How should a person with quality be reflected?

In today's society, because most children are only children, parents are obedient to them, which inevitably ignores the education of "courtesy". "Rite", as a moral norm and behavior norm that people must abide by in daily life, has deviated from the original essence of serving the strict hierarchy in feudal times, but is a moral norm to maintain a good social atmosphere. The following details of 100 cover all aspects of life. Remember and do this, which will benefit you for life and make people look at you with new eyes! 1. When someone pours water, don't just watch. Hold it with your hand as a sign of courtesy.

You should at least be able to answer when others are talking to you. You can't say the last sentence, you don't have the next sentence, or you just sigh, yes.

When someone is staring at you, don't look directly at the other person and pretend not to notice.

4, in a bad mood, no matter how good skin care products and cosmetics can remedy the skin.

5, poor sleep, will make people incoherent, slow response, prominent dark circles.

6. When others release "poisonous gas", they can't avoid or fan in disgust and pretend as if nothing has happened.

7. When reprimanded by the leader, don't bow your head, look directly at the leader and accept criticism, and the fire of the leader will slowly go out, otherwise the leader will add fuel to the fire. (This article is a concrete analysis of the specific situation. )

8. A woman can't ask a man for money with her palms up all her life.

9. When you leave after dinner, you say, "I'm finished. Please enjoy your meal. "

10, it must be handed water and rice with both hands.

1 1, don't sit up in the chair.

12, eat with a bowl, don't pick a plate, and don't knock on the bowl with chopsticks.

13, remember to close the door last.

14. If you send someone away, you should say, "Go slowly."

15, it is impolite not to wash your hands and throw water on others.

16, pass the knife to others, remember to pass the end of the handle.

17, don't expose other people's shortcomings.

18, don't be distracted when listening to others. This is very impolite.

19, don't point the spout at others after pouring tea and water for others.

20. When you stand, you have a standing posture, and when you sit, you have a sitting posture.

2 1. When you meet a door that can be opened from the inside out, pull it instead of pushing it.

22. If you say it, you must do it. Don't promise if you can't do it.

23. Don't be greedy and cheap. No matter how much money you have, you will spend it all.

24. When someone is in the room, close the door quietly when you go out.

25. The world doesn't believe in tears.

26. It is better for a man to take time to keep himself.

27. People who are poor are not poor.

28. When serving others rice or tea, if there is a person in the middle, don't pass in front of others, but bypass them from behind.

29. It is true that you have the ability.

30. Learn to be gentle and listen.

3 1, go to someone else's house, don't sit in someone else's bed.

32, clink glasses with others on the wine table, your cup must be lower than the other party, especially when the other party is an elder or leader, stand up when toasting to show respect.

33. Open an umbrella on sunny days and bring dry food. It is always good to plan ahead.

34. If you ask others, they won't answer you. Don't keep asking.

35. Try not to make any noise while eating.

36. Kneel when you take things or wear shoes, and don't bend over and pout.

When someone criticizes you, even if he is wrong, don't refute it first, and then explain it when everyone calms down.

38. Enough is enough, whether it's eating your favorite food or losing your temper.

39. After dinner at a friend's house, take the initiative to help wash the dishes and clean the table. The host has worked hard to cook, so you can't let the host clean up.

40. You will meet all kinds of people in your life. You can't get along well with everyone, but one thing is universal: how you treat others, others will treat you.

4 1, big hospitality, small housekeeping.

42. Take back your fist and fight back more forcefully.

43. If people want to live in this world, they must first learn the word "forbearance".

Don't tell anyone your secret easily at any time.

45. Money is not saved, but spent.

46. There is no end to learning, not only to learn books, but also to learn how to treat people. This society is far more complicated than you think.

47. Don't discuss the right and wrong of your boss or other colleagues with your colleagues. Your careless words are likely to be evidence that others attacked you.

48. It is your duty to do things well, and it is your dereliction of duty to do things badly.

49, only the wrong buy, not the wrong sell. Don't just be greedy and cheap.

50. Sometimes loneliness is normal. Don't be afraid. You should adjust yourself to 5 1. You have real friends, but I don't know if you are lucky enough to meet them. Don't deny it whether you meet it or not. Don't calculate others, especially the person you like. Don't use means to get the person you like.

52. The bravest thing is to know the truth of life and love it. Don't be afraid of cheating, but you should know that there are cheating in the world.

53. When borrowing money, you must have a bottom in mind, that is, you must think that the money will not come back. Therefore, the money you lend should always be within the range of losses you can bear. Within the tolerable amount, even if I can't come back, I am prepared. You can't borrow the amount you can't afford to lose.

Between the best friends, unless he is too poor to eat, it is best not to have economic exchanges. Many valuable friendships have been destroyed by money.

55. A gentleman can refer to things, but he should not pay attention to things.

56. When you are away from home, you can bear it and take a step back.

57. Wipe the table in your own direction.

58. The first sentence on the phone must be: Hello; When you hang up, if the other person is an elder or your boss, wait until the other person hangs up. If you are an elder or your own boss, hang up first and don't keep the other party waiting.

