How to have a good relationship with the first-year class teacher?

I still remember the scene when I sent my child to class in the first grade. Many parents introduce their children to their teachers and ask them to take care of them. The teacher can only keep nodding. I don't think this is a good way of communication. There are sixty or seventy children in a class, and the time to send them to class is very short. Teachers are too busy to listen to parents introduce their children!

I took the children to class that day and left. I think the best way to establish a good relationship with the class teacher is to find the right opportunity to communicate with the teacher. Don't talk too much to the teacher when school starts. Give the teacher a chance to get to know the child first, and then find a chance to communicate with the teacher two weeks later. For example, after school, it is ok to have a simple conversation with the teacher, or to call the teacher and send a WeChat at an appropriate time.

In the new semester, the child changed the head teacher. These two days, I heard the child say that he made another mistake and made a penalty. I took this opportunity to chat with the teacher about the advantages and disadvantages of this child. I hope the teacher can pay more attention. The teacher has a good attitude and we communicate well.

This is simple to say, but a little difficult to do. First of all, you should know the teacher, often inquire about the children's learning situation and understand their every move. Teachers like such parents very much.

For example, my daughter's teacher is like this. I remember once my daughter had chicken pox. According to the doctor, she couldn't go to school for half a month, so she stayed at home for half a month. She arrived at school just in time for the mid-term exam. I'm worried that my daughter can't keep up with the course after playing for so long, and she doesn't do well in the exam. So I called the teacher and asked her daughter how much she got in the exam. The teacher said she hadn't seen it yet. I'll leave you a message at eight o'clock in the evening, but I he also asked me to tell my daughter that class is over and make up for the lessons left by two teachers. I am very happy that my daughter has such a good teacher!

Besides, don't give the teacher any trouble. You don't need to take anything or money or red envelopes. They won't take it. Although you are not your own children's relatives, you treat other people's children as your own! He (she) only hopes that the children will repay them with their studies. Every time I see a child doing well in the exam, I smile more brightly than a child. This is their love for their children! A feeling between teachers and students!

You should cooperate with the teacher to do a good job in children's study. The teacher is in charge of this class, but the teacher can't reach it when the children come home. Only parents help him supervise his children to finish their homework well. Think about it. When we take care of our children at home, we sometimes feel that menopause is ahead of schedule. Teachers manage dozens of students by themselves, and there should be so many naughty children in each class! Not studying will disturb the students in the neighborhood, but the teacher is still afraid that these students will fall behind and will take pains to explain until you understand.

I believe that if you meet all these standards, you should be close to the teacher, because your first family is for the "children" and "flowers" of the motherland. If the gardener and the logistics (parents) cooperate with irrigation, the flowers will become better! More beautiful! More talented!

Many people think that if you want to have a good relationship, you should give gifts or something. In fact, this is all wet.

Why do you say you don't have to give gifts if you have a good relationship? There are roughly the following reasons:

1. At present, the government has a strong supervision over public affairs, and the unhealthy trend of giving gifts is not allowed at all. Today, after our school reported it, we took it back to Soochow with the book, and there were also supervision calls from various government departments. The intention is obvious.

2. Choose teachers as a profession. Many people are engaged in this industry because they like it. My husband's family is a family of teachers, from grandparents to my husband's nephew, there are several teachers in each generation. I can feel that their love for this industry is from the heart, and gifts are completely eliminated. Even after retirement, students may accept gifts because of gratitude, but expensive gifts are definitely rejected.

Therefore, for most teachers, there is no need to make good relations by giving gifts.

So how to build a good relationship? I think there are the following points:

1. Cultivate children into sensible, intelligent and polite people, thus reducing the burden on teachers. Which teacher wouldn't like it?

2. If your child still has special skills, he can always win glory for the class and will naturally get along well with the teacher. Which teacher doesn't like winning prizes in various competitions in his class? Such children and parents, you don't have to work hard for the teacher, but you can also get the respect of the teacher.

3. Teachers can actively respond to the tasks assigned by teachers, and discounts are also one of the ways to reduce teachers' workload. Teachers naturally need such parents more.

So in the final analysis, it is still necessary to cultivate children well, which is the best way.

Once a child goes to school at home, whether it is kindergarten or primary school, junior high school or high school, the most urgent thing for parents is to contact the teacher and get on well with him so that he can take special care of the child when necessary.

When my family Dabao went to kindergarten, I was addicted to it. At that time, there were three teachers in the class (a class teacher and two life teachers), and each teacher was given a red envelope every semester. On Teacher's Day, I will also buy gifts for the class teacher separately, such as lipstick, scarf and other small things that girls like.

