My husband and I have been married for several months. I found an ambiguous message on his mobile phone yesterday. His explanation was that he was joking, not really, joking with his friends.

Hello, I work in a law firm, and many people greet me every day. I am actually very touched by your question, because the society and young people are impetuous now, and they don't know what they want, but they are all eager to get married, have a happy marriage and have a lasting and enviable love. Young people who enter the marriage hall are often passionate at first, with beautiful goals and lofty aspirations, but in fact, the divorce rate of the post-80 s generation is particularly high. The reason is that they are not ready to fully control the title of "home" from the time their children grow up. Many people think that life is too simple. However, what we need to care about is that after all, two people have their own personality characteristics and some minor problems. To achieve complete tacit understanding, it takes time to hone and run in with each other. Trust is the foundation of marriage, because after all, you entered marriage through mutual understanding, mutual recognition and mutual recognition. There are too many past, too many memories. Don't give up easily. When you encounter a problem, don't just think about it, but solve it in a down-to-earth way. How to solve it? I think both husband and wife should communicate with him in time and fully, find a suitable opportunity to talk with him and clarify their own interests, but you should not take the form of "questioning", but communicate with him as a good wife and close lover who understands and supports him and is willing to share joys and sorrows with him, so as to let him know that you care about him and your family, and that marriage and love need the care of both sides. You can also try to make him think about how he will feel if you send this kind of text message to others and make this kind of joke. Tell him what you want is the loyalty and affection that you will accompany him all your life, and tell him that you are not stingy but a sentimental person. When people get married, the most important thing is responsibility. I believe that warmth can overcome everything. I believe that you will get better and better after in-depth conversation and running-in, and have a baby as soon as possible. I hope everything goes well.