Several secrets to make husband and wife's life more moist

1. Enhancing emotional care with care is a harmonious and warm attitude between people, and both husband and wife need to care for each other more. Men want their wives to be gentle and considerate, while women want their husbands to have something to rely on. This * * * demand is the intersection of husband and wife's life. Take care of each other when going out, and greet each other with a smile after entering the door; Be happy for each other and cry for each other; When you are sick, accompany your bed and take good care of it; Hug and comfort when you are wronged, appease each other's emotions and so on. More care for each other between husband and wife is not only conducive to enhancing feelings, but also makes ordinary life more interesting. 2. It is a virtue and mind to promote harmony with tolerance and tolerance with tolerance. Harmony between husband and wife is inseparable from tolerance. Only a tolerant couple can get a happy marriage more easily. Everyone has shortcomings and shortcomings. Men smoke, eat and snore. Women are vain, sloppy, unsanitary, nagging, etc. These shortcomings and bad habits are deliberately concealed in love to please each other, and will be exposed after marriage. If couples want to live in harmony, they should not only make changes themselves, but also take the initiative to adapt. Without tolerance, they can't live in harmony. 3. Exchange honesty for trust. Honesty is a life attitude that wins respect and trust, and it is also the most attractive character in interpersonal relationship, which is more important in husband-wife relationship. Husband and wife are the closest relationship, and caring for each other requires a solid foundation of trust. Only by being honest with each other, not hiding from each other and telling the truth can we win each other's trust and respect and promote the harmony and happiness of husband and wife's life. But being honest and protecting privacy are two different things. Some privacy issues, such as love history, are given to whom for the first time. If it is easy to hurt each other's feelings, don't be too honest. 4. Resolve differences through communication. To some extent, the relationship between husband and wife is to live together. Conflicts will inevitably arise in life, and timely resolution will not have a big negative impact. Husband and wife are not afraid to quarrel, the key is to grasp the degree of quarrel. Some couples still love each other after quarreling, some are prone to the cold war, or are used to solving problems with their fists. Not only do they quarrel with each other, but they also intensify contradictions and destroy family happiness. Only when the husband and wife control their quarrels, insist on resolving their differences through communication, and make small quarrels can they become the regulator of their feelings. Several secrets to make the life of husband and wife more moist 2 1. Adhere to exercise, cultivate hobbies, and create a good atmosphere for husband and wife. People are visual animals, both men and women. If they don't get into the habit of exercising, they will definitely gain weight in middle age. Not to mention what their lover thinks of you, at least they will feel uncomfortable and obese. Because of this, if they don't exercise in middle age, they will have various diseases. Middle-aged men and women, whether in material life or leisure life, should not be overly attached to their lovers and cultivate their hobbies, so that they will not be lonely and empty when they come home from work, and they will not be silly when they wait for their lovers to come home. I'm afraid only happy couples can really understand how important sex life is to cultivate their feelings. Because of this, middle-aged men should never let themselves have sex, and middle-aged women should never let themselves be uninterested in sex. 2, keep a good attitude, don't take the success of others to run your lover's ordinary life is a story, your own life is a day. For those who are richer than us, we can envy them; We can sympathize with people who are poorer than us. The most taboo is: don't ridicule your lover with the success and beauty of others. Couples need a minimum of respect, especially in relatives, friends or public places. Even if you don't give your lover a high evaluation, at least you can't be cynical and picky about your lover. Give the other person enough trust and free space, and ignore the gossip he hears. In life, many people like to use "hearing" to deny the warmth of marriage, because more people would rather believe the gossip of strangers than the sincerity of their lovers. Because of this, many contradictions between husband and wife begin with being provoked. Make a mountain out of a molehill of your lover's phone records, text messages and chat records with your paranoia and comments on your lover. Being smart is more difficult than being confused. Therefore, husband and wife should give each other enough trust and free space, because the closer the communication between people, the easier it is to lose it. Don't try to prove the gossip they heard, but ignore it. 4.* * * Take on housework, treat each other's parents equally, and relax the education of children. * * * Taking on housework is not doing housework itself, but letting both husband and wife participate in family work and let the other party feel the sense of family existence. Although neither parent is the core of a newly formed family, their attitude towards their parents can affect the feelings between husband and wife. Therefore, we should try our best to be relatively equal when treating each other's parents, and never belittle one of them because of the "gap between the rich and the poor". Don't use all kinds of make-up lessons to squeeze children's play space, tell children the importance of knowledge, hand over book knowledge to teachers, set an example and give children more life lessons. Tip: Middle-aged couples will always find some shortcomings in their lives. In order to make your life better, it is equally important to learn to be tolerant.