Although it is forbidden to give red envelopes to teachers, we do not advocate this bad social atmosphere. But as a mother, for the sake of her children, she would rather break through all kinds of rules and regulations and follow the trend without bottom line and moral integrity. I'm afraid everyone else does, so you didn't keep up with the big army because your own thoughtlessness made your children feel wronged at school. I believe that every mother would rather scrimp and save money, and will never feel bad.

A while ago, it was reported on the Internet that a junior high school girl in Shaanxi was abused by her teacher in class, and then the girl recorded the teacher's ugly words for more than 20 hours, which made everyone unbelievable. The teacher also led her classmates to carry out a language siege, which led to her depression and a serious tendency to be tired of learning and the world. Moreover, such reports are endless, which makes parents who are already anxious even more at a loss.

In fact, the purpose of establishing a good relationship with teachers can undoubtedly make children study happily at school. In addition to the gift-giving methods mentioned above, there are other more desirable methods that many parents can try:

First, cooperate with the teacher's work

Now the communication between parents and teachers is very convenient and direct. If the teacher has any news, he will inform the parents through the WeChat group. Parents can ask questions in the group if they have questions. Teachers assign tasks in the group, and parents must actively cooperate and reply in time. They should not cooperate with teachers on the pretext of being busy with work, which makes their children stand out from all the students and makes it difficult for teachers to carry out teaching work. At the same time, it also left a bad impression on the teacher.

Second, educate children.

It is said that the mother is the first teacher of the child, and parents can't put all the burden of educating their children in the hands of the teacher. Therefore, parents should set an example and use their time at home to educate their children to respect their teachers and love their friends, be polite, have a sense of responsibility and understand the concept of time. Such a child, I think even if parents don't give gifts, the child will do well in the school itself, will be liked by teachers and classmates, and can have a happy day at school.

Third, communicate with children more.

More and more parents choose to send their children to boarding schools because of their busy work, and then leave them alone, ignore everything and not communicate with their children. Even if the children come back on weekends, they can't see their parents, so they can only stay with their grandparents. In children's life, the absence of parents will undoubtedly increase the probability of children becoming problem of juvenile. Therefore, parents use every minute with their children to listen to his trivial things at school, help him analyze problems and find out coping strategies. This is also a disguised form to cooperate with teachers to educate children, reduce the burden on teachers, and enhance the impression of children in teachers' hearts.

In short, to have a good relationship with teachers, we should not only keep in touch with teachers frequently, but also communicate with teachers to understand the situation of children at school and find solutions. We should also find solutions from the problems found in children. Through the joint efforts of parents and children, let children become good children in teachers' minds.

It is not easy for people to live in peace and understand each other. There are still many good teachers in the world. My child was injured by other children when he was in kindergarten. The teacher was very worried and explained and apologized to me. I am not at ease, because I know that children will inevitably bump into each other. When I was in primary school, I always tried my best to cooperate with my teachers and educate my children hand in hand with them. Now every child is the darling of his parents, and it is not easy to beat and scold. As a teacher, it is hard to manage 50-60 students alone. Therefore, our parents must cooperate with teachers and let their children grow up. Teachers are also mothers and fathers, but they have one more identity: teachers, and they are doing their best to educate my children. I am very grateful to the teachers!

Because I used to be a first-year class teacher, it is not biased to answer this question.

As the parents of the first-grade children, because the children go from kindergarten to the first grade, the schedule of work and rest will change, the environment will also change, and the living habits and study habits will also change.

Therefore, it is reasonable for parents to be more worried about their children, want to have a good relationship with the class teacher, keep abreast of their children's situation, or want their children to get more attention from their teachers.

However, this matter should be considered from the teacher's level. Children in grade one will behave differently because of their parents' pampering. For example, some children can understand and follow the teacher's request once, but some children say it several times, and the child is absent-minded. It doesn't matter once or twice, but the teacher will inevitably lose patience if you answer like this.

Understand the teacher's requirements and do as required. There are individual situations or special things that need to be made clear to the teacher. It is not very hard for teachers to take care of such children, so they will naturally be patient with them.

As parents, it is very important to cultivate children's habits. If the child has bad habits. If you are unhappy or unhappy, you will always cry. No matter how good the relationship between parents and teachers is, teachers will eventually lose patience.

There are many things in the first grade, such as cultivating various habits, writing with a pen, writing homework according to the format and so on. Parents should check whether their children's books are complete, whether they are left behind or other learning tools required by the teacher according to the courses given by the teacher.

Read all kinds of notices sent by the teacher in time, communicate with the teacher in time if you have any questions, and set aside time for the teacher to deal with them.

