Men tell me important things first.

A man is the first person to tell me something important. First, this word is always particularly meaningful. If you put a person first in the other half of the world, then all kinds of small details can be seen. Let me share something important about men first.

Tell me something important first. 1 A man contacts you first in four situations, which shows that he is madly in love with you.

1, I'll send you a message first for insomnia at night.

Men can't sleep in the middle of the night, and the first person who comes to mind is you. He will look at your circle of friends, praise you and understand the dynamics of your day.

When all is silent, the whole world is asleep. Only he is awake, and his thoughts about you make him more awake.

Men will hesitate to send you a message for a long time and send it to you late at night, for fear of disturbing your rest and affecting your work the next day; If I don't send it to you, I really can't restrain my inner thoughts.

Missing is like a bug, crawling into his body and invading his mind. The more I want to sleep, the more I miss you.

At last, he said, "I miss you. Did you sleep well? " Then I fell asleep, as if I had accomplished a great thing.

2. Be the first to tell you when you are happy

Between lovers, the favorite thing to do is to share, especially happy things. If a man shares his best news with you when he is happiest, it shows that he is really crazy about you.

Because the man who really loves you, did he cook a delicious lunch? Or signed a big bill at work; Or he saw a flower you like while walking, or he accidentally saw a dress you like, and he first thought of sharing it with you, indicating that you are the first in his mind.

The weight is very heavy, and I can't wait to tell you all the happy things in my life and share his happiness and happiness with you.

I'll tell you first when I'm tired.

It is understandable that men share happiness with you when they are happy, but not all men are willing to be the first to tell women about their vulnerability when they are tired.

Many men prefer to be heroes in front of women, but you should know that the man who really loves you can be a hero or a child in front of you, and can also show his inner fragility and helplessness.

So when a man is tired, he will be the first to tell you how he feels now, which shows that he loves you madly. He wants to be a person who not only brings you happiness, but also wants to share his true feelings with you without reservation.

Because of my deep love, I am willing to be honest with you ideologically.

4. Be the first to contact you when you are drunk.

It is said that men will tell the truth after drinking. If he is drunk, he is willing to contact you first, which shows that he really loves you.

Only crazy true love will contact you after being drunk, even talk nonsense with you, even loudly say that he really loves you, or sing his favorite love songs for you to confess to you.

Men who are "crazy" in love will also feel insecure, be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, be dependent and be afraid of losing.

If he calls you after drinking, it means that he loves you so much that he forgets himself.

Men are also afraid of losing their loved ones. To love and be loved is the luckiest thing!

If you love him very much, let the man know that you won't leave him. A sense of security is also important for men.

In the early days of love, both men and women want to show their best to each other, which is understandable. It's normal to give yourself extra points.

Just like the song that Rene Liu once sang: Do you dare to ask? Can you be crazy about love?

Only those who are deeply in love can understand its sweetness and pain, entanglement and happiness.

That's why some people say, love stupid, love stupid. In October, it seems that a man who really "madly" loves a woman will always do something "crazy" for her.

Love is not only sharing the sweetness in life, but also the courage and responsibility to walk hand in hand.

A man who loves you will always put you first in life. When he is happy, the first person who thinks of contacting you is you. When he is sad, the first person he wants to say is you. I hope you can give her encouragement and comfort. When he loses sleep in the middle of the night, the first contact will be you; He will still think of you when he is drunk.

Why you? Because this is love. Love, how can there be so much truth? When a man loves you deeply, as long as he thinks of you, his heart is full of joy and satisfaction.

For a man who really loves you, he always wants to share all aspects of his life with you without reservation and frankly, and he even wants you to participate in his life.

And a man who doesn't love you, in front of you, all aspects of him will only hide or lie to you, and even many important things about him, you are the last to know. Because he doesn't love you, because you are not important, he will never tell you how he feels first.

Whether a man loves you or not can be seen from these four points. A smart woman should learn to catch the man who loves you "crazily".

Men tell me important things first. There are some things a man doesn't want to tell you because he doesn't treat you as one of his own!

"His decision on important issues"

A man who really values you will not make his own decisions regardless of your feelings when facing important things. He will tell you about it and discuss it with you. After all, two people will have different views on the same question. If he really respects you, he will ask your opinion.

