I am a soldier in the army. I am very introverted and don’t talk much. I fell in love with a girl in my family and asked me to contact her. It was the first time because of some tightness...

As a boy, you should be more proactive. Being too passive will do you no good.

As a girl, she can only wait for you to speak and find a topic. Girls are inherently in a more passive position, so you have to be brave and remember that you are the People's Liberation Army and cannot back down. .

When the relationship between the two develops to a certain level, you can naturally chat through text messages. The main thing is to be thick-skinned, otherwise there will be no results.