The blind date wants to hold hands on the second date. How to refuse?

First, high emotional intelligence refuses blind date.

1. Tell the introducer directly.

Generally speaking, our blind date has references, which may be our colleagues or our relatives and friends. If we are embarrassed to talk directly, we can talk through an introducer. Of course, this will also make the introducer a little embarrassed, but there is no way afterwards, only appropriate compensation. You can buy some gifts to apologize to the introducer, or you can contact your feelings at any time. Such a family would be willing to do such a thing.

2. Make an appointment to meet and tell the blind date directly.

Of course, this directness should not be blunt, otherwise it may embarrass our introducer. We can say what we really think, say it from the other side's point of view, and politely refuse. However, this requires the art or talent of language. Of course, the most important thing is sincerity, so that the other party feels that you really think of each other and that you are not worthy of others. I think smarter girls, if they can hear the implication in your words, will gladly accept it.

3. Expressed on communication tools.

Wechat can be said to be the most commonly used chat tool. If we are really shy and introverted, inconvenient or unwilling to talk to girls face to face, and unwilling to bother to introduce people, then we can tell girls directly through WeChat. We can explain to our children by voice, or we can be really embarrassed, or we can edit a long text and send it to girls.

Between the lines, be sure to tell girls what you really think. Of course, we also need to polish them. We shouldn't be too straightforward. Don't let girls feel embarrassed or angry when they see this passage. If you really can't write any more, you can find more friends who are good at writing or falling in love and ask them to write a paragraph for us, so that you can refuse blind date properly.

Second, the way of high emotional intelligence blind date rejecting each other.

1. Direct rejection with high emotional intelligence

Refuse ("we are more suitable to be ordinary friends than lovers", etc. )+Not the reason of the man/woman+Praise the man/woman (appearance, personality direction)+Bless (wish the other person to find a suitable woman/boyfriend)+Thank you (thank you for your help and concern, please let me know if you need help in the future)

Rejection wording

Sorry, I have someone I like. Ta is a colleague/classmate. Sorry, it's rising at present, and I don't want to think about it yet. That's very kind of you, but I'm not in the right state to fall in love. Good luck finding the right partner.

1. Explain the reason clearly.

Don't deny each other rashly, it will give people a very impolite impression. I suggest you think about the places that are not suitable for both sides in advance, and express these inappropriate places clearly, so that the other side can have a basic grasp and be good for both sides.

Avoid procrastination

If you feel that the other person is not suitable, it is best to refuse directly. Don't wait until the end to make the other person think that you are interested in him. This kind of behavior not only delays oneself, but also delays the other party. After all, marriage is a major event in life, and it is very important to meet the most suitable person.