When children go to school, prepare water cups and school supplies for them in advance. If the child has cold symptoms, it is recommended to leave the child at home to take care of it.

When picking up children, send them a few minutes earlier and pick them up earlier, which is safe and reduces the burden on teachers.

When picking up children, try to exchange some parenting experience with other parents. I suggest not to say anything about the right and wrong between teachers and schools.

When communicating with parents in the WeChat group, teachers should reply as soon as possible and try not to chat with parents, which will easily arouse others' resentment and add trouble to teachers.

Most parents know their children's habits and some problems. Try to talk to the teacher privately and communicate in advance so that the teacher can know his children better.

In fact, teachers, like parents, want to train their children better and better. Therefore, if you want to have a good relationship with the teacher, you must consider the problem from the teacher's point of view. Even if there are some misunderstandings, I hope to communicate as soon as possible for the sake of children and eliminate misunderstandings.

How to have a good relationship with the first-grade class teacher when school starts? This is something that many parents are considering now. After all, going to primary school is the first step for children to go to school. That's a good question As a primary school teacher who has been teaching for many years, I think the relationship with the class teacher can be used for reference:

First of all, don't give gifts to teachers, let alone money. People are easily bought off because of human nature. It is enough to send a text message on Teachers' Day. A truly responsible teacher has no time to give any student any care because of some gifts. Every child is a child, and in the eyes of the teacher, he is equally lovely and indispensable.

Secondly, I think it is inevitable that parents will generally feel tired during the whole learning stage of senior one. This is the most difficult stage for children to learn, and it is also an important stage inseparable from parents' guidance. What aspects should parents start with? I think they should work hard with their children to tide over the difficulties by reading, writing, reciting, dictation and doing their own homework. I hope parents can closely cooperate with teachers' teaching requirements and cultivate their children's learning ability and study habits.

Finally, I think as a parent, as long as you do the above, children's good study habits and attitudes will gradually develop, and the relationship with the class teacher will naturally be very harmonious, because teachers and parents have the same starting point, all for the children. I hope my answer can help you, and I hope your children can fly high in the first step of life!

All parents want to have a good relationship with their children's class teacher.

All teachers also want to have a good relationship with their children's parents.

How to establish a good relationship? Mainly to communicate more and understand each other.

1. Parents should listen carefully at the parent-teacher meeting. It's best to take notes with a notebook and do as the teacher asks.

At the beginning of the new semester, we must hold a parent-teacher meeting.

Parents must attach importance to this parent-teacher meeting and must go. And it is best for the parents of the children to go in person, and don't let grandparents replace them.

At the parents' meeting of freshmen, the head teacher should talk to parents about his own class management principles and rules. Parents had better take a notebook and write down these specific contents so as not to forget them. Do as the teacher says in the future.

What the teacher said at the parent-teacher meeting was carefully prepared by her. I hope parents will cooperate. If parents keep the teacher's words in mind and do what the teacher says, the teacher will be very grateful to you.

If parents feel that they don't agree with some aspects of what the teacher said, then don't show impatience or retort in public at the parent-teacher meeting, and it's best to communicate privately.

For example, teachers will tell students the schedule, that is, when to start classes and when to finish school. At this time node, parents should keep in mind and do as the teacher asks.

But every year, the first grade has already started classes, and there are always some parents who find themselves dragging their children to the campus in a hurry, only to find that they are late. Children are anxious, parents are anxious, and the class teacher is also anxious. Time is up, the children have not arrived, and the parents have not asked for leave. What happened? The class teacher needs to communicate with the parents by phone, but the parents still don't answer the phone. Really anxious. It turned out that the parents forgot the class time and were late. This parent is so confused.

After school, if the class teacher doesn't pick up what should come, he will have to wait hard. You said, such parents, the class teacher can like it?

2. Parents are dissatisfied with some practices of teachers. Don't complain in front of children, don't refute in public, and don't hold grudges without saying a word. It is best to communicate with the teacher in private.

It is normal to have different views on certain things. In fact, when couples educate their children at home, it is easy to have different views!

When parents are dissatisfied with some of the teacher's practices, the most taboo is to speak ill of the teacher in front of the children. Parents do this, especially affecting the position of teachers in the eyes of children. How can children learn if they don't respect their teachers and listen to them? In the end, it is your own children who suffer.

Parents and children have problems with their teachers, and it is not good to say nothing. In fact, sometimes there is a deviation in understanding. The best way is for parents and teachers to communicate in a friendly way, make a phone call or meet and talk. Let's make it clear that both sides have reached an understanding, so this matter is no longer a contradiction. Otherwise, there will always be a dead pimple there, which will particularly affect the relationship.