But if he has been hiding something from you, even making his own decisions, even things related to you, he decides unilaterally without consulting you, saying that he doesn't take you seriously at all. You have to understand that a man who doesn't want to tell you his important decision doesn't treat you as one of his own at all.

"Things at home."

Men treat you as one of their own, and treat your family affairs as one of their own. He will tell you anything about his family, and he will share with you good things that deserve happiness, and he will tell you difficult things for you to share. This is the real family.

Don't get me wrong if a man never tells you about his family. It's not that he doesn't want you to worry. He chooses to do everything by himself. He just doesn't love you and treat you like one of his own. In his mind, you are always an outsider, and outsiders have no right to know his family affairs.

"The difficulties he encountered"

There is a saying among friends that "share weal and woe", but if he doesn't want to tell you anything, even if he encounters difficulties, he won't let you accompany him to solve them, then he is a stranger to you. True love is that you have the same belief in each other's hearts, and you work together towards this belief and never give up.

If a man chooses to avoid you when he is in trouble, instead of telling you and asking for help, it means that he really doesn't recognize you from the heart. He doesn't trust you either. In his mind, you are not one of his own, but an outsider.

"The reason why he went out"

If a man cares about you and treats you as one of his own, he won't hide anything from you. A man who really treats you as one of his own, he doesn't want you to worry, let alone guess his whereabouts. Before he goes out, he will explain to you in detail why he wants to go out, where he goes and how long he will come back. He won't leave any message. He hopes you can find him at any time.

But if a man doesn't want to tell you the reason why he went out, it already shows that there is no love between you. He doesn't treat you like one of his own. Your feelings for him are just wishful thinking.

"his economic income"

Two people who really love each other are honest with each other, and even things like money are transparent. If a man recognizes you, his economic income will definitely be honest with you and he will consciously keep the money for you.

However, a man who doesn't treat you as one of his own will never talk about economic problems with you because he won't spend money for you. His income and savings are secrets to you, because he doesn't love you enough and trust you enough.

The important thing for a man is to tell me first. 3. The performance that men love you deeply.

1, like a child in front of you

There is no man who can't warm people, just to see if it is you he wants to warm. Most men who are cruel to you and can pretend to be special in front of you don't love you enough, because men who really love you will be nervous and embarrassed in front of you, and will forget all the routines and become the most naive and primitive children.

Liu Shu said that when I first met Qin Feng, I thought he was a very cool man and didn't like to talk much, but he was particularly handsome when he paid for smoking.

But with the familiarity with Qin Feng, she found that she also has a particularly lovely side. Sometimes she will send a message to tell a joke, and sometimes she will send some cute expressions.

However, in any case, she never thought that C would be spoiled. Yes, that's right, it's coquetry. Qin Feng chased her for more than half a year, and they finally got together. Qin Feng suddenly changed from a straight man of steel to a little suckling dog.

A few days ago, Reunion 4 was released. Qin Feng bought a ticket and wanted to go with Liu Ye, who was not interested. The big man's Qin Feng actually took her arm and began to coquetry.

Willow was frightened by him, but it also succeeded in making him laugh. She really can't imagine that a man who is so serious and pays attention to image on weekdays should have such a side. What Liu is particularly proud of is that this side of a man will only be displayed in front of himself.

Every man has a child in his heart, which will only be shown in front of the person he loves most. They will achieve their small goals and always want to protect you as if you were a child.

A man who falls in love with you completely will be very cute and rogue. If you meet such a man, congratulations.

2. Always reply to your message every second, and always want to contact you.

People who love you are always on the road, no matter how busy they are, they have time. They will know your preferences in various ways, and there are always endless topics to talk with you.

Jia Jia said that she was deeply loved by her boyfriend, so when she stopped loving herself, she was particularly sad. Although Jia Jia always said that he thought too much, he knew that this was not the case.

Once upon a time, my boyfriend always returned messages every second, so he could receive many messages from him without looking at his mobile phone for a while, and reported his whereabouts in detail every day.

At that time, boyfriends were always interested in everything about themselves. He will ask himself whether he is happy at work this day, what kind of friends he met today, what he will do at the weekend, and whether he has time to go out with him.

If he agrees to go out on a date with him, he will arrange the appointment schedule long in advance and get everything ready downstairs in his house early.

Every time I dress up beautifully, I can always see him smiling. In winter, he will have steaming hairy chestnuts and hot milk tea, and in summer, he will have iced sour plum soup or his favorite mint tea.

