A colleague of the opposite sex who is very kind to you invites you to spend the holiday alone. Will you go? When the husband is away?

It's best not to go, because he may just want to make an appointment. You have a family, and he asked you to meet at night, which is not normal. Who cares about a woman with a family? Most of them are people who want to be responsible for the paper. If he is really that kind of man, even if he really loves a married man, he should give you a gift during the day to show his concern.