The parents that the head teacher dislikes most are the parents at the school gate, who talk about the school, talk about teachers and speak ill of the school and teachers. These words will reach the ears of the class teacher. And most of the content is the misunderstanding of the school to the teacher, and the class teacher is even more unconvinced.

3. Don't make too negative comments in the class group, and don't form a small group by yourself.

Now every class will have a parent's class group, and the teacher is the owner of the group and will release something in the class.

If you disagree or have different opinions, you'd better send a private letter to the teacher yourself. Don't make a public statement in the class group and go against the teacher.

Don't form a small group by yourself and exclude the class teacher. The owner of this small group is the least favorite of the class teacher.

Communicate with the teacher. If it is a small matter, you can try to use WeChat. Because teachers are not allowed to bring mobile phones into the classroom in class, they are not allowed to answer the phone in class. If it is not clear in WeChat, it is best to make an appointment in advance and tell the teacher at school.

4. Parents who actively participate in the management of class affairs are most welcomed by the class teacher.

The class teacher is very busy, especially the first-year class teacher.

Do you think it's a little hectic to have such a child at home? There are forty or fifty such children in the head teacher's class!

For the first grade, whether it is cleaning, decorating the classroom, or enrolling new students in the school, the class teacher is responsible for the children who are too young to help.

If enthusiastic parents come out to help the teacher at this time, how grateful the class teacher will be to you!

In an excellent group, these enthusiastic parents are absolutely indispensable. No matter how their children study, the head teacher always appreciates the parents who are enthusiastic about helping the class.

The Parents' Committee is an enthusiastic parent organization. If you want to get closer to the teacher and your work is not too busy, you'd better join the parent committee.

If the contradiction between parents and teachers is particularly big and irreconcilable, private communication can't be solved. It's best to report to the school first, and don't blindly surpass it.

What the school hates most, and what the teachers hate most, is that they always call the Education Bureau.

This is a big deal. Talk to the teacher. Teachers can totally do it.

If the teacher can't solve it, you can also report it to the school's moral education office!

You can also communicate directly with the principal.

If the headmaster can't give an answer, he is calling the Education Bureau.

This kind of upward reaction is the most correct way.

The head teacher is also a human being, not a god. Parents should understand more, of course, the class teacher should also understand more parents, and strengthening communication between the two sides is the best way.

If you want to have a good relationship with the first-grade class teacher, just do one thing-go and see the teacher more if you have nothing to do.

Although not every parent has time to send their children to and from school, as long as they are indirectly involved, they should try to enter the campus-this is usually a privilege only for first-grade parents, because children are still young, and things like cleaning the classroom need early assistance and guidance from parents. Find the class teacher and learn about the children's learning. Maybe you know your child's situation very well, but it won't affect you if you know it again through the teacher.

If you really don't have the opportunity to communicate face to face with the teacher, remember to be a "familiar face" among parents, and you can also communicate your child's learning situation with the teacher through QQ and WeChat.

In the long run, the teacher's impression of you must be "attaching great importance to children's learning."

You can't finish the task assigned by the leader in one day. Do you dare to see the leader? Although the teacher is not a leader, we should pay more attention to the tasks assigned by the teacher than the leader. Because, if you don't complete the task of leadership, the responsibility will be borne by yourself, and if you don't complete the task of teacher, the responsibility will be borne by your "baby".

Because I often meet teachers, I am sorry that I often can't finish the "task"; If you don't finish the "task" often, the teacher will think that you are very cooperative; The teacher thinks you are very cooperative and will give you a "thumbs up".

There are 3 or 40 students in a class, and the first-year students are left unattended. The workload of teachers will be surprisingly large, which will inevitably lead to the need for help. At this time, you can try to provide some help, it is best to call on everyone to join the class group, so as to avoid suspicion that you are deliberately trying to please the teacher. Of course, the teacher is not a fool and will appreciate your intentions.

There is a "exposure effect" in psychology, which says that people will prefer what they are familiar with and feel intimate with people they often see. The overwhelming advertisements make use of this psychological principle. Therefore, when you get familiar with the teacher, the relationship will naturally be good.

This is much more serious than eating, drinking and giving gifts. You don't have any psychological burden, and the class teacher won't feel embarrassed at all. It's that simple. Let's get started while the school is just starting.

Your bank card password tells the teacher that her husband is more handsome. This is the social atmosphere. Mom is broken, and you are the most annoying thing for parents.

Do your child's study well in advance. How much did the pupils recognize? Can you learn 600 English words? Can you come with your mouth open? Can you add or subtract within 20? The teacher is still buttering up to you after the meeting.

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