These full sense of security belong to the taste of love.

But now, he sends dozens of messages and doesn't reply. Occasionally, he replies with "hmm", "good", "busy" and "very tired". Moreover, he has become so busy that he has no time to see himself for a week, let alone take the initiative to date himself.

Isn't this obvious enough? Love and not love can really be clear at a glance. The man who loves you won't be willing to make you sad, and the man who doesn't love you, you don't need to feel sorry for him.

I don't like to quarrel with you, even if I quarrel, I won't have a cold war with you.

Why do some men like the cold war? Because he is very troublesome. Why does he bother? Because he doesn't love you.

It's normal for couples to quarrel. After all, we all come from different families, and our living habits and styles will be different.

Moreover, those trivial things in love will be magnified countless times by sensitive people in love.

However, I think quarreling itself is not hurtful, but also a way to solve the problem. But if the person who quarrels with you is never willing to bow down for you and always likes to have a cold war with you, then this person may not love you enough.

I heard a very warm little story. One day, a couple quarreled. The girl walked forward angrily, and the boy followed slowly. Suddenly, the boy saw a pancake seller and asked the girl loudly, "Hey, how many eggs do you want?" The girl said without looking back, "Two!"

Love is not a matter for one person. If a person always compromises and never relents, then this relationship is definitely impossible. If one person is willing to bow his head and the other person knows that enough is enough, then this relationship will develop in a benign direction.

Therefore, if that man really loves you, he won't always quarrel with you, even if he quarrels, he won't always have a cold war with you, and he will tolerate you. Similarly, please sympathize with him.

He has a strong possessive desire for you and can't wait to announce his ownership of you to the world.

A man who just wants to have an affair with you has an obvious feature, that is, he doesn't like to enter your world, and he doesn't like to let you enter his world. He really loves you, on the contrary.

Xiaoya said that she had met a lot of bad love before, and those boys were always "disobedient, refused and irresponsible", which made her wonder if the true face of love was like this.

But later, she met Tyumen. From the day she was confirmed to be with her, Tyumen generously asked for blessings on social networks and told everyone: "My buddy will have a little ancestor in the future. Please forgive me if I value my friends. "

Xiaoya said "hate", but in fact, she was flattered. She said that she felt a sense of security that she had never felt before.

Besides, Tyumen not only likes to play with Xiaoya and his friends, but also always wants to make friends with Xiaoya. She asked why, and Tyumen said, because I want the whole world to know that you are the only one for me and I am all for you, which is the responsibility and obligation between lovers.

Xiaoya finally understands what good love is and what a man really loves you. He can't wait to announce his ownership of you to the whole world, because he is afraid that you will be taken away by others, and even more afraid that you will be sad.

And those "how inconvenient it is for customers and colleagues to send photos", "how inconvenient it is for friends to take you with them" and "how embarrassing it is for friends to go" are actually just excuses, that is, excuses that he doesn't love you enough.

5. Always plan you into his future.

What girls are most afraid of in their feelings is that they can't see hope and future, because they are afraid that they have devoted themselves wholeheartedly, but in the end that person intends to leave.

Feifei said that she has always been a very independent and profitable girl, and her boyfriend's job is also very good. However, he just doesn't want to mention marriage, and he doesn't even want to buy a house on the agenda.

He always said that we are so young that we should play more for a few years. After we get married, we will have a lot of responsibilities, so we will have no time to play. As for buying a house, make more money and buy it at one time. Don't be a house slave so early. It's too painful.

It sounds reasonable, but for Feifei, it is a sign of not loving enough.

When Feifei broke up, her boyfriend didn't stay. Feifei knows that he is only a dispensable person to him, so he disdains to promise himself the future, and he will not plan himself into the future.

Feifei later met her current husband. He is a very simple and honest man. From the beginning, he gave all his possessions to Feifei, including a house, a car, a deposit and a loan. He said he would work hard to make money, give Feifei a home and a best future.

Feifei cried and was moved. Now, their child is three years old, Feifei said. When you are planned into the future by a man, you are really practical and happy.

Love is unreasonable and has no standard. When I like you, you are my only standard and my lifelong belief.

For men, if they fall in love with a woman, they should give her the best. Therefore, when you fall in love with a man completely, you won't feel lost and afraid, because you are loved. That feeling is the most practical sense of security in the world.