss, female friend or colleague alone, and does not take the initiative to call or send text messages to you, he will not be able to accept you as you imagined, or he will not be able to treat you as you treat him. Being nice to you, not openly acknowledging you, not saying he loves you means that he has rejected you in disguise and is just enjoying your care. At this time, you should learn to give up. If you really can't bear to give up and still love him deeply, then you have to find ways to change the way to make him take the initiative to fall in love with you.