The routine of pursuing divorced women (pursuing divorced women)

Pursuing a divorced woman, do you know how to harvest her sincerity?

Let me share with you the story of a colleague around me: two years ago, she divorced her first boyfriend and lived with her 3-year-old son. A year later, two suitors appeared at the same time. The first suitor is handsome, but his job is not particularly stable. The man said to her: I love you, and I am willing to spoil you all the time. Let's go out. Say that finish holding a bunch of roses in front of her. The second suitor is plain in appearance, but successful in career. The man said to her: I love you, I can accept your child, and I will treat him like my own father. Please marry me. Then put the real estate license in her hand. Later, she chose a second man. Because she said that the first man was too much like her ex-husband, and he didn't have much money when he fell in love with her ex-husband, but his ex-husband once held a bunch of roses and promised that she would spoil her and love her for life. She thinks that as long as there is love, both of them will be happy. But I didn't expect her ex-husband to play around after marriage. When she compared the prices of milk powder, she suddenly realized that love alone could not support life.

Why did she choose the second man? Because he gave divorced women two things they care about most.

The first child.

Motherly love is a woman's instinct. When a woman divorces, the most sorry thing in her heart is her child. With this guilt for her children, she will definitely ask herself two questions when she looks for a partner again. Can this person accept his own children? Can children accept this man? Divorced women can even give up their happiness for their children. Just like the recently hit online drama "Hidden Corner", Zhou Chunhong, a divorced woman, wants to wait until her son becomes an adult to consider her happiness for the sake of her son's study. In her emotional world, children come first, followed by herself.

The first substance

When she was young, because of the pursuit of romance and sweet talk, she saw a man with sweet talk and could not bear the blow of life. After the polishing of life, she realized that marriage is actually daily necessities, not seeking wealth, but seeking stability in life, and stability is the greatest sense of security in marriage. The way men try to earn money to support their families is the basis for women to live a stable life.

So if the woman you love has experienced an unhappy marriage, if you love her and want to give her happiness, you must do these two things well, take care of her children, work hard and give her a sense of dependence, so that you can pursue love success.

Narrator: Mr Qin, the key word is single.

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2. The male employee fell in love with the 37-year-old female leader and was scolded by the female leader. This man is at a loss.

I am 32 years old and single. I like my female leader! She is 37 years old and a strong woman. I think she has that feeling for me, too, because we basically sit together every time we socialize. She allowed me to stop drinking for him. Company party KTV singing, I invited her to sing a song with me, she didn't refuse. After that, I called a car to take her home, and she agreed happily. Last month, after we had dinner with our client, I put my arm around her waist in the car. I didn't expect her to criticize me. Now our relationship is a little stiff. Can you tell me what to do?

Zhou Xiaopeng answered the 32-year-old man, you are not a young and impulsive boy. In life, many boys think that girls like kangaroos and domineering men, so many boys chase girls, regardless of whether they are interested or not, they just hug each other's waist. They think they show the charm of men. In fact, girls will be disgusted with this, especially girls who don't like you, and they will think of boys. Especially this man, I understand that you like this female leader, but you can't cuddle just because you like her. If you really want to hug her, at least you need to know whether she is interested in you and willing to be intimate with you.

When you talk about sitting with her when socializing, she allows you to help her stop drinking, refuses to sing with you, and accepts your calling a car to take her home. In my opinion, these behaviors are normal interpersonal communication at work. You can't just judge that she likes you and can accept your cuddle. Your behavior will make her think that you are unreliable and misbehave, so she is very angry and severely criticizes you.

On this road of pursuing love, I sum up your mistakes as follows: you want to pursue but dare not say, but dare not say but do. It seems to be a bold show of love, but in fact it is reckless and impulsive.

So what is the right way to pursue love? I summed up the word 10: positive and rational, sincere and respectful. From your description, you are all middle-aged people in their thirties. She is five years older than you and is your superior. If you want to catch up with her, you need to respect her warmly. So I give you three suggestions:

Sincerely apologize and save your image in her heart.

Apologize is necessary, but it's best not to apologize in person first, because there is still embarrassment between you, and she may not want to face you now. You can apologize generously to others by sending WeChat or SMS. "I'm sorry, I was abrupt last time. I really shouldn't treat you like that and disrespect you. Now I solemnly apologize to you for my behavior. " You know, people who really love each other can gain the respect of others.

Show your personality charm outside of work.

If you want to develop a relationship outside of work, you have to let her discover your personality charm. For example, many people will look down on their bosses, but you can be more confident and speak with confidence. Secondly, we should give full play to the advantages of male humor. In public, female leaders are all serious and unsmiling. But as soon as you get on the bus or go back to the office, the best way for you to let her relax is to have some humor and be careful not to be too vulgar.

Be considerate and careful, and make yourself stand out.

The female boss is at the top, and she can't help it. Even if they have troubles in their hearts, they can't vent at will like ordinary people. Sometimes you have to look around with a smile, so try to be careful and considerate around her. For example, you don't have to join in the fun to send cakes for her birthday, because many people will think together and have no personality. If you send her a card wishing her success on her first anniversary instead, it is estimated that she will sneer at you.

You can try these methods. I wish you success in your pursuit of love.

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