Tell your children what you think.

On the road of life, parents are the leaders. These words should be said by every parent to their children.

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Son, since you have grown up and become independent, whatever you do in the future, you should be responsible for it yourself.

The sign of a person's maturity is that he begins to know how to take responsibility for his own life.

You should know what you like, what you want and what kind of life you want.

And work hard in these directions, in order to succeed and live a life you like.

There may be something you don't understand, so you can ask me.

But I can only give you advice, not make a decision for you.

You must make the final decision by yourself, because the final result is yours, not mine.

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Son, I wish I could take care of you all my life, but it's not realistic. So, when I'm not around, you should take care of yourself.

Eat carefully every day, and three meals a day can't be sloppy.

Be good to yourself and start by eating better.

No matter how stressful life is, you can't work overtime and stay up late for a long time. It is very unwise to exchange your life for money. Health is always the most important thing.

Son, you should know that if a person can't take care of himself, then he can't take care of others;

If a person cannot be responsible for himself, how can he believe that he can be responsible for others?

There are too many people in this world who need us. The people we love and those who love us can only be responsible for them if they are responsible for themselves.

03

Son, when you have a small family of your own, I won't move in with you whether you like it or not.

The education received by your generation is very different from ours. Different lifestyles have different views.

When two generations live together, it is inevitable that there will be various frictions and contradictions.

Although they are the closest relatives, they can get along better if they don't live under the same roof and have their own living space.

Besides, I don't want to leave my hometown After living here for decades, it's hard to give up whether it's an old friend drinking tea or a familiar tree.

When I miss you, I will go to see you and stay for ten days and a half months.

If you are homesick, you are always welcome to go home.

04

Son, I am willing to spend money for my grandson, and I am willing to help look after my grandson, but I don't want to look after my grandson all the time.

My age is growing, and my health is too poor. Please understand and understand this.

More importantly, raising children is your responsibility and your intention, just like when we raised you.

Your children need you just as you needed us when you were a child.

I can only help you at a critical time, not replace you.

There must be hard work and fatigue, but I believe you can be a good parent and raise excellent children.

05

Son, I won't ask you to support me for the rest of my life. Similarly, I won't support you for life.

In the early years, I saved some money for my old age.

At that time, I was thinking about supporting the elderly by myself, so I wouldn't burden you in the future.

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