59. Once you are unfaithful, you can't tolerate it a hundred times.

60. Don't spit and throw things everywhere. If there is no trash can, take it home and throw it in the trash can.

6 1, reading more books is good for the soul, and you will see a wider world.

62. It is you who adapt to the society, not the society adapts to you.

63. Don't let others know what you really think. Laugh in front of others and cry alone.

64. Don't put your walking hand in your pocket.

65. Simple things are complicated to do, and complicated things are simple to do.

66. Opportunities are only reserved for those who are prepared, and nothing will fall in the sky.

67. Brush your teeth carefully under any circumstances, especially at night.

68. Be sure to have breakfast in the morning and drink a glass of water without breakfast.

69. Talk less about other people's right and wrong and mind your own business.

70.you are priceless.

7 1, girls, go out with boys and pay for it yourself.

72. Be responsible for your actions, don't blame others, think about whether you should do it before you do it, and learn to solve problems yourself.

73. If you want to get ahead in front of others, you must suffer in front of others.

74. If it is a spring door, whether it is pulling or pushing, please go out first and then enter. If someone is behind you, you should take the initiative to hold the door to prevent it from bouncing back and photographing others. Be sure to say thank you when others open the door for themselves.

75. Politeness should be for everyone, whether it's the boss, the elders, the waiter in the restaurant or the old man picking up garbage on the roadside.

76. Don't cut in line. All you get is a few seconds of waiting. But what you lose is others' affirmation of your quality. If it is really urgent, explain the situation to the person in front of you. At this time, most people will take the initiative to let you stand first

77. Don't pursue the last laugh, but see who laughs last.

78. Fill up the wine and pour half the tea. In China, wine should be poured to show respect. In foreign countries, or for foreign guests, especially red wine, no matter who arrives, it must be less than half a glass or a third.

79. When you come back from a friend's house in the evening, be sure to tell your friend that you are at home. No matter what others do, it is polite. If a friend comes home at night, send a text message to ask him if he is home.

80. Come back from the outside. If you cook a hot meal at home, you can't eat it right away. You should get used to the temperature. It is best to drink warm water to warm your teeth. I heard that this can prevent toothache and premature tooth loss.

8 1, dinner, every time a dish is served, let the leaders and elders move chopsticks first, or take the initiative to turn over the dishes in front of them.

82. When others are sleeping, try to lower the volume of walking, doing things or talking.

The economy is good, but don't be stingy.

84. Reach out without smiling.

Don't haggle over unimportant trifles. Let bygones be bygones.

Please keep your distance from others when you speak, and don't cling to others.

When you speak, always use honorifics such as "you" and "I'm sorry", use words such as "I'm sorry" and "OK" and "What do you think".

88. Don't interrupt when others are talking. After listening to other people's opinions, even if you disagree, you should nod your head gently to show your respect.

89. In public, the ringtone and message prompt of mobile phone should be soft, preferably vibrating. When talking on the phone, don't raise your voice and dance happily, which will destroy the peace around you and make others pay attention to you. That's rude.

90. While talking to everyone, the phone rang. Say to colleagues: Sorry, you guys talk first, and I'll take a call.

9 1, when you go out to visit others, when the host sees you off, you must say: Please stay, don't see him off.

92. When the first person enters the elevator, press the button and wait for the person behind to come in. When you come out, if you are a junior or a junior, if the time is not too urgent, just wait until someone else goes out.

93. When someone gives you something expensive or expensive, you'd better not accept it. A hedge between keeps friendship green. Sometimes, material things can destroy precious friendships.

If you invite your classmates to dinner, you must make an appointment to invite them back.

95. When others ask you for help and you can't help, you should apologize and try to make up for it. For example, "Look it up on the Internet, there may be ……". Never refuse others with a "no" stiffly, which will make you look particularly cold and arrogant.

96. When a junior asks about your school and a new employee asks about your unit or department, even if you hate this place, you'd better evaluate it objectively, and describe it as "hell" without your own subjective prejudice. If you really don't want to, you can also say: it's not like that. You'll understand after a while. There is nothing in school, but in society, all kinds of relationships are very subtle, and any word you say will float to the ears of leaders.

97. Friends who smoke should give two cigarettes when handing them to others, and pick up the one far away from themselves when picking up other people's cigarettes; When others light a fire, put your hands together. When you light it, gently touching the other hand indicates that it has been lit. Don't light lighters for three people in a row. When you have to light a third person, light it after it goes out.

98. When you clip a dish, if someone else clips it first, the dish you want to clip is on the other side of someone else's hand. You should wait for someone else to clip it first, instead of passing through it from below or above.

99. When men and women walk together (on the right), let the girls walk on the right, because the right is safer.

100, when taking a taxi, if you stop yourself, you can't grab the back seat.